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The internet is losing its collective mind over these adorable new cat paw cups that have been released by Starbucks China. The cups feature double walls so that the inner shape looks like a cat’s paw dipping into the cup, as well as a cute cherry blossom design on the outer glass.
The cups were only just released on Tuesday, but there have already been reports of arguments and even fistfights in various Starbucks locations across China as collectors try to score one for themselves. These adorable cups are also available online for a limited time, get yours HERE.
Catch me throwing hands with a 90 year old woman to get me one of these
Mine just came in the mail and yes I am losing my mind 😂
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woman seeking woman. i’m six feet tall, fashionable, and enjoy long walks through brackish estuary water off the coast of virginia
She’s our most famous cryptid
The bae in the bay
The Chesapeake Bae
I hope the next thing I get addicted to is taking care of my self and loving my body
here’s a hard pill to swallow: abuse does not just exclusively occur in romantic or family relationships. friends can be just as toxic to your physical and mental wellbeing as a partner or a family member. also, the aftermath of being in an abusive friendship can be just as traumatizing as any other abusive relationship. don’t boo me i’m right
for some reason people don't know this but toxic friends can mirror all the same behaviors as seen in an abusive romantic partner. i will use my own story of my ex-high school best friend who abused me for several years. signs of abuse include but are not limited to:
Humiliating or embarrassing you - my ex-best friend LOVED to try and make me squirm in any way possible to see my reaction. once she went up to a guy and told him i had a crush on him to watch me struggle to explain myself
Unreasonable jealousy - if i so much as went to hang out with any of my other friends i would have to let my ex-best friend know beforehand. i pretty much had to get her permission to see other people or she would be convinced that i was ‘ditching her forever’
Refusing to communicate - if she was ever angry with me or upset she would never tell me that so we could talk about it. instead, she would ignore me or respond to all my texts with ‘k’ or ‘ya’ and i would have to struggle for hours to get her to tell me what was wrong
Ignoring or excluding you - she would ignore me for weeks at a time as a ‘punishment’ knowing that it would eat me up inside wondering what i did wrong. i still remember spending nights wide awake crying in bed because i didn’t know what to do
Mean jokes or constantly making fun of you - she would constantly poke fun at my appearance and personality to where my self-confidence plummeted. god help me if i ever said anything about her though
Saying things like “If you don’t _____, I will_____.” - she would constantly threaten to kill herself if i didn't do what she wanted
Guilt trips - she never apologized once to me in our seven-plus years of being friends. not once. every time we argued i would be the one who apologized in the end. once when i stood up to her and called her out on treating me like crap she would make up a story of how her life was miserable and that i was making things worse
Isolating you from friends and family - been mentioned before but she was extremely jealous of all my other relationships and would override my plans with other people on purpose and would guilt trip me if i still went to see them
Domination and control - also mentioned before but i needed her permission on everything. if i joined any group or extracurricular activity without her knowing she would be furious
Extreme moodiness - after ignoring me for weeks she would contact me out of the blue and act as if nothing happened. she would also refuse to talk about why she ignored me for so long and did not care if my mental health suffered from it
anyway, abusive friendships need to be acknowledged more than they are because they are not only extremely common but also very damaging to someone’s mental health. i personally had to go through years of therapy to unlearn the guilt and self-hatred that my ex-friend helped instill in me. stay safe yall
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Relationships don’t take your anxiety away Relationships don’t take your depression away Relationships don’t stop the bad thoughts Relationships don’t stop your mental illnesses
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*laughs* this is so bizarre and weirdly adorable
I agree that part of the reason why cops are at Pride is to prevent LGBT people from rioting again, but I think this really ignores the role of race and class.
It’s easier for white and upper-class LGBT people to discourse about if straight people belong at Pride and if cishet celebrities should perform at pride or not, but many white LGBT people support the presence of cops at Pride because they think cops are their to protect them from bigoted protestors.
People like to cite “the first pride was a riot” when referencing Stonewall, but they love to ignore the context of Stonewall. It wasn’t just “gay people” who were rioting, it was a specific community of LGBT people: Black and Latina trans women, sex workers, and LGBT people of color. All of them were from working-class backgrounds.
There has always been a tension between the nonwhite, working-class components of the LGBT community and the upper-class, white components. It’s the white/upper-class components that tend to be more transmisogynisic and more hateful toward sex workers. It’s the white/upper-class components that historically disparaged gay bars and gay clubs. It’s the white/upper-class components that historically refused to participate in gay agitation and on-the-grounds protest. And now it’s the white/upper-class components that: 1) support the presence of cops at pride, 2) celebrate LGBT inclusion in the military, 3) think that gay cops and soldiers are a sign of progress, 4) are okay with corporations having floats and advertisements at Pride, 5) disapprove of BLM and Indigenous groups protesting imperialism and white supremacy at Pride, 6) tend to be more politically conservative and overtly racist, and 7) support white saviorism, imperialism, and display an orientalist attitude toward nonwhite and nonwestern cultures (e.g. claiming that nonwestern people are more inclined to be homophobic and that western countries are more progressive).
I am not making any of this up. Let’s take a look at history first, shall we? Here is a paper that describes racism at gay bars and clubs on Castro Street, San Francisco, a historical place of gay community building and activism.
Here is an image that I think is relevant as well:
This image is a comic from the 1986 issue of “Bi women: The Boston Bisexual Women’s Network Newsletter”. It’s clearly highlighting a tension between LGBT people who work for big businesses and corporations and LGBT people who are anticapitalists and anti-corporations.
Here is the recording of Sylvia Rivera’s famous “Y’all Better Quiet Down” speech. The link includes a transcript of the speech. In the speech she criticizes white, cis LGB people for being violently racist and transmisogynistic and for supporting assimilation over revolutionary liberation. She critiques the bureaucratic nature of elitist white-dominated LGBT organizations that usurp the labor of trans WOC and lgbt POC while also supporting causes that directly harm them.
Miss Major Griffin-Gracy, a Black trans woman and elder who was also present at Stonewall. Miss Major has always focused on trans liberation through a lens of prison abolition and community building.
You can also read this pdf describing the revolutionary actions of STAR (Street Tr*nsvestite Action Revolutionaries), the famous organization founded by Marsha P. Johnson and Sylvia Rivera here.
Other examples: La Luz Journal (a journal for lesbians of color) criticized the whiteness and assimilationist politics of pride, Ray Navarro wrote an article criticizing racism and antiblackness at Pride and in the community for the 1989 issue of Out Week, and Barbara Smith wrote an essay criticizing LGBT inclusion in the military in 1998.
Some of the historical LGBT activists were actively committed to anti-imperialism and severely criticized assimilationist politics in the LGBT community. This includes Leslie Feinberg, Audre Lorde, James Baldwin, June Jordan, and Brenda Howard, among countless others who clashed with imperialists and assimilationists not just outside of the community but within the community as well.
Let’s now look at contemporary LGBT politics.
Plenty of white LGBT people support the presence of cops at Pride, and often clash with Black Lives Matter protestors who protest against the presence of cops at Pride. In June of 2017, for example, a mainstream LGBTQ group facilitated the arrest of Black Queer activists who were protesting at Pride and refused to apologize. #NoJusticeNoPride halted the parade in Washington DC in 2017 because DC Pride is actively funded and supported by corporations and organizations that fuel the settler colonial genocide of Indigenous people in the US & North America. In April of 2017, members of Trans Queer Pueblo faced racist and xenophobic backlash at Phoenix Pride when they protested in the name of rights for undocumented LGBTQ immigrants.
Another example of white LGBT racism is white same-gender couples joining white straight couples in exploiting women of color and nonwestern women in the name of adoption and surrogacy. Laura Briggs discuses the role of gay and lesbian couples in the transnational and transracial adoption industry in her book. Perhaps the most notorious contemporary example is the Devonte Hart case. Devonte Hart’s parents were white lesbians who adopted him and his siblings (all of whom were Black). A photo of Devonte hugging a cop in Portland, Oregon, was used as a symbol of “community harmony” by white people. The fact that his white lesbian mothers were passing around that photo as an example of “good cops” was suspicious enough. Tragically, it was revealed that Hart’s mothers were extremely abusive toward their children, and that the abuse was racially motivated, and this racist abuse culminated in the murder of Devonte and three of his siblings.
Here is an article that describes the antiblack myths regarding Black people who grow up in working-class environments in Chicago and here is another article that describes the symbolism of “pink capitalism” in Atlanta, Georgia. The role of people of color in establishing marriage equality in the US is often erased.
An entire theory to describe the galvanization of white supremacy, capitalism, and imperialist assimilation in the LGBT community post 9/11 was coined by Jasbir Puar, and is termed homonationalism. White LGBT people balk at the term and often call it homophobic, but plenty of examples of it exist (x, x). Because of both racism and homonationalism, as another example, refugees from nonwestern countries who want to gain asylum in Western nations are often asked to “prove” that they are actually gay, based on the stereotypes that people from those cultures are all homophobic and regressive and straight (read this academic paper that describes this phenomenon occurring in Canada).
Here is another paper on transnational queer solidarity and two lists of readings related to homonationalism and pinkwashing.
In short, I definitely agree that cops have a vested interest in controlling LGBT activism and preventing anti-cop agitation, but this falls on racial and class lines as well, and white/upper-class LGBT people have historically and currently contribute to this problem as well, and we cannot ignore that.
Everyone needs to understand that the capitalist class would rather kill all life on Earth, including, ultimately themselves, then give up their money or their power. This isn’t a hypothetical thing, by the way; the oil companies have already made that choice.
this really really isn’t exaggeration because every single time legislation is introduced that would protect the environment, protect workers, protect human health or make products more effective, business owners fight it tooth and nail and that includes when it can be mathematically proven to have either a negligible effect on their profits or even make them more money in the long run after taking a MINUTE, temporary hit. They don’t even want to do better later. They want every single fucking penny they’re able to get today, and only today, no matter who loses a home or gets cancer or what goes completely fucking extinct. This is almost universally true. When you find a huge monopoly willing to let one thing get better you’ll almost always find that they’re doing ten worse things to make up the money and complied with the one nice gesture so they can look good and attract more customers. This isn’t “conspiracy theory” shit but all out in the open.