It’s April. I will be celebrating my 35th birthday in 8 days. What better time to reflect than now?
The last entry I have published on Tumblr marked a key milestone - I became a homeowner in 2019. Then the COVID-19 pandemic came knocking. Needless to say, 2020 was a watershed year for everyone. It had been a humbling experience.
Fast-forward to 2022, how am I faring as a 35-year-old woman? Have I remained stagnant? How far have I evolved?
I am thankful and grateful to say that I am healthy and can live comfortably.
I have kept to my promise and made it a habit to keep a learner’s mindset, at work and in my personal time. I am still an avid reader, primarily non-fiction and mostly on economics, politics and current affairs. When I am too tired to read, I listen to podcasts, first thing in the morning, or before bed. My favorites are podcasts that increase my knowledge on specific topics or industries, which expands my worldview.
I am no stick figure nor am I the most voluptuous, but I make it a point to stay active. I have placed my sets of dumbbells where they are visible and easily accessible to serve as a conscious workout reminder. Often times, my mental note to coax myself to workout for a few minutes gets extended to 20 mins or 45 mins.
I am unmarried and financially independent. At my age, as I spend more time doing things on my own, I get so comfortable with how things are that I do not feel lacking.
Failed relationships in the past have given me plenty to reflect upon. It would be wonderful if I have a partner in my life for fun banters, bringing different perspectives to my ‘monologue’. But until I meet an amazing man that I look up to, with shared values, a person I can learn from and grow with (intellectually, not sideways), I will continue to embrace singlehood. Though, as one of my friends once asked “Are you manifesting?” Well, I shall!
Every year, my resolution is simple - continue to embody the spirit of lifelong learning, stay humble and be kind. I have so much more to learn and many more ways to improve myself.
Here to a beautiful year!