In this fandom, it seems as if all the characters in acotar can be affected by their tramua expect for Rhysand.
This man JUST got back to his court after sacrificing his life for 50 years. FIFTY YEARS!!!!!!!!!!!!! For their safety
He found a mate just to watch her DIE and be taken from him twice.
Hybern found the night court after all that sacrificing and magic he put into keeping it a secret.
He had to go into another war with his people dying.
His mate was going to die (AGAIN) with his child. He can feel guilty, hurt, and protective.
He feels everything that Feyre feels deeply. When Feyre is upset at someone or something he feels it too.
And NOW it’s another war looming over him and he has to make decisions for his court again.
I’m sorry but extend Rhysand the same graces you extend to other characters. Other characters can be moody, mean, sharp, use situations against each other. And we give them an out because they are hurting and traumatized
But Rhysand is where people draw the line. No matter how wrong Rhysand was for keeping Feyre pregnancy risk away from her, nesta was just as wrong for throwing her own sisters risk of DEATH in her face out of spite. Which nesta admitted herself.
You can’t allow other characters to be motivated and controlled by their tramua and than dismiss others feelings and emotions. Rhysand is just as traumatized as the next person. He can make mistakes and everyone can be upset about it, of course, but keep that same energy with everyone else. If nesta can say that she will slit her own sisters throat and y’all forgive or dismiss that, THAT! Among other horrible things and give her a chance to grow and change than why don’t y’all offer that same grace to others
Rhysand got me into this series and I’m able to admit that he makes mistakes just like the next person and I will literally fight for him. You can Block me.