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tryna post some more art on this blog - professional Monoma stan and kiribaku shipper

[gigagrue]

[chevalierrr]

Dio in da bath for today

[picsthatmakeyougohmm]

[chevalierrr]

It's the end of the road

Where did all the good times go? Back when we only used to worry about which fanart to put as our laptop wallpaper and what to make our tumblr url, when we spent our days reading fanfics and creating whatever we could to add to the series we loved; but now it seems like we don't have time for that anymore. We're all growing up. The world is getting worse and worse and things are so scary and sad now. We aren't in school anymore. We aren't even the same as we were back then, no matter how we want to think about it we HAVE changed. We all miss the days when we could log into tumblr and read fanfics for hours and laugh about otps with our best friends, but life catches up eventually. Life moves on and it doesn't wait for you, and the next thing you know, you haven't even spoken to those friends in years. But why? We all want to think that we're in charge of our own fates, but if we were, then why is everything so empty now? The fandoms, the stories we write, the shows we post, it all just seems so meaningless now, but why?

We don't take breaks from our own lives anymore. One day you log off of tumblr for the night, and the next thing you know you're married with kids, and you still haven't logged on to date- and you're unhappy. Sure, maybe you'll log back on for the memories but I can't be the only one to say it all just feels so meaningless.

We struggle with loveless marriages, self harm, stress, politics, when we used to be so happy just browsing the internet.

Where does life go?

Where did all the good times even go?

[bob-belcher]

[cheaphalloweencostume]

just because it “fits” doesnt mean its comfortable or sustainable stopppppppp this shit

[paladinpup-deactivated20151129]

There are two main factors at play when someone says that a condom is too small: (1) the band size is too small & (2) the condom is not sustainable

The band is at the base of the condom. It’s latex is made thicker here than the shaft and is, therefore, less elastic. The band keeps the condom secure so it does not come off mid-insertion and so penial fluids do not leak from the condom. To do this, the band has to keep a very tight grip on the base of the penis. This is the main complaint from people using condoms too small for them. The shaft’s plastic can stretch comfortably, but the band is not so lenient and uncomfortably or painfully squeezes the base of the penis.

Condoms in use experience a lot of friction. For a condom’s shaft or band to be stretched farther than it was intended weakens the latex. The band and shaft are then at risk of being broken from the friction. It fitting does not mean it is sustainable.

If your partner says a condom is too small, believe them and cease from doing anything that requires a condom. If your partner says a condom is too small but is trying to pressure you into unprotected sex, kick them out the door. 

[anxiousartisan]

Thaaaank you please read the above they make large and XXL condoms for a reason and it’s not to stoke men’s egos

[snyderman37]

A former… friend suggested I try a size or two larger, and yes, they do work.

[megabeeprime]

Yep. At first, I thought that condoms were supposed to be that tight. I’d seen those “condoms can fit on a two liter bottle so quit your complaining,” I had no basis for comparison because dudes don’t talk about that shit, and no one wants to be that “HURR HURR GUESS I NEED A MAGNUM XL” guy.

[siphersaysstuff]

Now wear that condom on your arm for a while. Ten minutes at least. Still got sensation in your arm?

One of the many failures of sex ed in this country is the notion that there’s only two types of condom, “fits everyone except those elephant-trunk-cock freaks” and “for elephant-trunk-cock freaks or lying braggarts” (and yes, there’s implicit shame in the idea of people needing non-”regular”-sized condoms and the genesis for such is pretty likely rooted in some really nasty viewpoints about certain groups of people but I’m digressing).

But penises come in a LOT of dimensions, and not all of them fit right in a “normal” condom. You don’t need to have a monster down there for a condom to be legitimately painful and/or break mid-act. This can leave a lot of people legitimately unawares that it doesn’t have to be like this. (I was, early on.)

Condom too tight? That’s a real problem for the reasons pointed out above. But it’s a solvable one at most drug stores, which generally have a broader (ha ha) selection than your Walmarts or Targets. Or suck it up (ha ha) and go to an “adult boutique” (a proper one) where they’re likely to have even more options and let’s be real here the people working at these aren’t gonna give you Looks over condom selection. Or shop at said boutiques online if you REALLY need to avoid the in-person thing.

And if you think you’re gonna be doing things requiring condoms, HAVE YOUR OWN. Yes, even if you personally don’t have a penis. Buy a box of large-size as well just in case.

And don’t let anyone give you guff over it, and don’t let anyone pressure you into unprotected sex because of condom size.

[magic-retina-deactivated2017100]

For the record, even if you’re doing things that don’t involve a penis at all, condoms are good to have around. They make great dental dams on the fly, keep toys clean, and keep body parts clean if your partner is using their hands. :) Also, keep some non-latex ones around in case you or your partner has a latex allergy. Trust me, there are few places worse to have that allergic reaction. o_o

[tumbler-tidbits]

Willy wrapping wisdom!!

[myinconnelly1]

maybe someone will find this useful.

Also, Not everyone is okay with using condoms, Girls can have issues with condoms as well.  The spermicides that are used may irritate and cause yeast infections and allergic reactions.  So if your girl says no condoms, this might be why.  

Open and honest conversations about Sex with your partner are important, and if you can’t talk about it, then you shouldn’t be doing it.

[manawhaat]

Also, there are condoms you can buy according to the size of your penis in comparison to vegetables… it sounds weird at first but this could be a great resource if you’re unsure about buying larger condoms.

https://www.dezeen.com/2015/08/27/guan-hao-pan-love-guide-condoms-packaging-different-vegetables-penis-girths-correct-fit-size/

[pimentogirl]

And guys. Don’t buy super large to massage your ego. Trust me on this. There is nothing sexy about spending twenty minutes digging around inside your partner’s body looking for the damned thing.

The trip to the clinic is quite a mood killer, too.

be responsible, respect your partner, buy the size that fits and carry a couple of spares.

[rivalwrites]

[omgthatdressxx-blog]

How to Pack Luggage?

[medlow]

Ryo Asuka smiling spam

[dabsquat]

yall know what’s missing in the yoi fandom? more art of minako and lilia as ballet dancers

[yourfavisgayandahomophobe]

Sateriasis Venomania from The Evillious Chronicles is gay and homophobic!

[yourfavisgayandahomophobe]

Asuka Ryo from Devilman is gay and homophobic!

[chevalierrr]

Reblog this post if you used to be part of the yoi fandom!

I want to find my old mutuals!!! (I was Otayeet)

[r00ib0s]

okay, there, enjoy

[r00ib0s]

by popular demand

[p0ssmz]

burning

[stimman4000]

happy pride month kings

[vampireapologist-archive-deacti]

he was fucking just eating cookie dough alone on the dance floor I can’t handle this

[squided]

if I’m alone on the dance floor eating raw cookie dough and a guy notices me and actually finds me attractive?, that’s a keeper

[squided]

Okay apparently it was cocaine but still someone seeing me on the dance floor eating raw cocaine and still thinks I’m attractive? Keeper fucking material

[pudzisgoodz]

fact checked it y'all

[timesnewvulcan]

My roommates and I messed up some iron-on transfer instructions and now…

[chevalierrr]

Ry(ir)o(n on)

[disneyforprincesses]

Disney Ladies + Science (& “Science”). Thanks to our followers for ideas.

[mathemagicalmlp-deactivated2024]

Yes, textile engineer. That’s not a fashion designer in any way.

[pigspeetsandhooflikefeets]

You’ve obviously not watched the movie. She invented those fabrics to resist flame, turn invisible, resist high amounts of friction, and stretch infinite times, and avoid tear from bombs

she did a tad more than “design” them

[huntsman-ash]

(Id go so far as to say “tactical textile engineer”

[coolmanfromthepast]

And since the fabrics have to be comfortable as well, she’s a tactile tactical textile engineer.

[mornington-the-crescent]

And since the uniforms also had to look stylish and not gaudy, she’s a tasteful tactile tactical textile engineer.

[nickhelmer-deactivated20220112]

And she’s the best at what she does, which makes her a talented tasteful tactile tactical textile engineer.

[judgejudyofficial]

i can’t believe people actually came for Edna Mode like that