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kpop & hockey side blog: @jimiscellaneous

[polish-lolita]

[achillesinhighheels]

[segamascott]

[tiktoks-i-enjoyed]

[gayvampyr]

trying to explain why i like horror to people who don’t: ok so you know how it’s fun to be deeply disturbed and unsettled

[trans-girl-nausicaa]

this isnt true by any stretch of the imagination

[trans-girl-nausicaa]

i think a lot of people have this incorrect idea that sexual promiscuity equates with tolerance or enlightenment or whatever when really it has nothing to do with that at all. you dont necessarily have to actually respect someone to have sex with them. you dont even necessarily have to respect someone’s gender, sexuality, sexual orientation, race, ethnicity, nationality, religion, political party, or economic class to have sex with them.

it would be NICE if we lived in a world where you had to actually respect someone to have sex with them but that is not actually the world we live in.

as a woman AND SPECIFICALLY as a trans woman there are more people in the world who don’t respect me who nevertheless want to have sex with me than there are people who want to have sex with me and who also respect me.

[vyriadurav]

straight guys liking femboys is actually a pretty good example of how femboy largely existed and continues to exist as a third gender label for transfems and the 'ideal state' that patriarchy would prefer for us.

You can absolutely be a feminine man and I've no problem with that, but that's not really what a femboy is. There's a reason I hate the term, view it as one of the many fetishizing slurs against transfems, and get grossed out at how other TME queer folks seem to think it's the most wonderful term ever.

Straight men love femboys because they get to fuck a pretty thing that they don't have to respect the rights or even womanhood of! And to be a femboy, you have to be young, it's a label with an expiration date, and there's a reason for that! Easier to exploit!

I feel like I'm going insane when I try to explain these things to TME folks because a lot of TMA folks will get what I'm talking about (especially if they've been out for a while) but TME folks have no idea the history of the term or the concept it originated out of and what it actually means in practice.

[christslamb]

[moonandtrees]

[heartcondltion-deactivated20260]

a mother is a kind of psychological torture device

[makingimages]

[pro-royalty]

Tinashe x Too Easy (Promo)

[freakoutgirl]

i hate when something is in 20 minutes

[tallspookylady]

teamwork makes the dream work

[quixoticclown]

Yes, these Muppets have taken Manhattan. The question now is can they HOLD it

[persephoneme]

you can't say "hey has anyone noticed that M/M fic outnumbers F/F like 100:1” or “it feels racist that only 3/202 characters on the ao3 top 100 ships list are Black and two of them are Alastor HazbinHotel” bc some ppl will start going like “oh so you think we should FORCE people to write about things they DON’T CARE ABOUT for WOKE????” and you’ll be like “no, i’m pointing out that the conditions that created this disparity are informed by racism & misogyny” and ppl will say “it’s not BIGOTED to only care about WHITE MEN” and then the gargoyle king appears

[wifegideonnav]

gonna be honest i don’t know how many more ‘enter the 6 digit code we sent to your phone’s i got left in me

[mothcub]

Sausage meeting.