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americiumam

reblog w the song lyrics in your head NOW. either stuck in yr head or what yr listening to

#ooooo we makeba makeba ma que bella

molsno

"it's the law" well the law should kill itself

molsno

I don't even know what prompted me to post this bc I was drunk but I'm glad people seem to be enjoying it

anarchblr

it's a good post

tokkii08

Muichiro in my style!

Can’t believe I spend 19 hours for this,,,

#so prettyyyyyyyy

discodeerdiary

Something that I first applied to working with children, and have applied in a limited form to working with adults: you don't need to tell someone when they read your instructions wrong. Sometimes it's enough to point out what they did right and then whatever they didn't do? You ask them to do it in more precise words, and you make it sound like it's a new request. Remarkable how fast things get done this way.

discodeerdiary

This is also a habit I built up from emergency response training. If I say "I need you to bring me a first aid kit and an accident report" and you bring me just a first aid kit, it's so much more efficient to say "thanks now can you bring me an accident report" than "I asked you to bring an accident report why didn't you bring me one".

discodeerdiary

Once you've internalized "a person bleeding out is one of the worst times to start an argument" you start to wonder what other tasks could get accomplished without arguing

note-a-bear

Also! If you've given what you think to be a process instruction, but it's not necessarily in process format ('I need x, y, and z done' versus 'can you do y, so you can get to x and then z?') check in and see how they're meeting your request rather than assuming they're dicking around. And if you *do* jump to correction before checking: APOLOGIZE if someone moves in a different order than you expect.

I can't tell you how many times I'd have saved myself from looking like an ass (and sometimes a belligerent one) if I'd checked in before trying to 'correct' someone

daughter-of-sapph0

that-house

probablyasocialecologist

#also closed and crowded spaces like public transportation!

huariqueje

The night rests against the balcony door - Leif Engström , 2023.

Swedish, b. 1992 -

Oil on canvas, 253 x 230 cm. frame.

accessible-art

[ID: an oil painting depicting a door & windows in a house. The door has a glass window installed in its upper part, and is left partly open. Next to the door is the window, which is mostly hidden by a yellow floral print curtain. The curtain is also drawn behind the open door. Outside, the sky is mostly dark. Trees are visible along with a solid fence. End ID.]