꧁ᬊᬁ Castiel ᬊ᭄꧂

꧁ᬊᬁ ʏᴏᴜʀ ꜰᴀᴠᴏʀɪᴛᴇ ɢᴇɴᴅᴇʀʟᴇꜱꜱ ʙᴏʏ!! (ʙᴏʏꜰʟᴜx) 𖦹 ᴘʀᴏꜰᴇꜱꜱɪᴏɴᴀʟ ᴄᴏɴᴀɴ ɢʀᴀʏ ꜰᴀɴ 𖦹 ᴛʜᴇʏ/ʜᴇ/ꜱʜᴇ ᴘʀᴏɴᴏᴜɴꜱ 𖦹 ᴀʀᴏᴀᴄᴇ 𖦹 ꜱᴀᴡ ᴄᴏɴᴀɴ 9/19/24 & 9/14/25 𖦹 #ɪᴄᴇ ᴏᴜᴛ! ᬊ᭄꧂ ࣪ 𖦹˚₊‧ .˳·˖✶𓆩𓁺𓆪✶˖·˳. ‧₊˚𖦹

[castielstea]

feeling like a bad person because of my jealousy towards my fellow transmasc friend.

he passes so well, his personal style is very masculine, he’s called sir in public, and neither of us are even on T yet. On top of this, not only does he pass as a guy, but he’s an incredibly attractive one.

Me on the other hand, I don’t pass no matter how hard I try, my personal style involves lots of jewelry and other typically “feminine” things, and my voice is so high pitched it’s actually embarrassing to speak.

I feel so guilty because of course I want the best for him, of course trans people all deserve happiness, and I really am glad for him. But being around him is a constant reminder of how much I don’t pass, even when I try my best

[castielstea]

(Just an opinion no hate to anyone‼️ I’m curious if others feel the same way though)

Does anyone else not like the term “queer platonic relationship?” Like don’t get me wrong, a bond that isn’t romantic and is above labels sounds great to me, it’s the phrase that irks me. Something about the way a typical allo relationship is described as literally just a relationship, while QPRs add on to that to make it queer platonic. Adding on to a typical relationship to make it a QPR when in reality they’re separate things just feels wrong to me. Like no, this isn’t a “version” of an allo relationship, I straight up don’t like you this way at all. This isn’t us adding more onto a typical relationship, this just ISNT a typical relationship. And that’s okay. The way it’s just descriptors in front of the word relationship makes it seem like it’s simply a subcategory of an allo relationship, which isn’t the case. As an aroace person who is on the end of the spectrum that feels genuinely nothing sexually or romantically, I’d love a QPR, but it genuinely grosses me out and would give me the ick to call it that. I think for me it’s really just the word relationship, because while there are all sorts of types of relationships, having a queer platonic PARTNER really just seems too much like trying to seem allo to me. I don’t want to feel like a failed version of an allo person, as us aspec people tend to, and I guess the term that makes these types of relationships seem like an altered version of an allo one does make me feel that way.

[spiritnotthehorse]

"supportive" parents when their openly transgender child does anything transgender.

[castielstea]

Coming to tumblr from Pinterest is crazy because like… THE iconic posts are just here?? In front of me? I can be scrolling and randomly come across the holy texts?!? I feel spoiled

[castielstea]

“LGB without the T-“

YOU’RE GETTING A KNUCKLE SANDWICH. YOU’RE GETTING PUNCHED WITH A LG-BLT. AN LGBBQ CHICKEN SANDWICH KNOWN AS MY FIST IS HEADED YOUR WAY.

[castielstea]

On the topic of contradictory/“controversial” labels:

I want you to know that if you support me as a trans person but do not support neopronouns, xenogenders, contradicting gender identities or otherkin, fictionkin, etc then I do not feel respected by you, and you don’t get to call yourself a trans ally.

If you support me in my sexuality but do not support lesboys, turigirls, gaybians, and other contradictory identities that upset people who like to think of labels as cages, then I do not feel respected by you, and you don’t get to call yourself a queer ally.

Supporting us means supporting ALL of us, even the “weird” ones, even the contradicting ones, and even the ones you don’t understand. You don’t get to pick and choose which queer people are okay based on how “normal” you think they are, and if you support me in my identity but not my fellow trans and queer siblings, then I do not feel supported at all.

[p1nkiek1ttie]

no, actually, i can’t be friends with someone who has opposing political views. this is mostly due to the fact my views are “people deserve rights”

[residentofincelistan]

"Let's just all get along and eat ice-cream:)" culture is gonna be the death of me.