Why You Choose People Who Hurt You ❤️🩹
You grew up in similar situations to the behavior they are showing you, so it feels "normal."
You might have low self esteem and feel like you don't deserve better.
You believe you can change the person. This has more to do with you than your actual feelings for the person.
You are scared to be alone so you think it's better, or the best you can get.
You may not know what a healthy relationship looks like.
Society, friends, or family pushing for the relationship.
You think possessiveness and jealousy means they care.
You stay to avoid arguments or confrontations.
You rely on them for money or stability.
You are worried about what they might do if you leave.
Past trauma or experiences might be influencing your current choices.
You feel responsible for the other person's well-being.
You excuse their behavior by thinking they act this way because of their past or stress.
You invested too much time to leave.
You don't have boundaries.
You mistake drama for passion and love.
You benefit from the relationship so you put up with the bad.
You think you are "meant to be" despite the pain. You think pain means you are meant to be.
You think you are forced to stay because of tradition or faith.
You stay for the sake of the kids.
You rely on them for emotional needs, even if they're hurtful.
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