Final Concept Reflection
I told Reilly that I learned a lot about gender socialization. I knew that both girls and boys are taught to behave a certain way but I could never find a name for it. I also learned a lot about male gender socialization because I had never really seen socialization from a male perspective before, since I have only grown up knowing how females are socialized. She said that she was also surprised to learn about how much pressure boys face to be tough and how this has impacted the level of violence in society.
Reilly said that she learned a lot about gender socialization this semester as well. She noticed that there are many other ways that people are socialized other than in school and with peers. She also learned that there are many small details that go into socialization and often times it is hard to even notice them. Learning about gender socialization helped expand her mindset.
Both Reilly and I agreed that the information that we learned in class is important because it will be beneficial to us for the rest of our lives. We also both agreed that Tough Guise opened our eyes to the fact that boys have to fight social pressures that are just as harsh as the ones set for women. Except it may not be as evident because they are taught to suppress their emotions. However, while the documentary Tough Guise drew my attention. the movie Crash stood out more to Reilly. Tough Guise was an eyeopener to me because I had not realized how much pressure boys were under to conform to society. Reilly said that Crash had more of an impact on her because she was able to identify different types of discriminators in the movie and could now probably point them out in everyday life.
Reilly and I had very similar opinions about the subjects in Sociology. If I had to discuss the topics of this class with someone who had a different opinion from me I would listen to their opinions and perspectives. I know people are more open to listen to other people’s opinions when they are allowed to give their own input. I think that it is important for people with different opinions to talk with one another because that is how problems are solved. There is no way that one person can see life from every perspective and experience every lifestyle. If many people talk to one another, it is more likely that they have had different experiences and have different inputs about certain topics. This will help expand the available knowledge about a topic. If people with different opinions communicate with one another then they may bring up points that the other side may have never thought about. If people with the same opinions only talked to one another about issues then it would be difficult to find faults that need to be fixed because no one would bring up problems with the information that they have been given.












