Its that time for Part 3 of the Hotwifing 101 series. Here we will focus on the Vixen (Hotwife).
So there are a few ways to describe the Hotwife. Vixen is one of those names and is the preferred name to describe her. Being the Vixen in a Stag/Vixen relationship is the exact same thing as being a Hotwife. She usually wears an anklet on her right leg as a sign to potential bulls. And there are multiple symbols on that anklet that show who she is. The Vixen has been given freedom by her Stag to play with other men. She answers only to her Stag and for the most part follows his rules in Hotwifing. Of course behavior varies among Hotwives depending on how the 2 choose to do things.
The Vixen ultimately picks her Bull but that is usually after her Stag has authorized it. Like I posted last week, your Stag protects you and keeps the douchebags away. But when he says its ok….then the Vixen takes over.
The anticipation of a new lover can be exhilliarating. The first meeting is the most crucial. A Vixen should dress to impress. Make the potential Bull excited. My personal opinion is that there should be no playtime on the first meeting. Do not rush anything. Its extremely exciting when after you meet and exchange numbers….to build up the anticipation of playtime. Flirting and sending naughty pictures back and forth always tends to make you and your new lover want to get together quickly. Your New Bull will want to take the reigns but never give him that power. He is yours to use and he will abide by your rules.
When the playdate comes, dont forget why you are doing this. You arent playing with your new Bull to satisfy him, even though you ultimately will. You are doing this for your Stag. You are giving him a show. He may sit back and just enjoy the show, or he may wish to join in. Make sure to frequently make eye contact with your Stag as you are pleasured by your new Bull. Remember that you will be reclaimed later and it is these visuals that he uses to reclaim you and talk to you while he does so. And I cant reiterate this enough…you must be reclaimed that evening.
With myself and my Stag, he loves knowing I had a good time and he loves to watch me fuck my bulls. When I go out alone to play, he makes me or the bull take pics and video for him as well. When we get home afterwards, I do exactly as he wants. As his Vixen, I please my Stag! Its usually very rough with him after my playdates as well.
There are many other topics to discuss with the Vixen and I will talk about them in upcoming posts.
This is a weekly posting just for Hotwives, Stags, Bulls, and Swingers. Every Wednesday I will focus on your questions, comments and statements on the Hotwife lifestyle. Feel free to direct all questions today through the submit feature, not the Ask or messaging. Thanks and Happy Hotwifing! 💋
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