PARIS LARIMAR

[THE TUMBLR]

[expensivehoe]

also posting this selfie from photoshoot day <333333

[dirty-fucking-pirate]

[carpeaurea]

all of u cherished sluts

[96l]

Silence isn’t empty, it’s full of answers.

[carpeaurea]

Beaming With JOI - How I Learned to Love a Fetish I Used to Hate

JOI [jerk-off instruction] is THE fetish I loved to hate (ok, hate's a strong word - I used to disregard it from my scope of fetish entirely). Back then my understanding of the fetish began & ended at, "so these people are so pathologically obsessed with their own penis that they require it to be taking up someone else's headspace in the form of instruction to get off? What in the fuckenest does that have to do with me as a Domme that values all things above penis?"

Dominants being turned off by JOI as a concept is nothing new. My own unfascinated perspective didn't spring from thin air. It stemmed from conversations with other Dominants who expressed precisely those perspectives. Also from those who displayed everything that turned me off about JOI within their requests for it.

Also far from new is using the art of JOI to narrate how you feel a sub *should* ideally be pondering his own terminal bepenisment. By incorporating elements of humiliation, laughter, CBT, CEI, shaming - the validation often sought through a JOI experience can be undone in the same breath wherein it was expressed. This is not dissimilar to the allure of emotional-whiplash fetish. The Dominant's dynamic of hot-to-cold. Giving a submissive exactly what they ask for by word but the opposite by spirit. Stark contrast between charmed giggles the instant before she says, "flick it. EXCUSE THE FUCK OUTTA YOU, you call that a 'flick'? Absolutely not - FOR REAL THIS TIME. And do it a dozen times since the first one was so weak."

Now here's the BEST part in my opinion - you ready? Ok.

*Just because I'm dispensing instruction doesn't mean I'm dispensing (conventional) pleasure. And if I do choose to dispense (conventional) pleasure, I can ensure high cost.*

[outrageauxbonnesmoeurs]

[carpeaurea]

HARD STORAGE HARDER NIPPLES

[lllinens]

art galleries should be open 24hrs like what if I can’t sleep and wanna stare at a painting

[carpeaurea]

Re-worked a few photos I took last year

[hortensius-deactivated20240909]

what do you mean Just Standing There Ominously doesn’t count as socializing

[egberts]

ill kiss u so hard man dont fuck w me

[carpeaurea]

we are but a pat of butter dissolving into the cast iron skillet that is the universe

[carpeaurea]

The 10 commandments of being hot online

nobody can do it like you because nobody IS you, therefore nobody is competition

embrace & make space for your type of beauty (like TRULY appreciate your own hotness, devote time/practice to it)

HD powder is literally 100% spherical silica powder, you can get it from TKB trading for like $5. Don't breathe it in & avoid flash photography.

your ass makes your ass look sooooo good!

watermark EVERYTHING (this is mostly to remind myself)

remove metadata - sometimes putting in total nonsense info feels cute & fun.

don't forget to oil your leather!

be humble, for the biggest asswipe you've ever met in your life is ALSO made of stardust

do not ever grind weed in an electric coffee grinder (the resin gets sticky in there & it's almost impossible to fix)

fish are really onto something - constantly wet, sorta slimy, seemingly no capacity for awareness of 'self' and 'other' - i think we could all stand to be a little more like them.

[carpeaurea]

the only thing i really remember from ye olden days of Tumblr is how everything was about ~aesthetic~ & the particular aesthetic flavor of anyone's page is their entire Tumblr identity so just to be clear, my aesthetic identity is looking hot as fk filming femdom stuff in a three-star hotel with an accent wall that's somewhere between the color of pulverized caterpillar & questionably-aged guac.

[sleepyspacebb]

“that’s so mean,” i say as i get very flustered and wet

[carpeaurea]

I THINK THIS PLACE WOULD BE WAY COOLER IF IT WAS CALLED CUMBLR INSTEAD