If it’s any help, when I’m dealing with people I can’t stand, I make sure I’m not dealing with them alone. If I have to stand by this person all night, I’ll make sure we always have people to talk to that will distract them from me. Sometimes I just mirror how those otherr people are treating them.
Unfortunately, that doesn't always work. In the past we've made several people uncomfortable continuing our awkward and vicious arguing in subtle undertones whilst they are also present. I think it's sort of become a bit of a routine for us.














