Ace And I Want To Be Up In Space

You can call me Bo. 20, Asexual , probably aromantic or biromantic, INFP, she/her or they/them, ambidextrous, student biomedical sciences, from The Netherlands. Let’s have a cup of tea and eat some cake while our dragons play outside.

[ambidextrousace]

Happy pride month to all aces!!! Whether you are still trying to figure out you identity, are struggling to accept your sexuality, or are happily and proudly ace, I hope you have an amazing month!

[ambidextrousace]

Stay at home!

[ambidextrousace]

Give me aroace Rey back!

[ambidextrousace]

Today is mental health day, so this is a shout out to all aces and aros dealing with mental illnesses:

You are strong.

You are lovable.

Your problems do not define you.

You aceness and/or aroness does not make you any less important.

I love you.

You can love in your own way

You are not weak for asking for help.

Please ask for help

Please talk to someone

I love you and you are beautiful and strong

[ambidextrousace]

When I was younger my mom always told me to respect my boundaries and do things in my own pace regarding relationships, kissing and sex. She told me that I never had to do anything I wasn’t ready for.

What she didn’t tell me, and what I want to tell all of you, is that it is okay if you are never ready for those things. They are not milestones you have to reach in your life. Do things only if you want to. And if that’s never, it’s never.

[alicequig]

And don’t just do something because you think your ‘ready’. Only do it when you want it so bad you can’t not, wait till you’re with a person that you want to kiss or have sex or whatever with so much that you can’t stand not doing it. If you only meet that person at 22, great! If you never meet that person that’s fine, don’t force yourself to cuz you think you should

[ambidextrousace]

Hey! I've just finished the book the solitude of prime numbers and I came across one of your post about it. aAs I was reading I thought that Mattia could be ace (and even aro) because he really didn't seem to care about sex and relationships at all but I was wondering if he was also on the autistic spectrum, what do you think ?

Hey! I really like this question. I certainly have thought about the possibility of Mattia being on the autistic spectrum and I think it would be possible. However, to me, this doesn’t exclude the possibility of him being (aro)ace. He does really care about Alice and I wish they could have known about qprs. Do you think they could have been in a qpr? You can always send me a message.

Hugs,

Bo 💜

[ambidextrousace]

When I was younger my mom always told me to respect my boundaries and do things in my own pace regarding relationships, kissing and sex. She told me that I never had to do anything I wasn’t ready for.

What she didn’t tell me, and what I want to tell all of you, is that it is okay if you are never ready for those things. They are not milestones you have to reach in your life. Do things only if you want to. And if that’s never, it’s never.

[ambidextrousace]

I am finally in a relationship and now this is more important than ever. I am lucky enough to have found a person who respects all of my boundaries and makes sure that I am okay.

[ambidextrousace]

This is the end of my queue. I will be on hiatus for the summer. Have an amaceing summer!

Hugs,

Bo💜

[thesevenumbrellas]

Me, in a trench coat and sunglasses at midnight: You errrrrrrr wana buy some respect ace/aro juice?

You: How did you get in my house!!??

[splend-aros]

Bi-Weekly Affirmation 058.

Demi-aros, you are important and a vibrant part of our community.

[amirrorcalledthemoon]

hey you guys want some fuckin uuuuuuuh bi pride?

[amirrorcalledthemoon]

hey you guys want some fuckin uuuuuuuuh pan pride?

[amirrorcalledthemoon]

hey you guys want some fuckin uuuuuuuuuh ace pride?

[amirrorcalledthemoon]

hey you guys want some fuckin uuuh aro pride?

[raavenb2619]

[ID: At the top, text reads “Literally everyone: one day you’ll meet the one, fall in love and want to have sex with them”. The next line reads “Me, an aroace:” Below is a picture of John Mulaney saying “and then I didn’t.” End ID]

[incompetentmedic]

Hey quick reminder to the other aros out there that romance is 100% optional and not necessary for a successful life because y’all are amazing and I believe in all of you.

[fuckyeahasexual]

Being ace is either feeling like the whole damn world is laughing at some REALLY funny joke which ONLY YOU just cant understand and noone is bothering to explain it to you OR feeling like you are just sitting in the corner and sipping your juice calmly while the whole world is on fire and people are running around screaming 

[avenpt]

Usually the latter.

[a-space-for-aspec]

dear aspec-ies;

you’re not annoying for talking about your identity.

you’re not ‘lying’ or ‘faking it,’ you’re aspec

you’re a part of the lgbtqa community, the a is for aspec not ally

there’s nothing wrong with being disgusted or not interested in romance or sex

you. (yes YOU) are normal.

shoutout to my aspecies, you’re all amazing and marvelous and awesome and perfectly aspec 💜🖤💚

[thisvegetabledoesntfallinlove]

Hi daily reminder that if ur aro or questioning and u hate urself about it then i get you. It’s rough. Ur allowed to feel your feelings. Our culture makes it hard to not feel like that. You’re not a bad person for feeling that way. And you’re not a bad person for being aro either. Don’t forget to drink water soon if you haven’t in a while.

[maple-and-pie]

So I heard it was Leafeon day? Naturally I had to draw the Aro Leaf