[anxietyproblem]

[alexxxaddictions]

“You don’t get to pick and choose which parts of her to love. She is- there are no good parts or bad parts- she is a whole. You choose all or leave her alone.”

— (via beside-the-illusion)

[ambidextrousace]

When I was younger my mom always told me to respect my boundaries and do things in my own pace regarding relationships, kissing and sex. She told me that I never had to do anything I wasn’t ready for.

What she didn’t tell me, and what I want to tell all of you, is that it is okay if you are never ready for those things. They are not milestones you have to reach in your life. Do things only if you want to. And if that’s never, it’s never.

[clairemccartney]

Let’s all take a moment and thank modern family for this

[thegoodvybe]

[sandandglass]

[natalie-mars]

I don’t reblog much, but this is too well said not to.

[themayfieldtreasury]

This always gets a reblog.

[cdeine-crzy]

[i-hate-the-beach]

girls this is important as fuck

[chunkymouse]

I will never not reblog this. Nothing is more important than this. Remember it always. 

[sithbbyy-deactivated20230228]

this needs to be signal boosted for all to see.

[quiet-savior]

This goes for lgbtqia relationships too kids.

[delirious-comfort]

^ What quiet-savior said.

[nanfkwnfb-deactivated20250427]

[adhd-alien]

Heyo! I noticed a lot of people had trouble reading this because of the amount of text / size so I cut it down for y’all!

How to help a student with ADHD

[adhd-alien]

How ADHD can influence relationships and friendships. Not everyone with ADHD is the same so cross out what applies to you and your relationships ❤️

[extramadness]

[buddasmom07]

Just a reminder to myself and others.

[six2vii]

[lesbianfreyja]

what’s with the weird stigma that being closeted is okay but only if it would be physically unsafe for you to come out? coming out is YOUR business, if you know it would be fine & nothing would happen to you & nobody would care, but you don’t want to anyway, that’s your choice and it’s perfectly valid.

[landunderthewave]

Also this is not binary. It can be physically safe, but endanger your job/education, your living situation, your professional or personal contacts. And sometimes you just don’t know if it does.

[sylviasybil]

Do you ever just stop and think about how just being queer is immediately considered an action of deception and hiding? How weird is that, right? If a stranger walks into the room, suddenly I’m no longer out of the closet. I’ve taken no action to declare my identity one way or the other, but now I’m considered responsible for this stranger’s mis-assumption.

Coming out is continuous. You know that thing where two mirrors face each other and you can see infinite mirrors? Coming out is like walking down that mirror passage - there’s always another closet door after the one you’ve just opened, there’s always another person waiting to hold you responsible for their assumptions.

Fuck that noise. If it’s unsafe in any way for you to open the closet door, you don’t have to. If it’s completely and perfectly safe, you still don’t have to. You didn’t put that door there, you’re not responsible for anyone else’s judgments of you. Fuck that noise.

[fortitsngiggles]

Unless you hit me in the face with a brick that says “I’m flirting with you,” I’m most likely just gonna think you’re being nice.

[buddasmom07]

Me everyday of my life! My friend teases me about this all the time

[buddasmom07]

Courage to change

So much has changed in the last 2 months since we moved to South Carolina. I have an amazing job now. I spend more time with my daughter even though i work almost 50 hours a week. Our relationship is 100% better than it was. We eat out less and eat so much more healthier. I am going to the gym 2-3 times a week. I have lost almost 20 pounds. The first song on my work out playlist is P!nk's Courage. That song is amazing and has really got me moving. Life is so very good right now. I am thankful we chose to do this.

[thatdiabolicalfeminist]

controversial opinion

you are not better than fat people!

even REALLY fat people!

even fat people who don’t put a lot of time into their appearance!

even fat people who wear clothes you think are unflattering!

your appearance literally does not make you better than a fat person. you are not more fun to hang out with because you’re not fat. you are not funnier, smarter, or more interesting by virtue of not being fat. you aren’t harder working, you don’t have more self-control, you don’t have your life more together.

the only difference between you and fat people is that they have to put up with a lot of harassment, discrimination, exclusion, and other bullshit that you don’t even think about.

try not to add to it.

[thatdiabolicalfeminist]

Everyone adding “but i DO have more self control than a fat person!!” is a self righteous piece of shit who 1) knows literally nothing about fat science and 2) has been blocked. Fat people deserve respect. You have not earned the privilege you have over fat people; it’s been given to you by an unfair hierarchical society and you fuckers walking around thinking it’s a meritocracy so you can feel special need to get a fucking clue.

[thatdiabolicalfeminist]

Yes, this applies to fat people who aren’t trying to lose weight!! And fat people who eat more food than you do!! You are not better than them and acting like you are just makes you an ass.

[buddasmom07]

A little over a week ago my daughter and I decided to make a very drastic change in our lives. We packed our things and cat up to move from a small town in Missouri to South Carolina. We left behind amost all of our family and friends to try to better our lives. Deciding to move where we only knew a very small number of people. Since coming here I've already gotten a job and we are happier. My depression is lifting, my daughter and I are starting to improve our relationship. I know we still have things to work on and it wont always be easy. Things are looking up though and that is what matters. I believe this was the right decision for us and i am excited to see what wonderous new things come our way.