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dykebluejay

i’m your girl boyfriend i’m your boy girlfriend i’m your girlboy bestie and i’m never gonna die

#mishacore

kx0e

the subway saga !

(if you want the full context you can go check my instagram and the highlight called run)

* hot sauce

remyvqq

sorry

czowwlart

Incorrect quote + College AU

mstrchu

mornings in liyue

side couples > main couple

florakinesis-deactivated2017102

s/o to ppl with intrusive thoughts that aren’t just like “eat sand” or “trample ur neighbor’s garden” but are really fucked up and immoral like u guys aren’t terrible just cuz the thought comes into ur mind doesnt mean u like it or want to do it i hope something good happens to u today

#ty op

does anyone have advice for raising kittens

#cats

darkvveb

here's to the people whose trauma didn't make them kind and soft. here's to the people who hardened, who had to turn cold in order to survive. here's to the people who had to become cruel or maybe even violent just to keep themselves safe.

you're not monsters. you did what you had to do to make it out. and you did. you survived. and i hope you can find healing. i love you.

ms-demeanor

Hey you know how I said I was going to make a workbook on the kind of bullshit you need to do when someone you love dies? I actually did that.

HERE IS THE VERSION WITH LOTS OF SWEARING AT THE USELESS, SHITTY SITUATION YOU’RE IN.

HERE IS THE VERSION WITH A FAIR AMOUNT OF BLACK HUMOR BUT NO CURSEWORDS.

Featuring Helpful Sections such as:

Death Certificates – What you need, why you need them, and how to get them

Prepare to spend a long and miserable time on the phone

What the Everloving Fuck is Probate

Some Simple Dos and Don’ts

Shitty Mad Libs – Templates for writing Obituaries and Memorials

How to plan a non-religious death party

So you suddenly have to become some sort of hacker or some shit

This is an eighteen page book that you can print out, download, share, and give away; it is meant to be used to collect information about funeral planning and account management after a death OR you can use it BEFORE you die and give people information so they’re not stuck playing Nancy Fucking Drew while trying to keep seventeen cousins who crawled out of the woodwork from gutting each other in front of the fucking casket as they argue about who’s inheriting grandma’s favorite dentures.

It’s not exactly cheerful and it’s full of things that are probably going to feel really fucking raw if you’re processing a fresh death.

I’m sorry! I love you! Death is shitty! I’m trying to laugh about it a little and I hope you can laugh a little too because otherwise we’re all just going to cry together.

Good luck!

(in memory of my weirdo mother and her weirdo siblings who all died too fucking young and left me holding this flaming bag of dogshit)

saffronhare

This is so radically kind, thank you

ms-demeanor

You’re welcome!

Life is short, kindness is what we’ve got.

When my mom died it wasn’t exactly unexpected but it was still sooner than we all thought it would happen. It was a huge punch in the guts and the thought of making things and not being able to show her and share them with her still hurts but in that first month it was like drowning.

So I made this for her, and shared it with and showed it to other people who are hurting, because my momma didn’t raise a quitter but she sure did raise a softhearted fool who wants everyone to feel a little more loved and a little more worthy and a little less alone.

I love you. Take care. Be kind.

gothiccharmschool

This is important, useful, and so very damn kind.

benadryllboy

[ID: a series of images at the top of the post of different people looking distressed. The images say, “So you’re confronting your own morality. Preparing for the end. Or some dipshit up and died and now I’m stuck dealing with this mess.” /end ID]

cgogs

hypixel released a statement on their site, if you wish to read it. it says that there's going to be a techno memorial in hypixels lobby for players to write their names to be gifted to techno's family.