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arandomthot

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fucking half of gay people don’t even WANT you knowing they’re gay. the fuck makes you so special?

ondoinganevildeedblues

best sleeping conditions: freezing fucking cold room but layers and layers of blankets

demilovato

crack-in-the-mirror

The first time you kiss the right girl is down right magical. Because in all the girls you could be kissing you realize that the one in your arms is probably the sweetest. You realize that in your bliss you’ve forgotten to catalog every inch of her skin. You’ve forgotten to memorize every single detail of her face, to the crook in her nose to the subtle parting of her lips. Because you don’t want to forget the details of kissing the right girl. You want to have the memory deep inside you, so on rough days you can remember the moment perfectly. The exact way she grabbed your face to pull you down to her and you then realized, “fuck this is most definitely the right girl.”

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Have you ever met someone and grow attached to them and think “it’s gonna hurt real bad when they leave”

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milk of magnesia with universal indicator + HCL

thatsthat24

Science Rules

shitsuren-chama

das gay

bonkalore

do you like the color of the sky?

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The only “it’s just a phase” I went through was that weird heterosexual one

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sweetoothgirl

Giant Chocolate Chip Cookies

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Here’s your reminder that relationships are extremely difficult. the delusion that you are going to find that person who you move into a small apartment with and read books all day and cook naked and cuddle with and play footsie under the table with is a gross romanticization of reality.

You’re going to have great times in a relationship. You’re going to go on fun dates and have great sex and hot make out sessions. But you’re also going to fight. You’re going to be in that weird stage where you like them more than they like you or vice versa and that’s going to hurt. You’re going to have to deal with jealousy and insecurity. You will have to deal with boredom in the relationship. You’re going to be too busy for them or accidentally hurt them. And you are going to have to deal with a few break ups before you find that right one.

A relationship is not going to solve all of your problems. It’s not going to suddenly make you happy. It isn’t easy. They are much harder than being single. Relationships are an unbelievable amount of work and effort and compromise and it’s not always going to be perfect. But the effort you put into it is what make it worth it. Because you fought and worked hard for this person and hopefully they did the same for you. So remember that.