catch me if you can... @castheghost - Tumblr Blog

saccharine-lullaby

my gender is an ikea showroom, there's an obvious path but it's so much more fun not to use it

sapphicweisz

glibribsart

interlaced

(click link to get as a print)

marrowridden

You have a complex relationship with your body and need to keep some/all of your clothes on during sex?

That's okay, what you're wearing looks good on you.

You need to take a lot of breaks doing anything intimate because you're easily overwhelmed?

I understand, I'm just happy to be here with you.

You're on medication that impacts your libido/makes reaching orgasm really difficult?

No pressure, tell me what feels good for you, and if you get frustrated we can do something else together.

Sex isn't going to look the same for everybody and that's fine, that's normal.

Sometimes you don't orgasm, sometimes you need to stop because your mood changes out of nowhere, sometimes you get really self conscious and need accommodations to take your mind off of it.

People are too complex for everybody to go about it the same, just keep doing what feels best for you, regardless of how different it may seem from other people's experiences.

vivisectedg1rl

petting her while we watch videos on my laptop🥺

thequietboudoir

alienbycomics

A history and mythology lesson reminding you that trans and non-binary people have always existed! [Long post]

makingqueerhistory

[Image Description: An anatomical stylized heart with pink text beside that says “When you’re different people are not sure how to approach you, so what I’ve done is, I’ve loved them first. I had to. Jackie Shane”]

The Making Queer History patrons voted for this Jackie Shane quote design to be sold in our shop!

loveletter2you

bell hooks, All About Love

aidashakur

spaceler

badhombre647

My nesting partner is asexual, but still likes me to proposition them sometimes. Conversation about what feels comfortable can feel strange for them, so this is how I do it!

galaxia-art

[image description: two near identical images of someone in a hoodie sleeping against a pillow, using a pride flag as a cape. the person has pale skin and fluffy hair sticking out from the hood, beside them is the words “GENDER IS A PERFORMANCE AND TODAYS SHOW IS CANCELLED DUE TO LACK OF INTEREST”. the first image has the nonbinary flag, the second has the transgender flag. end id]

both of these you can get on my redbubble, witch i will link in a reblog bc tumblr does not like links! probably. this is queued so i have to remember for latter

snarkyschizo

Monogamous or not, introverted or not, asocial or not, possessive or not - we can't or shouldn't ever expect ONE person to cover ALL our social needs. We need a variety of input from different people with different qualities, abilities and perspectives in order to thrive. Expecting one friend or one partner to cover everything is not just unfair, it's toxic and unhealthy.