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[capusotto]

Las publicidades de fines de los 2000 eran tan buenas q las sigo referenciando en el año de nuestro señor 2026. Publicidades.

[stuckinapril]

I promise you things will get so much better when you start processing people’s behavior as information rather than a verdict on your self-worth. If someone doesn’t text back, suddenly pulls away, whatever it may be, the solution isn’t to put on a tap dance for them and try to regain their approval. It’s not to crash out on them and try to force them to react a certain way. It’s just to take a step back, take a deep breath, and assess what this tells you. What’s this saying about them? What’s this saying about you??

[stuckinapril]

Like people’s actions are data points rather than death sentences. It could even be a data point about you. It could be that you’re not being a great friend, it could be that there’s something you guys miscommunicated. Or it could be that they themselves don’t have the means to be consistent, aren’t in the headspace to meet you where you are, whatever. But this is always data rather than a judgment. Even if you’re the problem, behavior can change.

Also, in the context of someone pulling back without explaining away, and assuming they didn’t give you a reasonable explanation in the first place, it’s also a data point that they’d react that way rather than communicate. Situations are always very context dependent, but they’re also always data, not verdicts on self worth.

[stuckinapril]

Btw this is coming from someone who used to beg for explanations, so I do feel like I’ve really grown into myself lately and I’m in a good headspace to speak about this! I really think it helped me to process people’s behavior (and even volatility) as data rather than anything else. Their behavior is giving you information. Take it as that. Take your time deciding what to do with that. There has never been a single situation where rushing to something (even if it’s rushing to reconcile with someone!!) has served me or made me feel better after the fact.

I’m not saying to become avoidant, but I am saying to evaluate the situations you’re in and ask what not only their behavior says about them, but what your reaction says about you. What is it triggering in you? Why is it triggering? This is always information, never a threat against your character!!

[oneterabyteofkilobyteage]

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archived on 2009-04-27 16:34:26

[depsidase]

[unicorncryptid]

"my life isn't a crime, I'm not one of those people -"

"you sure? new parameters for Those People just dropped. check again."

[lizardywizard]

And if you truly cannot imagine this, if you're convinced that it will never happen to you, consider this one thing.

Would you want scammers to know the state of your loved one's dementia?

[sea--burn]

[sudaca-swag]

whoever said the sun comes out after every storm clearly never went through Uruguay May-June 2026 weather

[segamascott]

[boccher]

why does the US have a theme park ride thats just presidential speeches. who would want to visit that. that sounds like something yeonmi park would make up about north korea

[latinotiktok]

[pmamtraveller]

By Adipocere

[marisatomay]

Happy Pride

[hotvampireadjacent]

[capusotto]

Fua no siento nada... debería ponerme anestesia en las rodillas todos los días

[luv2scam]

I can’t wait for Hillary to pull a BEYONCÉ. No promo, no campaign, no nothing. We will all just be sitting on twitter with our thumbs up our asses when our timeline suddenly starts to fill with the news that Hillary Rodham Clinton is now President Hillary Rodham Clinton. Slayed the game, and we weren’t even readily for it.

[lonerslothful]

I havent been keeping up with the news, did she win?

[yesornopolls]

do you think it's selfish to not go to someone's funeral or to not visit someone in their deathbed because you personally don't want to see them like that ?

Do you think it's selfish to not go to someone's funeral or to not visit someone in their deathbed because you personally don't want to see them like that ?

Yes

No

Remaining time: 5 days 21 hours

[nuevasformas]

[ceruleanheaven]

month starting on a monday we have no excuse guys lets get to work and lock the fuck in

[ceruleanheaven]

yk its actually very chic and avant garde to start on tuesday the second