it hurts SO much to not use my typing quirk but hertzy said it was for CONVENIENCE or whatever.
⤷ᯓ★ˎˊ˗ hi! im c00lkidd! but you could call me ash / ashy , ember , or some kind of genderneutral fire related name!
🍪 they/he, fae/faer , xae/xaem . cassgender with a side of agender. yeah im a woke kid whatcha gonna do about it?
🍪 age slider, usually either 10-11 or 15
🍪 SRCMATES AND DOUBLES PLS INTERACT!!! NO PROMISES ILL ANSWER BUT YKK!!!!!
🍪 kind of canon compliant ? it’s complicated cause i gots a lot of stuffz going on that canon me doesn’t
🍪 i usually talk in l33tsp34k (leetspeak yk) and i dont usually add in a plain text version so be warned ig ?
🍪 endo neutral , i prefer we don’t tak about it though
🍪 papa / dad is 7n7! father and mother are… i don’t wanna talk about them.
B0UND4R13S
🍭 i don’t mind sourcetalk but like maybe add a warning for stuffz about my past n all </3 and for my dad too </3 nothing personal to 7n7 fictives and such , just got non canon trauma kind off </3
🍭 i shouldn’t have to say this but like . no sex jokes and shit??? im a child?? even then we’re bodily minor???
🍭 no jokes about abandonment???? i have trauma from that shit + small neglect / abandonment from 7n7 from exotrauma ????
🍭 dont joke about things that happened in forsaken and shit unless i do </3 idk my brains weird like that teehee
🍭 don’t bring up syscourse and discourse and stuffz . let me be a whimsical kid </3
🍭 dont treat me like an rp blog. im a real
kid with real feelings and trauma. that shouldnt need to be said.
DN1 4ND TH1N 1C3
🍬 basic dni , bigots and all
🍬 7n7 n me shippers??? that’s just plain gross??? that’s my DAD????
🍬 AI SUPPORTERS NO EXPLANATION NEEDED
🍬 HONESTLY JUST DONT BE AN ASSHOLE TO ANYONE???
🍬 thin ice: me , pr3typriincess shippers . i see her as my best friend and just that . and literally dni if you ship me bluu and pr3ty with anyone else
🍬 thin ice: anyone 18+ . nothing against y’all just. yk im a Kid
T4G SYST3M
#the devil's talking - me yapping about jackshit no one cares about
#c00lartz - drawinf stuffz??? ig??
#c00laskers - ask stuff
#i'm telling dad! - vent stuff
#toybox - save / fave tag
i’ll maybe add more as i go. for now peace shitheads!
Let’s be honest here, communicating during a spiral can feel near impossible.
Your brain is screaming, your body’s on fire, your thoughts are sprinting to every worst-case scenario you can think of.
You want to say what’s wrong but all that comes out is panic, blame, or silence.
So what do you do?
Step 1: Notice the Spiral.
The moment you feel yourself slipping, beginning to panic, desperate to beg for reassurance or lash out, name it. Acknowledge what is happening.
“I think I’m spiraling.”
That one sentence buys you clarity. It creates a pause.
Step 2: Pick a Clear Sentence.
When you’re in the thick of it, don’t overexplain. Keep it simple and kind. I personally find it helpful to plan out sentences in advance since I know what type of things I tend to feel during spirals.
“I’m having a lot of big feelings right now and I don’t want to take it out on you.”
“I’m scared and I don’t know what to do. Can we check in later when I’m calmer?”
“I need comfort, but I’m struggling to ask gently.”
Step 3: Delay the Damage.
If you feel the urge to text something extreme, try redirecting that energy or practicing urge surfing.
Write it down somewhere private
Set a timer for 15 minutes
Do one grounding thing (cold water, movement, breathing)
You don’t have to respond perfectly. You just have to create some space so that you can avoid making the spiral worse. (I know I spiral more if I accidentally give into an urge.)
Step 4: Come Back to Repair.
Spirals happen. Even with all the skills in the world. So if things got messy, that doesn’t mean all is lost.
You can say:
“I was overwhelmed earlier and I reacted from fear. I’m sorry.”
“Here’s what I needed. I want to work on asking for it more gently next time.”
Making plans together to recognize triggers and how to handle situations in the future can be helpful. Instead of punishing yourself, learning from it and accepting mistakes happen.
A spiral doesn’t make you unworthy. Communication in distress takes practice and you aren’t a failure if you don’t get it or fall back sometimes. You are not a disaster. You are someone learning how to stay kind even when your brain is screaming.
And I think that’s admirable honestly. Give yourself more credit.
🪻» "and when i water the roses, i can't trust you to stay."
˚₊ · »-♡→ Hi! I’m Two Time! You can call me Nightshade!
🍇 » they / them mostly , occasionally xe / xem . non-binary and achillean
🍇 23-25 y.o , bodily a minor
🍇 single, looking for an azu >///<
🍇 srcmates feel free to interact !! doubles iwc (nothing against you all !! i just get a lil uncomfy sometimes is all,,,,)
🍇 endo neutral , would rather not bring it up tho
🍇 same sys with and caretaker of @c00lkidds-purgatory !
☔️ » "rain or shine, i'm by your side, so why won’t you look my way?"
Boundaries ;
🌧️ don’t rlly mind srctalk but would prefer if there were TWs for stuff abt my past
🌧️ would prefer if the spawn cult / spawnism in gen would not be brought up ^^ while i do still occasionally turn to the spawn i would rather not hear about it (esp the drama)
🌧️ don’t bring up syscourse and stuff
🌧️ feel free to dm any time but be warned it might take a while , talking to ppl scare us sometimes , mostly when it’s dms .. asks are easier for us
🥩 » "grab a plate, have a taste, 这口味让我陶醉! i’m still preying on a butcher's vein!"
DNI and Thin Ice ;
🍽️ basic dni , bigots and stuff
🍽️ pro / dark ship . while i do believe in being able to ship what you want (as long as it’s LEGAL) , some things are overboard in that community
🍽️ ai supporters … if you are recovering from ai use you’re fine because we are too but like … blegh
🍽️ the actual weird people running the real spawnism cults
🍽️ thin ice ; spawnists (the insane ones) > please get help. talk to someone about this.
🍽️ thin ice ; pizzatime , secondchance , decoydagger shippers and stuff. nothing against the ship or the shippers , it js makes me uncomfy ^^
🎤 » "the days go by so uniformly, tightly controlled and determined for me, yeah!"
Tag System ;
💫 #everything that i can say is spoken for me ~ text posts
💫 #i don't get the messages! they don't come to me! ~ asks
