Selfcare Things You Should Try To Do This Year:
Anyone can do these, boys and girls (its slightly more attractive when you know a boy cares about himself, idk so these are for you too, boy)
Nail care- buy some tea tree oil or vitamin E oil and a nail kit, some nail hardener and start from there. Long NATURAL nails, don’t care. Also remember to take pictures each month to help you see your progress.
Saving money- this one might not seem like selfcare but the $5 challenge is a quick & simple way to saving cash. Anytime you come in contact with a $5, put it on a jar or a purse…somewhere you’ll remember. By the end of the year, you’ll be surprised.
Spoil yourself- as broad as that was, if you just do a me day, a spa day, whatever you call it once a week to once a month, or when needed, you will be more relieved and relaxed.
Spa day- get a nice body wash or bath soap, get essential oils, light a candle (or get fake ones) , turn on some spiritual music like Native Flutes, they’re usually like 3hrs long on YouTube (but I know you’re not gonna shower/bathe for 3 hours). Buy multipurpose clay, the type that could go on your skin or in your hair (clay mask)
Start journaling- not everyone likes writing but everyone likes having someone to listen to them. Even though in 2018 we not venting to bitches because no one knows how to keep secrets…paper will never betray you. Paper won’t give you unnecessary opinions, paper will listen to you until you stop writing.
Vitamins- get into the habit of buying daily gummy vitamins. 2018 we staying healthy.
Shopping- shop smart by getting what you need then what you want. Move quickly too, if you know where what you need is, you’ll have more time to look around for what you want.
Sex!!- do it with whoever you want. 2018 we are leaving the word ho(e) to the gardeners. Ladies, bring and buy your own condoms from now on, in case he tries anything & Buy latex free ones. Were stopping with the double standards and the name calling. Sex doesnt have to be lustful and a sin, educate yourself on sex and on your organ and keep it clean too, get monthly or almost monthly check ups, ladies, buy baby wipes, be safe and have fun. We leaving the word ho in 2017
Loving again- I know they hurt you, I know you don’t wanna trust anymore, I know you wanna make all these sad, depressing jokes, I know you hate the word love, i know you’re secretly jealous of couples that’s lasting longer than any one youve ever been in, but I also know that you have a big heart and enough love to go around. You’re stronger than you think and you have more love in you than you say you do. Stop with the “I’m cold” “I’m bitter” mentality. There’s someone for everyone, just because you haven’t found them now doesnt mean they don’t exist. What you need to do is forgive yourself for allowing the hurt and forgive them for giving the hurt and move on!!! Love yourself love yourself love yourself. No one is gonna want someone who is insecure, follower type, “pick me” ass type of person. Realize your worth and as soon as you chill, someone will notice it too!
Start a skincare routine- you’ve seen these get pretty popular on social media, get to your local dollar store and stock up. If you don’t know what your skin needs, start with a face lotion and build your way to the soaps and cleansers. Then to toners and makeup removers (if you wear makeup)
Start these & have a great 2018!
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