Hey guys, this post is going to be a very, very serious one.
I have been stalked, defamed and harassed by an ex friend of mine for 3 years, and truth be told, I can’t take being silent anymore.
I tried to stay silent, in part, to protect the person attacking me from my large online fanbase. I also had no idea how to handle conflict at this scale, and I have never had someone in my life so hellbent on hurting me.
But I am at the end of my rope, and with all the horrific accusations he’s been throwing my way these last few years, I couldn’t stay silent anymore. Especially after a person approached me at a convention to ask me about these same accusations. That was my final straw.
This document is going to involve some pretty serious and heinous claims from my harasser. I want to point out in advance how few screenshots he has to back up his claims, compared to my mountains of evidence I have brought with me.
The document consists of:
Approximately 136 pages of evidence. Both screenshots of the accusations, and the debunks of them. These screenshots involve personal conversations between me and my stalker, when we were still friends. The screenshots take up the majority of the file.
Evidence of the stalking and harassment I received that I have never posted publicly about. Including evidence that my harasser went after close friends in my life, ex friends, and ex patrons to try and turn as many people against me as possible.
An hour long video from my ex girlfriend and current best friend, about her experience with my stalker. She’s known pretty far around the Undertale fandom as WalkingMelonsAAA, but she now goes by SpectroliteAAA. The video details how he tried to manipulate her into turning against me, and the manipulation tactics he employed on her. You can find the link to it on page 115, but I highly, HIGHLY recommend reading the document before you do, as it will bring together a lot of context.
I want to clarify that I never wanted to do this. My ex friend, who’s been doing this for years, is very mentally unwell, and at the end of the day, I do not want to hurt him. You don’t do this sort of behavior if you’re in a happy place. But to spend years trying to ruin my life? There is only so much I can deal with before I can say ‘enough is enough’.
I do not want him attacked. I am just tired of feeling like I don't have a voice, and as much as I’d rather just post funny videos or artwork or game updates, my hand has been forced.
Not only that, it has been extremely exhausting to spend hours screenshotting and gathering evidence to debunk him. Accusations are easy to make. But refuting accusations takes so much more time and effort, and that doesn’t include the mental toll it takes as well. And doing all this, definitely took a mental toll on me.
The link to the google document is down below. If you chose to read it, thank you. And if you don’t? That’s absolutely fine, go do something way more fun with your day.
Check it out here.
