Maps, please fucking read this.
This isnt some anti post. Not an aggresive post.
Please listen.
I know that having this attraction is scary and I understand that its so looked down upon but you need to realize something; its looked down upon for a reason.
Please. I beg of you. Get off tumblr. Go to a therapist. Call someone. Don’t accept this attraction of yours. If you truly have self control you can do what is truly right and what is truly protecting children around you: Get off the internet. Go to a therapist. Call someone.
Therapists are there to help you. Find a good one. Call someone you trust. Please. Please do it for your safety and the childrens safety. Save yourself. Save the children. Save your family. I care about you. Please, get help. This isnt valid. Please realize this.
many maps are in therapy for that or have completed it to psychologies knowledge. Almost unanimously encourage proper therapy for pedophilic disorder for one when can get it However, you must accept that therapy for pedophilic disorder doesn’t cure the attraction…nothing in therapy cures. My family disowned me for being trans but kept my pro contact brother, my family can not be saved by me
Op, I’m not here to attack you, I see you have good intentions. But what do you think therapy can achieve?
Good question; apologies for not being clear.
Therapy can definitely not cure pedophilia and your attraction. I know this.
My intent here is to incourage nomaps to not sit on the internet and act like their attraction is some cutesy thing especially with the age of preference thing. If you are a pedophile and realize this, you shouldn’t even be on the internet, or make an entire blog dedicated to it, where you can get death threats and it just makes you feel worse. It can lead to other problems, which can lead to unhealthy habits, etc.
Therapy can help in lots of ways. Talking to people over the internet isn’t as useful as talking to a medical professional. A therapist will tell you useful things you can do as healthy coping mechanisms; while doing these “✨✨NOMAPS ARE VALID uwuwuwuwu” is unhealthy and isn’t a good way to cope. Venting is good but with things like depression, bpd, and things like that are not looked down upon as much as pedophilia is. Thus venting about your attraction, how it makes you feel bad, and such and such on a public website filled with teenagers and trolls can definitely lead to death threats and is a danger to you as a person. And even if the death threats or insults do not get to you it is important to realize we have no idea what people are capable of online. Doxxing, Blackmailing. It seems ridiculous but people are very anti pedophila and will go to extremes. I care about your safety.
While with a therapist,
They have been trained and taught to deal with situations like these. They will reccomend healthy cope mechanisms and help you until they think you are able to be online and social. I have seen No Maps on here that while they are open about it (I dont suggest being open about it considering the statements above) have had a therapist say they can be online with self control, those people are alright and as long as they are in therapy, and their coping mechanisms are healthy, and they are not containing cp or sim cp of any kind, they are okay in my opinion.
Working hard to control your attraction and talking to someone who is a professional on the subject is what I am trying to say. I dont condone lolicon or shotacon, “uwu maps are valid uwu” boards, and blogs dedicated to their attraction treating it like some kind of sexual orientation.
I am sorry if this goes against my original post in a way, I am currently not in the best mood right now but I hope I came out as clear as possible. If you disagree, or see any faults in my argument, please continue the discussion civilly. Thank you.