Jun 2
the secret cheat code for women is realizing you dont have to date men
this doesnt just go for lesbians it goes for bi women and straight women too. i cant even count how many times straight women have told me “i wish i was a lesbian so i didnt have to date men” but guess what … u Dont have to date men
to be clear this also isnt necessarily saying ‘go date women instead!!’ its just saying…. u dont have to date men. u dont have to be dating women in order to not date men! in fact if ur not attracted to women at all please dont date women just as a substitute for men. but if dating men isnt making u happy… u dont have to do that. u dont have to make a space in ur life for men
#I love seeing this post pop up on my dash#it was a big eye opener for me when I was debating on whether I was a lesbian or not in high school#I identified as bi for most of it#but seeing this post gave me such a sense of relief that really made me consider that I actually did not want to date men lol#so big shoutout to this post for kicking my dyke awakening into high gear ❤️
