🪴 POTS & Spoons 🥄

Hello~ 👋🏽 You can call me Kae/Bdc/Care. I’m a 23 year old POTSie/Spoonie and this is just my personal main blog~ . Also if you’re under 18, 𝑷𝒍𝒆𝒂𝒔𝒆, for the love of god, spend your time on another blog and DNI cause it’s very possible to stumble upon NSFW content in here 🙅🏽‍♀️🔞 . Also heads up, I like angst fics so there could also be some triggering content down below, just be careful 🌸 | 🧞‍♀️~ they/them ~🧞 she (jokingly/affectionately) . ~ Omnisexual ~ 🌸💖🌌💙💎 . ~ Girlflux ~ 🖤🐩🌸💓🌸🐩🖤 . ~ Capricorn/Aries/Virgo~ . ~ 🌞 🌜 ✨ ~ ~~~~~~~~~ ~ ♑️ ♈️ ♍️ ~ . . | Multi fandom: JJBA, MysMe, Hazbin/Helluva, Lor.Olymp, Fnaf: S.B, Undertale, Deltarune, Sonic, Bayonetta, Space Channel 5, The Stanley Parable, DDLC, Aggretsuko, Baki the Grappler, Pizza Tower, No Straight Roads, Stardew Valley, Breaking Bad/Better Call Saul, Dune (modern), Adventure Time & spin offs, Venom trilogy, Zelda, Dynasty Warriors, Resident Evil: Village, ENA/ENA Dream BBQ, Gorillaz. . Tumblr Sexy Men: Alastor, Montgomery Gator , Zen Hyun, Jumin Han, Blitzø, Rouxls Kaard, Spamton, The Narrator, Purge, Chiharu Shiba, Jack Hanma, Kaoru Hanayama, Katsumi Orochi, Doyle Hector, Pizzahead, Zuke, Alex, Sebastian, Saul/Jimmy, Feyd Raytha, Finn Mertens (29), Venom/Eddie, Ganondorf, Gan Ning, Karl Heisenberg, Suspicious man, Bunrako man, Murdoc niccals. . Current Brainrot(s): Undertale 🌌

[kyoukorpse]

motivational undyne i did for a friend in October. hope she can motivate🫵🏼 you as well.

[oh-no-its-bird]

Every time someone without warning deletes their fic, an angel loses their wings.

[butdoicaretho]

Had to reblog again because ohhhhh alll the wings that are lost right nowwww? 😭😭💔

[badlydrawnjojocomics]

commission for @keroppe6 on twitter!

like father like daughter

[shelbys-advice-blog]

Calming masterpost:

crisis/urgent support lines and sites

hotlines/crisis lines for depression, domestic abuse, alcohol and drug abuse, teens, pregnancy, lgbt and more

mental support community - a forum where you can post that you are in a crisis right now and need peer support as soon as possible

imalive crisis chat - online one-on-one chat for if you’re in at risk of hurting yourself etc

self harm alternatives

si urges alternatives

relaxation/anxiety relief

do nothing for two minutes

interactive silk art

guided relaxation

watch a dream

100,000 stars

thisissand - create sandscapes on your screen with your mouse

calming gif

the quiet place project

the quiet place - find some quiet

the thoughts room - a super calm page to unburden yourself from bad thoughts

the comfort spot - a place for anonymous venting with out anybody judging you for who you are

the dawn room - my personal favourite, especially good for when you feel alone

know that it will be okay - when a moment is too hard for you - come here.

music and sounds

my anxiety relief playlist - on 8tracks

my positivity/recovery playlist - on 8tracks

‘stay strong’ playlists - on 8tracks

coffee shop sounds

rain sounds

calmsound - nature sounds

rainycafe

comfort food

one minute cookie in a mug

brownie in a mug

several cookie recipes

25 hot chocolate recipes

loads and loads of snacks - 533 quick and easy recipes for a range of snacks on studentrecipe

lots of different in-a-mug recipes

chocolate pudding in a mug - my personal fave (lil tip: add mini marshmallows for extra gooey yumminess)

advice and tips

how to be okay with yourself

25 resolutions

life hacks

more life hacks

a hella ton more life hacks - so many life hacks dude soon ur gonna never have a day-to-day stress again

school masterpost - school sucks so bad but hopefully this can help ease the stress

how to love yourself

how to bypass restricted wifi omg

alleviate menstrual cramps

boost your confidence

love yourself!

self help after anxiety

stop biting your nails

stop procrastinating

stop skipping breakfast

videos and movies

cure to sadness (video)

the movie blog - a blog dedicated to movie masterposts you will never be without a movie to watch again

cute roulette - THE BEST PLACE ON THE INTERNET ITS LITERALLY JUST A HUGE ROULETTE OF VIDEOS OF CUTE ANIMALS WHAT MORE COULD YOU WANT FROM LIFE

random acts of kindness caught on film

disney movies

movies for angsty teens

distractions etc

rice questions - answer simple questions and donate free rice to people in poverty!!

click to give - just click a button to donate (it costs nothing) food to animals shelters, people in poverty and homeless veterans; mammograms to fight breast cancer; therapy for people on the autism spectrum; alzheimer’s and diabetes research; a book to a child; protect wildlife habitat

break something - good for anger

loads of cute games

how to make a blanket nest

learn something new - a masterpost of hobbies

exercise like a superhero

nice words

things to do when your sad

slap a bald guy with an eel - this is ridiculously entertaining

watch a dog lick your screen - it loops, so you could literally watch for hours if you want

calmingmanatee

daily puppy

how to make a comfort box

download free books

extras

emergency compliment!

lots of compliments - they even include ur name aw

huge list of bloggers who have put themselves forward as willing to listen/chat without judgement

getting anon hate?

:) tag - all the posts that i’ve tagged for making me happy

7cupsoftea - free, anonymous, confidential talks with trained listeners

get a hug

Calming songs, playlists and instrumentals:

Sing Me to Sleep

The Boulevard of Broken Dreams

Boost your Mood (peppier and happy songs)

The Driving Mixtape

Study

Summer Nights

It’s Going to be Fine

Calm & Collected

Once Upon a December - Piano (song)

Clair de Lune (song)

The Moon is a Harsh Mistress (song)

Calming/distracting Websites

The Quiet Place

Rainymood.com

Calm.com

Soundrown.com - calming sounds to mix and match

A website to distract yourself

A recovery masterpost

A post of interesting things

Ungruntle yourself

Press a magic button and fix everything

Play cute games

Almost every movie your little heart desires (i suggest you use with adblocker)

How to love yourself

A website that compliments you

Crafts and activities, easy and fun DYI projects

Glitter calm jars

A list of things to do to curb anxiety

Make a blanket nest

Silky summer legs

Lots of food recipes; mostly desserts  

For bad days masterpost

Make some microwave snacks

Five minute fudge

Make a phone case

A bunch of hobbies!

Self care list!

Pretty gold-dipped feathers (for decorating or anything)

What to do when:

You’ve been triggered

You’re having an anxiety attack

You’re having a panic attack

Your face is red and puffy after crying

You just had a fight

You hate yourself

You want to avoid being stressed

You want to get over your ex

Meditation and breathing

Guided Meditations

Do Nothing for 2 Minutes

Calm Down

Meditation Tips

90 second relaxation exercise

Simple things

Pretty Tree

When You Feel You Have Lost Everything

See Some BLOOD

Press a Button to Make Everything OK

Calming Manatee

Calming Gif

Make Something!

Jump into a Sofa Fort!

Make a Comfort Box

Glitter Jar Or This One

Other Nice Things

A Page To Help You Recover!!!

Coping Skills & Distractions

The Quiet Place. Shhhhh

For When You’re Upset

The Nicest Place on the Internet

Player 2

10 Most Relaxing Online Games

Talk To Someone That Will Listen

Not Having a Good Day?

How-to Love Yourself

Ground Yourself X X  X

Mood Chart

Do Nothing For Two Minutes

Rainymood

The Comfort Spot

Weave Silk

Seed Plant Breeder

This Is Sand

C.A.L.M

Calming/Relaxing Music:

Soft Piano: x, x, x, x, x

The Sound of Waves: x

The Sound of a Storm + Waves: x

[fillsyouwithdirtysins]

Just reblogging these. Stay safe, my American followers. And you have my condolences.

[lovely-kitsune-exe]

Me: *apperently very attractive*

Also Me: *in love with fictional characters*

[howtobeapersonwithfibro]

I’ve needed this lately, so I bet you do too:

Reminder that you’re not lazy for spending so much time in bed. When you’re chronically/mentally ill, you need to rest and be as comfortable as possible. 

When you’re up to it, you can do some useful things while in bed, and that’s not lazy either – it’s just accommodating yourself. Sending emails/texts, snacking/drinking water, reading/watching entertainment – all of these things are good to do without having to move. Stay busy as much as you can to fight off the funky feelings.

But don’t let anyone (including yourself) make you feel bad for spending all day in bed. Sometimes, it’s exactly the place you need to be.

[neogeopet]

tamagotchi paradise ? ! ? ! 🐬🌴🌺🌐🌟

[bee2124]

When tumblr refreshes itself and the fic I was reading fucking disappears forever 💔

I’ve been searching for a smau I was reading for three days 😔

[venom-princess-deactivated20250]

[uvb76fan]

This is literally how you actually improve ADHD symptoms btw

[entamewitchlulu]

@theimaginatrix27 alt text:

You need to be slow maxxing. you need to be reading long, fat books. you need to be making 48 chocolate chip cookies. you need to spend hours watching wildlife. you need to spend 15 minutes making coffee. You need to breathe in and out. you need to be slowwwwwww

[glitchedgirly]

LOVE OF MY LIFE PLEASE COME BACK

[autistic-michael-queerler]

staff should be legally obligated to hold a poll as to whether a change would be enjoyed or not before they do it

[supa-mehyro]

WHAT THE FUCK IS THIS

[nonetoon]

Will websites implode on themselves if they don’t move the buttons around every month or what

[banananloop]

This new mobile UI change is truly horrendous and I’ve been on this hellsite since like 2011:

The reblog button is in the middle?? The least accessible spot. And it now takes 3 clicks to reblog something instead of 2

Harder to see how many total notes a post has. Have to click on the comments button to see comments and previous reblogs OR click on reblog and then another click

Why the FUCK is the share button where the like button used to be? Visually a nightmare. A nightmare for my muscle memory

I hate it I hate it I hate it

[changes]

A new way to see activity on your posts

Tumblr runs on likes, reblogs, comments, and all of the little ways a post takes on a life of its own. Until now, those interactions were bundled together as “notes”.

Now, on web (and soon on the Tumblr app!), we’re giving you more details right on the post:

Separate counts for likes, reblogs, and comments, so you can see at a glance what kind of activity a post is getting, and if there’s chatter in the comments or the reblogs, you’ll know right away.

The reblog button opens more options, including Add to queue (previously Fast Queue).

The total notes count is still available on every post’s permalink page (just tap the header to get there).

Why the change? We want to make it easier to follow the conversations happening around posts. Separating likes, reblogs, and comments lets you quickly see whether a post is sparking discussion, taking off in reblogs, or simply stacking up likes.

💫 -The Tumblr team

[changes]

Edit and delete buttons are back

We heard you. Many of you told us you missed having edit and delete buttons right on your posts, and we get it. They made it quicker to fix a typo, tweak a tag, or remove a post entirely.

So, we brought them back. You’ll now see edit and delete options on web right where you expect them to be.

Thanks for sharing your feedback and for caring enough to tell us when something doesn’t feel right. Tumblr is always evolving, and your input helps us make it better every step of the way.

[butdoicaretho]

“Yeah we heard you, we’re gonna completely ignore all the other vast complaints that y’all didn’t want the interface change in the first place and no we won’t move the reblog button back, or recombine the notes”

Y’all this update SUCKS 🥹💔💔💔💔💔

I’m so mad my phone auto updated Tumblr like wtf bro why did y’all do that to my notes 😭💀

[radbirdtheorist]

We tagging our shi wrong again, why am I looking for angst and I'm seeing straight smut? Like I specifically said ANGST

[twilightofthesandwiches]

Man, this line is already pretty sad when you think, like, this is Minerva wanting to vicariously live through her son, wanting him to have both the Physical Organic Experiences that she can't have anymore...

...And also have the relationship experiences that she doesn't feel like she'd ever have again...

But then you also think about how a few years after this scene, Jake died, and Finn's only coping mechanism was to dissociate from everything... He spent years just going through the motions of what used to make him happy but actually just wasting time until he can finally die...

And, like, at least things got better for him after this episode. He didn't need Huntress Wizard to go out dancing or attend Peebs' Gumbo Festival with him, but it did really help him to know that he's loved.

But.... We also know that on some level, he never resolved that problem completely...

In "Together Again", he wanted to reincarnate because he felt like he missed on so much of his life due to the overwhelming nature of his grief.

Regression and the sometimes cyclical nature of the healing process has been a huge theme this season, it makes sense to me that Finn's attempts to keep on Living after Jake was less of One Singular Problem that was resolved by a True Love's Kiss...

And more of an ongoing process of ups and downs as Finn keeps on struggling to truly live that didn't resolve until 'Together Again'.

I dunno if I am just really really sad thinking about how at the end of the day, Finn, despite his exciting lifestyle and cheerful demeanor, did end up losing so many years that could've been joyous to his depression...

Or if I should simply appreciate that despite it all, with the help of Fionna and Huntress Wizard, there were still times where Finn got to once again be really alive.

[butdoicaretho]

Can you imagine being sick and Huntress wizard brewing up some mythical herbal tea to help you feel better?

She’s all prickly about it and annoyed you’re sick in the first place but you can tell she’s worried and cares.

Idk I just feel like that’s totally something she would do ✨🍃🤎.