this is utterly unimportant but is this a safe space to say the hetero jessica meme did not need a feminist retelling. "this guy is talking to me about twinks in panties and he thinks I don't know who john waters is"....well no. he was making a point about bisexuality letting him move between gay and straight culture in a way that sometimes creates strange juxtapositions. he doesn't think he's special for knowing about john waters he is just different than your average straight man bc of that. and crucially he was not saying any of this to ms hetero jessica at all.














