9 Things I learned in London
Welp. The time has come. As my semester abroad comes to a close, I find myself disparaged at leaving, yet incredibly excited to come home to my family for the holidays. I also find myself reflecting not on the things I've done or seen, but on the things I've learned.
I've learned many things here in London. I'm returning home a different person for sure.
So here are 9 things that I learned that I feel are the most important, or the most life-altering, or maybe just the things on my mind right now:
1. My parents prepared me well.
I was going to start this with "I learned how to be responsible," but that's not actually something I learned here.
I live with 39 other students. We're all young college kids, barely passing as adults, yet here we are, living for 3 1/2 months in a foreign country. I'm honestly not sure how to say this without sounding a bit prideful, but I'm just gonna go for it. My parents taught me how to be responsible. I know how to budget my money and not overspend. I know how to keep myself safe when I'm in the city. I know how to solve a problem when presented with one. I don't need to call my parents with every little decision because I don't know what I'm doing. I call my parents because I love them and want them to know what's happening in my life, and to ask them for advice because I know that they know things better than I do. But when it comes down to it, I don't need them holding my hand because they already taught me right from wrong and how to follow the spirit. So thanks Mom and Dad. I think you taught me pretty well.
2. Packing light is worth it, even if sometimes you really wish you had a pair of slippers.
There were a few things I've wished I had, but being able to pack for 3 1/2 months in one suitcase and a backpack certainly has its perks. Also, because of my pro packing skills I have plenty of room for all my souvenirs and don't have to worry about my suitcase going over the weight limit.
3. Knowing how a circuit breaker works is an important life skill.
Random, I know. But sometimes at 12:30 in the morning you need to prevent a house fire and the only way to do that is to cut a circuit, and knowing how the whole system works makes that a lot easier. Something else my parents taught me.
4. Patience.
What more can I say? Living in the same house as 34 other girls for over 3 months is exhausting. Having seven roommates is exhausting, and I'm in one of the smaller rooms. Let me be honest: people can be exhausting. Life tip: having patience will make you a lot happier.
5. Places are great, but people are more important.
I've seen a whole bunch of really awesome stuff here, but they wouldn't be nearly as cool if I hadn't been with all my amazing fellow Londoners. Occasionally my patience has been tried, yes, but I love them. I love them so much.
6. A place is what you make it.
Even if you're in the most wonderful place in the world, you're not going to be happy if you're not grateful. I honestly believe that all good things start with gratitude. Or maybe gratitude starts good things. Either way, having a positive, grateful outlook will make any place better.
7. Being happy when you're all by yourself is really liberating.
Sometimes being with other people isn't an option. Or maybe you just don't want to be with other people. That's okay. I've gone to dinner all by myself. I've gone to the theatre all by myself. I've gone shopping all by myself. When I can't be with other people, I just enjoy my own company, and that's something I think all people should experience.
And lastly, two things that I not so much learned as realized:
8. I want to live my dreams apologetically.
I've always been really self-conscious about who I am and who people expect me to be. I've been afraid of judgement and I don't want to disappoint people. But you know what? Being a people-pleaser is a sure-fire way to never by satisfied with your life.
I am who I am, and I don't want to apologize for that. So I'm not going on a mission. Are you disappointed in me? Well don't be, because it's my life and I happen to know that a mission is not what I'm supposed to be doing. Maybe I'll go to grad school and get a PhD in psychology. Maybe I'll write a book. I don't know yet. Maybe I'll do both.
9. I want to do things that make me happy.
The last and most important realization. I want to be happy. Not exactly a new idea, I know, but I just really want to stop doing things that don't make me happy. I want to say no to things I really don't want to do. I want to say yes to things I've never done but have always wanted to try. I want to live life to the fullest.
So thanks to everyone that's still reading. Thanks for keeping up with me on this journey, for supporting me and for loving me.
Cheers, for the last time, from London.















