꧁ᬊᬁ Castiel ᬊ᭄꧂

|| Aroace + Demiboy || He/They || 𖦹˚₊‧ .˳·˖✶𓆩𓁺𓆪✶˖·˳. ‧₊˚𖦹

[castielstea]

Transgender sky yesterday‼️🏳️‍⚧️

[castielstea]

The love that you feel for someone (particularly a trans person old enough to have transitioned) who looks exactly how you want to look one day is so unique. No, I don’t love you as a friend. No, I don’t like you romantically. No, you aren’t like family to me. I love you like I love myself. I love you like my future. I feel nothing for you sexually or romantically, and I met you yesterday, yet I’ve been fantasizing about you for years. The next time I see you will be looking in a mirror. And I can’t wait.

[castielstea]

Btw the only correct response to the “lesboy/turigirl discourse” is “I don’t give a shit how other queer people choose to label themselves, this doesn’t impact me at all, policing others does nothing but harm my community, and we have way bigger issues”

[castielstea]

Could someone help me find the right way to explain being trans to a relative? I wouldn’t say he’s transphobic, he definitely wants all minorities to have equal rights, but he said some things last night after I came out that made me worry I didn’t have a good enough response or explanation to justify me being trans, and I want to be more prepared for future conversations.

Some points he made were that:

- Why would trans people transition when they could just do whatever they want and act however they want as their agab? (His example was that I could just be a hairy tall masculine girl who still does stereotypical masculine things instead of being a guy)

-If gender is a social construct, why would you feel the need to transition to another socially constructed gender if you acknowledge that they aren’t “real”

-What does feeling trans and like a boy mean to you? (I said my discomfort in being a girl and the happiness I feel as a guy but I feel like that wasn’t good enough and I kind of feel like he was trying to go the route of “you’re just transitioning because of misogyny and because you don’t like experiencing the struggles girls face”)

-There were other topics like gender dysphoria and the trade off of transitioning but in turn losing opportunities, friends, love, etc.

If anyone has the right words to help explain these things, or to explain being trans in general, PLEASE LET ME KNOW

In case this wasn’t obvious I’m transmasc and a teen btw

[castielstea]

“Don’t leave me hanging alone again” but in an aroace/aspec way.

“Your love is a threat and I’m nauseous” but in an aroace/aspec way.

“And the church bells won’t stop ringing for an undead wedding day” but in an aroace/aspec way.

“You’ll never get your mama’s wedding ring, father always said you ruined everything” but in an aroace/aspec way

“Crush culture makes me wanna spill my guts out” but in an aroace/aspec way

“I wanna feel all that love and emotion, be that attached to the person I’m holding” but in an aroace/aspec way

Honestly all of crush culture, best friend, and people watching, but in an aroace/aspec way.

Listening to conan gray but in an aroace/aspec way

[castielstea]

Coming out to people who you KNOW are supportive is so embarrassing because like… why am I scared😭 why have I waited years to tell you this when you just took me to pride and are wearing a “trans ally” pin. Why can I not find the right time or words even though we talk about topics like this all the time

I’m projecting because I’m planning on coming out to some extended family tonight AAAA

[castielstea]

“Don’t itch your mosquito bites! It’ll just make them itchier!”

..Okay? So then I get itchier mosquito bites to continue scratching?

Checkmate, liberals.

[castielstea]

when people ask if I’m named after the show Supernatural but I’m actually named after the same angel that the character is named after and now people are gonna ask me that question for the rest of my life because I didn’t know a character had already stolen my epic name

[castielstea]

I miss my friends :( aw man

[castielstea]

Went to pride for the first time recently, and maybe this was just my location (though it was one of the largest pride celebrations in the US), but WHY IS IT SO HARD TO FIND PRIDE PINS?? In my brain pride was gonna have like a million pins but it took over two hours of searching to find one 3cm by 3cm aroace pin😭😭😭 And I get that aroace isn’t a super common sexuality but it wasn’t even that, there was just hardly any pins in general

Basically there’s a very open market for sexuality pins at pride, someone PLEASE take up that role in the pride month ecosystem 🥹

[knifearo]

as an optimist i dream of a beautiful world where people are fucking normal about aromanticism

[floralasshat]

At first I read “as an optometrist” and was just ready to accept the statement as is like oh yeah maybe some kind of pun about if people’s views weren’t clouded by hatred and biases they could be normal about aro and aspec in general but then I reread it was like “sigh, time for my nearsighted ass to go back to the optometrist.”

[knifearo]

as an optimist i dream of a beautiful world where all these beautiful aromantic people get to go to the optometrist

[squidong]

misread aromanticism as astigmatism

[earhartsease]

some of you need to get new aspecs

[saltwater-goldfishy]

ok I know everyone’s considered Ryland grace wearing an “I put the ace in space” t shirt but. have we considered the infinitely funnier option of putting this shirt on eva stratt

[raviolireptile]

I had to draw this

[gracehasaspacesuitquestion]

Please read this because it is EXTREMELY important me (a transgender man) and to other trans individuals.

The US Government is currently trying to pass an incredibly dangerous national law for trans youth called HR 2616.

This bill would ban all Federally funded schools from teaching about gender identity or sexual orientation, prevent teachers from using the correct pronouns and names for trans students, remove books with any trans representation in them, and even go as far as to prevent teachers from acknowledging trans identity AT ALL.

Any school that does not follow this will lose all federal funding. This bill would also require teachers to forcibly out trans students to their families, which would be fatal to any trans student with a transphobic Family or just hateful family in general. Trans people are already a group that already has some of the highest rates of being victim to suicide, domestic violence, and sexual assault.

This bill actively makes teachers put those innocent children at such a big risk. This bill has rapidly passed the house this week with support from all 209 republicans, as well as 8 democrats. But, it's still being voted on in the senate, which means there is still time to help stop this.

To help stop this, you can visit 5calls.org (look up 2616 in the search bar), one of the most top issues filed Oppose Attacks on LGBTQ+ Students. Once you put in your general location, it will pull-up contact information for your senator, and give you a script for calling them.

If you are a minor and/or do not feel comfortable doing this, PLEASE repost this on here, or any other platform you are on/can find! This needs to be heard and fought against.

Thank you for reading this, my lovely people!

(My moots/friends that I'm tagging: @syrupppppppppp @s4pphicfurryr4ve2769 @starstarstarrystar @histrynerdss @billiloveyouso @ultimatebikergangleader69 @trixthemagemain @otlantispearlxox @jaxwithabow)

[kyubey123]

As someone who is trans youth (genderfluid) please someone help us do something, unfortunately i cant call but please repost and get to as many people as possible, everyday i remember this and fear for my life even more than i already do in my own home and town. Please don’t let them do this to us, please protect us

[castielstea]

“And the church bells won’t stop ringing for an undead wedding day”

But it’s being aroace

Is this anything

[tuherrus]

you don't even have a dog

[castielstea]

transgender

[castielstea]

Guys my friend really likes wolfstar and all the stuff with like sirius black and Remus and regulus and all those characters, and I really want to get into it too but I’m not sure what fics/media to start with.

Does anyone have any recs that are a good introduction to all the characters/ships?

PLEASEPLEASEPLEASE