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Running a business has been really difficult but the success has made it worth it!

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Distance

The distance has taught me to cherish each moment we have together! It has made our love stronger because we have to work hard for it. Distance teaches you to sacrifice certain things such as throwing away your trust issues because the relationship is just as strong as the trust it has. The sleepless nights spent talking to the person you miss and love. Probably not much of a sacrifice considering we still win. For the last 4 years I have learned love from a distance even when people told me it’d be impossible. I have never loved someone the way I love him. I just can’t wait until he comes home to see me and our baby boy!

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Losing someone to cancer can make a person realllllly emotional but all I can do is be glad they no longer have to suffer. May you Rest In Peace baby boy, no mother should have to lose her son.

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Horror films today it is!!!

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He's my best friend and my lover <3 guess that's why my tears are thicker than they'd be with anyone else. Usually you have one or the other to talk to but both of them are packaged together, so I've kinda learned to talk to myself. Lol

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Southern strategy

“In American politics, southern strategy refers to methods the Republican Party used to gain political support in the South by appealing to the racism against African Americans harbored by many southern white voters. 

As the African American Civil Rights Movement and dismantling of Jim Crow laws in the 1950s and 1960s visibly deepened pre-existing racial tensions in much of the Southern United States, Republican politicians such as presidential candidate Richard Nixon and Senator Barry Goldwater developed strategies that successfully contributed to the political realignment of many white, conservative voters in the South to the Republican Party that had traditionally supported the Democratic Party. It also helped push the Republican Party much more right.

The perception that the Republican Party had served as the “vehicle of white supremacy in the South,” particularly during the Goldwater campaign and the presidential elections of 1968 and 1972, made it difficult for the Republican Party to win the support of black voters in the South in later years. In 2005, Republican National Committee chairman Ken Mehlman formally apologized to the National Association for the Advancement of Colored People (NAACP), a national civil rights organization, for exploiting racial polarization to win elections and ignoring the black vote.”

More info on the Southern Strategy

The letter Elizabeth Warren was trying to read

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Someone remind me to stay off social media tomorrow, since as far as I can tell I won’t get to so much as speak to John.

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Doesn't it suck... and I'm tired of being called dramatic from the same ppl who get to actually speak to their spouse -___-

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I’m just frustrated. I’m frustrated at people who speak to me like I can’t possibly love John as much as they love thier significant others because I didn’t drop everything and move with him when the Navy said “go.” I’m frustrated with stopping myself and trying to see things from their perspective when they can’t bother to see things from mine.

As if I don’t beat myself up for being the reason we’ve been apart for three years. As if I don’t realize how much fucking time we’ve given up that we could have been together in the same place.

As. Fucking. If.

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2.14

Welp here comes Valentine’s Day. Why is there even a day dedicated to cliche things such as buying roses and chocolates. But somehow I still feel sickened by it. Yea it's awesome they get to take pictures with their lovers and new bfs and gfs. Clearly I'm jealous lol. You’d think I’d be used to it since he joined I haven’t spent any of his 4 birthdays with him, Valentine’s days, 2 Christmas’, and 2 Thanksgivings and the other holidays HA as if. Call me dramatic but the days made for love pretty much suck.

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Tonight’s especially hard, while I scream to God asking Him why He gave me someone as beautiful as you just so that you could be so far. I cry to the moon and stars asking and wishing them for time to move quickly. But they don’t listen. So im angry and sad. And the tears running down my face burn. And I’m tired, but I also can’t stop thinking about you.

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I miss you

You never have to wonder if I miss you. While you're working 12+ shifts and doing a job that doesn't make you happy I miss you. I'm thinking of you and I know you're thinking of me. I take the double shifts and triple shifts so that the pain of missing you doesn't take over. . . Do you ever wonder if I miss you, because if you do, I miss you.

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being with someone in the military

Sleep edition-

Me: should I sleep?

Me: will he text?

Me: probably not

Me: I'll leave my ringer on just in case

Me: *just falling asleep*

Phone: *DING*

Him: hey I have my phone!

Me: yay!

Him: *doesn't respond for 3 hours*

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I really do think of you at 2pm when I’m busy running errands. I think of you as soon as I wake up. Because I’m already wishing for you. I think of you at 8pm when I’m off at a dinner or a movie with my family. I think of you at 1am when all I can think of is how you smell. Thinking about how I love your laugh, and how I wish with everything I am that we were in the same bed kissing goodnight. “I wish you were here. But you’re not you’re there, and there doesn’t know how lucky it is.”

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CallMeMilso

Sometimes i feel like rather than marrying my husband, I ended up marrying the military. The name Milso describes marrying someone in the military so perfectly. I AM THE MILITARY’S WIFE. Not my amazing husbands wife but rather the military’s. Yes, it gives me great benefits but hello i don’t want to wait a year/s for the love and pleasure from well WHO I DECIDED I WANTED TO MARRY.