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Lef more active on my football side blog: @tuxedo-lef

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Ask inbox is always open! I may take some time to reply if it’s a full on writing prompt.

About me

about me - 2024 F1 drivers tier ranking

side blog: @tuxedo-lef (arsenal and football focused)

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let's sniff with mama

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proud nick smiling at slaf while he answers questions — round 1 game 1 @ TBL 04.19.26

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Ramos watching luka play and milan winning the derby yeahh I KNOW MY GOATS #lukamos #iknowmygays

[chenniechopper]

just straight up going full fábio layout with my main blog too 😭 sorry but he’s just too cute

[chenniechopper]

Hey, I don't think you're into honeychili anymore, but I just wanted to say that I discovered them from your fics and I absolutely adore them (I'm too late to the ship, I know 😔) and their relationship tag on AO3 has been growing recently (they are mostly just filler couples or side couples along with the main pairing but it's better than nothing lmao) and looking at some of the posts under the honeychili tag, I can't help but think you'd be excited to see it. (Apologies if this made you feel uncomfortable) TL;DR thank you for introducing me to honeychili, I think you'd be happy to know they're thriving right now (or on an upward trajectory at least - lol)

Hi dear anon! This ask is actually incredibly sweet, so I want to thank you for taking the time to write and having the courage to press send 🫶🏻 I sometimes think about deleting old works, but I have to remind myself people do go back to these or stumble on them years later. 😅

The most beautiful facet of writing for rare or less popular pairings is having the opportunity to introduce other people to it (even a while after posting these fics). I never consider my fics to be particularly good compared to the other masterpieces under the Daniel/Carlos tag, but I guess some of them hold some merit.

I’ll always be attached to honeychili, but I’ll be honest I’ve been out of the F1 loop recently and hadn’t checked the tag. I’m glad more people are seeing the vision even if it’s just as a side pairing! I haven’t really read any fics for them since 2024 so feel free to send me some recommendations for the new ones that have come out.

If my F1 hyperfixation returns, you best believe honeychili will still be my number 1 😌 Daniel and Carlos are still my favourites within the sport and I can’t see anyone else taking that spot

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felix auger-aliassime is interviewed after winning his third round match at the us open (30.08.2025)

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Btw.

[chenniechopper]

between wilo and richy who do you think would top more? i feel like it’d be pretty 50/50, maybe a slight lean towards richy. but i think saliba would be an eater, idk why though.

thank you for sending me this! do come back with wilofiori (calawilo) asks anytime but it would be easier if you send them on my side blog so i can archive them properly 🙂‍↕️

nsfw answer:

my opinion is very similar to yours! i feel like they would switch quite often but maybe wilo is more willing to bottom because richy is impatient and likes to get satisfaction quickly. he finds prepping himself a tedious task even when wilo is involved which is why maybe they usually only get to the part where wilo eats him out. i also think wilo likes to feel small because he’s always the tallest in the room (unless kai is there lol) and having richy hug his back or frame his head with his big arms while he comes into him satiates that tiny guilty pleasure in wilo’s heart.

so maybe 40/60 but like it’s not a big deal in my head. maybe they like to wrestle for it sometimes, make it a game so they’re already hot and panting before they actually get to it 🤭

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A+ Writing: Character growth done right

AKA: How the Netflix show "The Law According to Lidia Poët" wrote one of the best character growth-arcs I ever witnessed on screen

AKA: The long promised: Enrico Poët character meta

I think many shows centering around feminism - and especially period pieces - struggle to write feminism and the situation women lived - and still live in - a realisitic and relatable way. You either have male character saying stuff like: "Women belong in the kitchen" or male character being absolutly pro-women. Nothing in between. And even when sexism is addressed... a real character arc where a male person grows into realizing what women suffer from... often in silence... is hardly anywhere to be found. In a way thats not staged, but just human. Flawed and raw and relatable

And then Enrico Poet walzed in and just delievered. Its insane.

Short summary: The Law according to Lidia Poet is a show about the first female italian lawyer who had to fight against alot of prejudice, as well as a occupational ban. Enrico is her brother.

When we meet Enrico he is a mirror of the society surrounding him.

Whats really interesting about the way he is written is: He is more nuanced then your typical period piece sexist: "Go and bear babies." Instead he respects her intelligence and her intellect. He respects her wish to work... but not as a lawyer. If his sister really wants to work and earn her own money why not in a traditional female job?

Interestingly, and very telling for his character, is what he says next

He hesitates before he says that. And he doesn't look at Lidia. He looks at his daughter. So yes... he considers marrying a valid option for a woman. But not for Lidia, because Lidia is not "normal". Nowhere in the whole show he tells Lidia to marry. He maybe not agrees with her, but he always shows a certian kind of respect for her wishes.

Later he says:

So does he says all those things because he truely believes them... or because his father - a higher male authority - used to say the same things and he just repeats them?

But Lidia insists on being a lawyer so Enrico eventually agrees that she can be his assistent (he is a lawyer himself) and help with cases, but only if:

So already here the show overcomes the boring cliché trope of: "Women belong in the kitchen"-sexist. No, Enrico is much more nuanced then this. Already in the short conversation we see that there two sides: What Enrico was taught to say and what he really believes.

When we enter episode 2 Lidia starts working for Enrico. The power dynamic is clear. He is in the leading position. Nevertheless Lidia is taking every opportunity she gets to keep on working as a lawyer, independet from her brother. When Enrico finds out about her "side business" he is angry. But interestingly he doesn't try to stop her.

After Lidia solved the ep1 case really sucessfully a certain kind of trust grew between these two. Enrico doesn't want to get involved in trouble, but he trust his sisters abilitiy to solve the case.

But then - from one moment to the next - the really real danger occurrs that the public might find out that he is working with his sister, his sister who is not allowed to work in law anymore. And he snaps:

Here he only thinks about himself. Every trust between them is lost. In this moment Enrico only thinks about his career. This moment Lidias professional success is not to him... because she will not have any anyway.

But you don't think the show lets him get away with that, right? Oh our boy will learn his lesson.

He and Lidia meet a lesbian who had to hide her relationship with another woman. The following conversation takes place.

THIS! This is the first time he has to look into a mirror and realize he is part of the problem. Until this point he probably thought that he is a good guy. He lets his sister work with him, he lets her solve her own cases. But now he is forced to realize that he also judged his sister, every day. He has to realize that his sister suffers and he is one of many reasons. He is not one of the good guys. We see him being ashamed and he starts to think.

The show ends with Lidia not being allowed to ever work as a lawyer or lawyer assistent ever again.

When Enrico and Lidia are called to court, Enrico says this to Lidia:

But his tone has changed. He doesn't try to muzzle her anymore. He tries to protect her. Because he knows that whatever she will say, it will become worse... for him, but also for her.

And when the judge announce the sentence, Enrico shortly looks to her sister. Checking how this sentence will effect her. He starts caring. Because the conversation with the lesbian character - him being forced to look in the mirror - slowly starts changing him.

Episode 3 marks a turning point in Enricos character development

In epsiode 3 Lidia is solving a murder. The victim is the father of a guy she was supposed to marry when she was younger. The engagement was arranged and Lidia ran away because she didn't wanted to marry him. While she is solving the murder Lidia finds a letter from her own father to the father of her arranged-ex-fiancé.

It turns out that Lidia was only supposed to marry so that her father gets his debts canceled. Lidia shows Enrico the letter. He is horrified.

While he is reading the letter he is so ashamed he can not even look into Lidias eyes.

His voice breaks while he keeps on reading, he panics and is still not able to lock eyes with Lidia.

And now comes the quote that - imo - shows his character growth: "Thats a cattle market".

In this moment he realizes that the life of his sister, a woman, is worth nothing. That she can be easily auctioned off like a cow. That she is at the mercy of her own family... men... who can drop her any moment and cause harm to her. Because legally she has no protection and can not speak for herself. A cattle market indeed.

When Enrico hears how calm Lidia is... sad, broken... but super calm like she isn't surprised, Enrico is horrified. Because he realizes that this is what Lidia is confronted with every day. For him thats shocking, for her? thats the reality of her every day life. And being confronted with that, changes Enrico. He realizes that he can not longer close his eyes and pretend that his sister is some kind of "freak" for wanting to make her own voice heard

Its time for him to step up, to do something. To fix all the injustice that happened to Lidia, just because she is woman. Not standing in her way, but standing alongside her.

And Lidia smiles, with hope in her eyes, because it is the first time a man stood up for her and fights for her rights alongside her.

Because Enrico now knows what it means to be a woman. He saw the injustice and he can not be quiet anymore.

He grew so much. We came from Enrico telling Lidia that she shouldn't work in law to him seeing them as equal.

To him eventually waiting outside her house, neither saying goodbye to her nor trying to stop her from leaving to America. Just respecting whatever choice she will make.

This is character growth doen right!

TL:DR

This show takes a really raw and human approach to Enrico character growth: want to work along side a woman? Then you have to face the reality women are suffering from. And eventually this reality will change also your perception of the reality surrounding you. Is this character growth idealized? Sure but that’s not the point.

The point is too show how the reality of women can effect and change a male character, in a positive way, that’s also human and relatable. And they just nailed it

[tuxedo-lef]

Fábio Vieira - One more time 🎞️

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kevin magnussen in his garage for nico hulkenbergs first podium. never kill yourself gay sex is always around the corner

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Dino skulls!

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we should have fuck ass random rules for more races. you have to parallel park into the pit box in baku. if you don’t overtake anyone in interlagos you’re disqualified for being shit. odd numbered finishers get half points in abu dhabi so everyone is trying to overtake all the time. these are so bad but so was monaco. i could go on

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