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Mad Men Details - Ladies Room
Because finding new BFFs is just as important as finding a date.
YAAAAAS
Omg we’ve been bitching about this for forever. Spread this around so I can get it in my area!
finally!
So sweet.
I HAVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS SINCE FOREVER!
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remember when Britney Spears dropped the Da Vinci code on all of us almost 8 years ago… the time she sneaked “F-U-C-K ME” into the radio
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The SD Wealth Scale Example: Investment Banking
So I had a good ask about what I mean when I said the wealth scale. The wealth scale is how you can determine how much someone SHOULD be able to AFFORD and where they fit in your hustle.
As you know we have two hustles:
a) Sugar Dating
b) Spoiled Girlfriend Dating
Now you meet a sugar daddy who claims he can’t do allowances; and can only take you to nice hotels and dinners and buy you gifts . hmmmmm.
My key focus has always been bankers, traders, venture capitalists, hedge fund managers and all things finance so let review the payscale that someone successful in a front office revenue generating division at an investment bank or hedge fund SHOULD earn. I’m more shit with medical but finance is me. Fucking bankers is my ‘thing’, you know.
Level 1 - Analyst : When a person first graduates from their Ivy league and walks into Goldman Sachs they are called analysts;. Whether they are mergers and acquisitions analysts, equity capital market analysts, sales and trading anaysts they are analysts.
Salary: At firms such as Goldman sachs Analysts at age 22 fresh out of college earn about $60,000/£40,000 BASE. Bonuses vary but usually $40,000ish (my friends got that). Let that sink in.. There are 22-26 year olds on Wall Street making $60,000-$100,000 a year. Let that sink in because it will let you realise that requiring a lot from a man in his 40′s is nothing. There are 24 year olds on Wall Street earning 6 figures okay ?!
SOURCE http://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2014-08-20/goldman-sachs-said-to-raise-junior-staff-salaries-20-
These men will eventually become V.P&’s and M.D's if your goal is to live in Chappaqua and have a Hampton home and be a house wife TARGET THESE MEN. DATE THEM SERIOUSLY AND AIM TO BECOME A WIFE. You have no reason to even sugar if this is your goal. FOCUS ON MEETING THESE MEN YOUNG. These men will get you nice presents and gifts, dinners etc but no cash.
Level 2: Associates & V.Ps: This is the stage after business school. Most men in IB will work for a few years, go to business school them come back and work as associates and eventually V.P’s. Most of these men are between 27-37.
These men earn a good 6 figure income, the best of them are usually married at this point to their hunnie they met at business school or whatever. But many are still single.
These men are only 27-37 which means you can find a 32 year old to give you a pampered girlfriend lifestyle. I always say if my goal was hotels and dinner I could find a banker in his 30′s; and THESE are the men I am talking about. I meet so many.
If you aren’t focused on the cash side of things but more want to be SPOILED. THESE. ARE. YOUR. MEN. They are young, hot and RICH. They’ll show you the luxury life, treat you well but they are usually at the stage where they don’t give big allowances. If you are single you also have the chance of MARRYING one. These men are the GOAT. THE top. The best. Because unlike daddies the chances of it leading to marriage (i.e more $$$$ is far higher). They are more attractive also…
The downside is these men are usually not online so you will meet them via freestyling or via a matchmaker. Many men at this stage want to settle down so often seek help of high end matchmakers….
If you want more info on matchmakers…tell Me. I could write a post…
Level 3: MD.s & Partners: If you meet a man who claims to or as an investment banker , is in his 40’s and says he earns $150,000 RUN. RUN. RUN.
Any investment banker worth his weight earns between $3000,000-$500.000 atleast a year by his 40’s! This is where you can catch out A LOT of these frauds.
Being named partner at a top firm means a $900000 salary, before bonuses. LET THAT SINK IN.
I am a lot more strict with men in their 40’s and 50’s because I KNOW that by 40 a man who claims to be a sugar daddy/successful SHOULD be earning a certain amount. NO if’s not buts. If they are not successful then they have no place trying to be sugar daddies.
These men have the most disposable income so aim for as much as you can get but just always remind yourself that you could date a 30 year old for treats and & nice hotels. These men if they can be bothered CAN afford to fund your tuition (the whole reason SA was created!), your plastic surgery and rent. Be TOUGH on these men.
While you can be soft with the younger ones BE TOUGHER with these men because unless they are FRAUDS. THEY. HAVE. MONEY. And unless you have a genuine silver fox fetish and really just like the guy try and get as much you can from these older men.
If you meet a man who earns $500,000 a year expects you as a 22 year old college student to fuck him for free and prove yourself to him all for dinner and a few hotels trips and drops the ‘not an ATM’ line remind yourself that you can date someone YOUNGER IN HIS TEAM if all you want is some shoes, mmkay ?!
They are grown enough to act accordingly.
I personally do not have a silver fox fetish, my favorite men are men in their 20′s and 30′s. So if I am having sex with a 50 year old banker he MUST give me something a 30 year old banker can’t give me.
This should be a legit hustle.
If your goal is never to work a day in your life, get married and pampered but not get cash aim for analysts and associates. If your aim to to save for that business, school, get ya rent pain blah blah partners and M’Ds and don’t let them even try and play the analyst role. They can afford otherwise.
Warmest,
Thotianna
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Always the smartest gal of the bunch 💕💖
Thank you for everything!
Note to self:
Don’t tell people how much money you’re making, period. Because they will want you to spend it on them.
If you don't ask, the answer will always be no.
Had an AWESOME pot date today. $250 to meet for lunch, then afterwards he asked me if I would be interested in going to the mall. Of course I said yes. He bought me a Michael Kors coat that was $400 and a pair of Ray Bans for my trip to Florida in a few weeks. He was super sweet and cool, so I can’t wait to see where this goes. My second date had to cancel because his meetings ran late and he had to catch a flight, but I ain’t even mad. I honestly feel so happy that things are finally starting to go my way. 2015 was a terrible year for me. But so far I have been extremely positive, and just knowing that what I want will happen for me with the right mindset and attitude. I have been looking at my goals list everyday/night for the past week and also visualizing before bed. Today was just what I needed. Stay positive no matter what ladies! 💋💕
Bullshitting Men 101
There are few things I’m good at in life and this is one of them. So I’m going to share.
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sometimes i hate the exclusive attitudes i find here on tumblr
it doesn’t matter if you don’t take less than $1000 per meet. it doesn’t matter if you’ll take $200 for a meet. you are a sugar baby, your work is valid, and you are welcome in this community. don’t let other girls’ hustles (which let’s be honest are often super exaggerated on tumblr) make you feel like you are not doing enough. if you entered the bowl to put yourself through school, cool. if you entered because you wanted to fly on private jets and wear dior, also cool. if you entered because you just needed a means of paying those bills and keeping food on the table, good for you too. we are all in this together, and we are all here to get money we otherwise wouldn’t make in the vanilla world.
I promise you there’s a person in your area who will treat you with respect, worship the ground you walk on, & spoil you with luxury. Don’t settle for less
Just like that
I don’t fall in love. I sell love.
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SB Internet Safety Masterpost
Photos
Everything on this post is of the highest importance but I feel this one gets overlooked a lot in this community. Girls, DO NOT UPLOAD ANY PICS YOU HAVE ON ANY ACCOUNTS ASSOCIATED WITH YOUR SUGAR LIFE TO ANY ACCOUNT ASSOCIATED WITH YOUR VANILLA LIFE. PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF GOD. Any and all pictures associated with your sugar life should be taken solely for that purpose. I don’t care how good you look in that selfie girl do not not let a sugar pic go anywhere near your vanilla life.
Always, always, always remove EXIF data from any picture uploaded to a sugar site or sent to a POT/SD. You can learn about that here. I chose to share this link because it shows you how to turn of geo locations on your iPhone so you don’t even have to worry about removing EXIF if you don’t have your geo location on. There are plenty of free websites and apps that offer this service so you don’t have to remove it manually from the files on your computer.
Social Media
Social media can be your biggest enemy. We see stories all the time of POTS or SDs finding SBs personal social media pages. Take a moment to familiarize yourself with the privacy settings. Facebook is probably the worst of the lot. Here is the basic rundown of FB privacy settings and here are 10 Privacy Settings to Check that I had no idea even existed! Set all possible accounts to have the highest privacy settings possible. Delete old accounts you no longer use.
Don’t have just ONE email associated with your sugar life. I would suggest a minimum of two. I use one for tumblr and one for all my other sugar accounts. I’m soon creating other email account to become even more secure. Basically you will become more secure online if you use multiple email accounts to login to sites. God forbid your one or two emails get hacked, then what happens girl? Passwords Use a different password for every account you have. Now you’re probably think guuuurl there is no way I can keep up with all those emails and on top of that have a different password for ALL emails and ALL sugar accounts. Listen. Download the Norton Identity Safe for Android or for iPhone. This is your new best friend. My favorites include the ease of copying passwords and viewing usernames.
It also has three login options, touchID, a strong password or a PIN with the option of randomizing the keypad every time so if someone is watching they can’t guess your PIN!!
You can also login in via their secure Norton web browser with just a click of a button!
Evernote
Evernote has been hacked before a few years back but has had no problems recently, this a fantastic platform to save data and have it sync with all your devices! There are other platforms similar to Evernote but you have to pay to get a good one. I would just stick to Evernote and again use a different email with this account ideally that isn’t linked with anything else. Evernote will save your butt. I put all the details I can’t be bothered to remember about my POTS. You can set reminders and make to do lists. Very handy!
Screen shots
Keep records of everything. I take screenshots of conversations with POTS and also screenshots of their profiles. I save all this to the respective Notebooks in Evernote.
IP Address
Learn how to find an IP address. This link breaks down how to find the IP from an email pretty easy.
That’s it for now. I’m sure I’ve overlooked a few things. Don’t let technology get the better of you. Make it your bitch instead. Make this work in your favor ladies.
To SB’s that Ask Personal Q’s
He sensed it and she the fuck knew 😤