✶⋆.˚ i am also a deer! i don’t feel any labels fit this one so i’m just a deer :3
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✶⋆.˚ music i like: glass animals, roar, weezer, car seat headrest, gezebelle gaburgably, gorillaz, vundabar, will wood, dazey and the scouts, the front bottoms, tv girl, tyler, the creator
✶⋆.˚ other interests: writing, collecting tails and rocks, making clothes way cooler, making animal masks, styling my outfits, talking to my mate <3 ( @corvidae-culture )
✶⋆.˚ fandoms: sonic, homestuck, my little pony, lab rats (yes the 2012 disney channel show), life series, percy jackson!
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✶⋆.˚ mostly here to talk about my therianthropy and kins :3 but will probably throw in other stuff i’m passionate about like psychology/mental health, my fandoms, and other things i like
✶⋆.˚ i am a DID system!! so other alters might post occasionally
✶⋆.˚ dni: ed blogs, (pro)endos (pls don’t bring syscourse onto my blog, i’ve had bad experiences with systemtumblr, i just wanna be a dog okay), i block freely as well
twilight sparkle,, i love how she turned out so much i have to share, ive been practicing my ponies and i am happy with my progress so far :3
wanted to really highlight the twilight in twilight sparkle :P so darker coat and twilight sky mane, ultra detailed bcuz shes an alicorn princess and she deserves it <333
i wish i had a muzzle, i wish i had paws and fur and teeth, i feel naked D: it actually bothers me a lot sometimes, this body is so flat and bare and freaky looking </3
honestly i think humans should b more comfortable w/the fact that some "ppl" r not human. liek its ok 2 treat ur friend liek a dog if they r a dog. y do ppl get so uncomfy abt it
went to the michigan renaissance festival today!!! it was my first time going since i was a little kid and it was so cool!! i loved seeing all of the stuff people were making and selling, and it was so fun dressing up :3
(mask is from fern&pine on etsy!! recommend them so much it is phenomenal :3)
i also got some fun things :0 will share the haul below ,,
FAIRY DUST GLITTER NECKLACE!!, a SUPER COOL handmade glass pendant :0 it’s so sick guys and it looks so gorgeous in the light!!!!, an antler, and an ermine pelt!!
“therians don’t do this” has never even made sense to me as a concept because there are thousands of therians. we are all completely different beings. of course we don’t all act the same! there is never going to be only one certain set of actions or traits that we all share, because we’re all so different.
i feel it’s somewhat similar to when people will say about autism “well my 6 year old cousin has autism and he doesn’t act like that” no kidding!! because we’re different people!!! autism looks different in everyone, just like how therianthropy can look different in different therians
sry for the inactivity and also lack of actual therian posting recently :,3 a lot has been going on but i think its concluding hopefully and im feeling back to it a little more, the wolf has thoughts it just gets taken over by fuckinnn hyperfixations and stress x3 will be scrolling more than the mlp and life series tags hopefully lolll!!
also i had a birthday!!! this dog is nineteen :3 hell yes
A lot of pop psychology gets thrown around and since I already have a headache, here's preventing you lot from making it worse.
Love-bombing: A manipulation tactic of increasing affection and grand gestures before or after doing something abusive, specifically to weasel one's way out of consequences.
What it is not: A streak of affection and generosity towards friends/loved ones.
Trauma-bonding: Knowingly traumatizing someone to take advantage of their vulnerable state, to then act like the "hero" or the one who cheers them up.
What it is not: Bonding over similar traumas.
Gaslighting: *Knowingly* convincing someone they cannot trust their own perception of a situation in pursuit of one's own narrative.
What it is not: Misaligned perception of events.
Narcissist: Someone afflicted with Narcissistic Personality Disorder, a traumagenic cluster B disorder, that struggles with self-obsession, paranoia, craving validity from the public, delusions of grandeur, and social disconnection.
