butch daddy

23 he/they

[airspud]

hey. butches. it’s okay to forget to open the car door for her. it’s okay to forget to plan things ahead. it’s okay to forget to offer a hand. it’s okay to forget to pull her chair out for her. it’s okay if you forgot to bring her flowers. it doesn’t make you any less butch. it makes you human.

“chivalry” isn’t about being the perfect gentlemen all the time. it’s about recognizing your flaws, owning up to your mistakes, and putting in the effort to do better. it’s about trying, for yourself and also for her. you can’t “do” chivalry. but you sure as hell can be chivalrous. and admitting to being imperfect is the first step :)

[airspud]

femmes ilysm i will die protecting u. your existence fuels mine. i wanna build you things n grow your favorite foods n make sure you’re drinking water. but lately my friends n i have noticed a lot of butch hate… for example, some things my butch pals n i have been criticized for by femmes:

- not wanting to be called masc (it took myself n others a long time to get here n the journey is tough so yeah uh don’t call me masc. call me butch.)

- not having more cis male friends (huh?)

- hairy body (wtf ??? lol)

- not being perfect/healed/having old patterns/wounds that we’re still working through (dude what??)

- being short (???)

- not being “stronger” (yikes)

- liking “girly” things

- not being in the mood more (we deserve support not criticism through seasons of low sex drive)

- being emotionally impacted by toxicity in friendships (???)

- being good w tools/construction bc it “encourages the notion that all butches should be handy” (sorry i like to work on my car n build furniture??)

- not ordering for femmes (i genuinely enjoy doing it but the expectation HAS to be communicated bc most femmes i know would be offended by this)

- being friends w femmes (????)

- not embracing our butch identity sooner (sometimes its literally unsafe and personally my familial relationships are permanently altered)

- being vulnerable (????)

- having long hair (the chop is a big step for a lot of butches. i am surprised more femmes don’t understand this? also u can have long hair n be butch!!)

- being impacted by brain altering medication (?? we deserve support through this too- adhd med trials are one of the worst med experiences i personally have had n the amount of criticism we’ve collectively received for not being “ourselves” while anxiety/depression/SSRIs/adhd/etc meds literally change our brain is frightening)

- on/off wanting to go on t (???? let us explore!!)

- not offering to carry things (i do love being chivalrous for femmes but we are human we get distracted sometimes)

there’s more but it bums me out. let’s be nicer pls

[cinderdyke]

secretly pervy butches are soooo attractive. i want a shy reserved butch afraid to look me in the eye, or look at me at all in case they wind up glancing at my soft cleavage or remembering some perverted fantasy they had the night before about them drinking from my tits with milk running down their chin. i want a butch quiet and polite and so sweet, a perfect gentleman pulling out chairs and grabbing doors for me and lending me their jacket in the cold, who also fantasizes about me leashing them in public and making them hump my boot in front of everyone. they'd get so embarrassed and flustered thinking about me finding out what a creepy little pervert they are with such weird fetishes, or finding out how much they have to jerk off- or how often they get turned on around me, feeling that distinct weight in their sensitive cock and growing wetness in their boxers just from me hugging them. they'd glance at my tits and ass sometimes despite themselves and they'd feel like such an embarrassing slut for it-- sure i always wear tight low-cut shirts around them that make my tits look huge and so so soft, and i bend down a lot to tie my shoes, and i dance nearly pressed against them when i'm drunk, but i wouldn't be doing any of that on purpose, i wouldn't be teasing them. they'd try jerking off more, desperate to control themselves and be respectful around me, but they'd just think about me more and more everytime they'd touch their cute little butch cock.

[thefemmesith]

Hehe if anyone likes my posts and shit and can spare any $ that'd be awesome cause I need to repay my shitty landlord for some piece he replaced in the bathroom ($20) even if his work was shitty like him... and I'd really like to make it to my x-ray appointment on the 29 cause I used any money I got on food... ko-fi

[thefemmesith]

On that note, getting some more food would be amazing.

$15/70

[thefemmesith]

$35/70

[fairygoulish]

still don't know my purpose in life but i do love titties

[butchkng]

because some of yall have no clue what I look like

[gayshitanddadjokes]

it's not clitor-YOU, it's clitor-US. take my hand.

[gayshitanddadjokes]

Nobody likes my clit post it's just clitorme against the world :'(

[2pretty-2butch]

special shout out to my stone bottoms out there

Thank you for making this stone top butch feel safe. Thank you for making me feel normal if I want to dress myself before I strap you down. Thank you for understanding the difference between laying your hands on my chest and grabbing my tits. Thank you for holding onto my shoulders, for trying to keep a steady gaze as I talk you through all of the wonderful and nasty things I'm going to do to you. Thank you for not expecting my orgasm. Thank you for not expecting the kit I was born with and, instead, worshipping what I choose to bring. Thank you for letting me become your pleasure, your pain and your devotion but most of all thank you for being you. You complete me, you all do.

[dyketales]

like are you kidding me

[credits: @/butchhmolly on instagram]

[sapphicshart]

hate how people are conflating 'butch' and 'handy' like anyone who fixes things is butch and being butch gives you mechanical skills and femmes never pick up tools. its gender essentialism 2.0 and i hate it so, so much. my butch ex couldnt fix or repair anything. im high femme and i can fix, build, or repair almost anything. cmon. dont make me a homemaker just because i wear a dress.

[vague-humanoid]

[efoxgirl]

[loserlesbi4n]

butch/femme dynamic where you go mining and collect all our resources while i stay behind to collect flowers and build our cute little house 💕👯‍♀️

[cry-my-eyes-violet]

You can be butch and not be some stoic badass. You can be femme and bE that stoic badass. You can be butch and wear earrings. You can be femme and not wear any jewelry.

Just in case someone told you otherwise.

[angelicapple]

I can't stop thinking about giving a femme a creampie using a squirting strap-on and watching the cum drip out of her pussy 🤭

[goodgirlhours4-deactivated20240]

It's the best- a squirting strap can cum several times and keep going after all! Creampie me every time you cum, please!! 😍

[queerhoneybunny-deactivated2024]

Wanna suck a girls clit for so long that when my mouth finally slips off I can gently blow against her and watch her pink little clit throb <3

[idratherdyke]

#officially adding to the to do list #check check

[femmeidiot]

grabbing a butch by their hair while they eat your pussy and using their tongue to get off reblog if you agree