[oleanderunderground]

Ok. This shrimp was too well done not to share. LOOK AT THIS SHRIMP!!!! you can never replace the charm and joy of human doodles!!!! Whoever you are... Thank you for the shrimp ❤️

[mismedleym]

recollections

[mrporg]

[circles19]

Happy Pride Month to you all. To my fellow folks in aromantic and asexual spectrum especially

[sailermoon]

this is how new yorkers @ mamdani

[sailermoon]

[lakemojave]

I have you blocked because I don't like your blog at all but I hope you're doing well. ok blocking you again adieu

Hello???

[lakemojave]

Anon bb come back i can change for you

[wickedsick]

[stealingpotatoes]

rereading your own fics/wips is a very slippery slope into finding out you actually have to finish your fics if you want them finished

[louisegluckpdf]

they won't tell you this in therapy but sometimes the best way to stop catastrophizing/anxiety is to interrupt your spiraling with "girl what the hell are you talking about"

[ytpreviews]

It's not a cure but you have no idea how many times this image has helped me with my OCD

[notgreatthanks]

This tag has been more effective than any meds I’ve ever taken

[hearted-words]

Reblogging because this might help with my Imposter Syndrome and to shut a few tabs off so my brain isn't constantly buffering

[eggsnatcheskneecaps]

What if Charmonroe was fat and old. What then. That'd fit her 'anyone can be sexy' motif better

[eggsnatcheskneecaps]

Also Jiang Xitong and Qing Yumo should be in their 50s or 60s sorry not sorry

[circles19]

i hate ADHD. I hate this disorder I have in my brain that make stupid mistakes and then I tried to correct them and it make me feel and seen incompetent. How tf I am making mistakes in application form and trying to transfer money but then again and again I mistakes and again and again. I don't even have a job yet. I am being recluse for 4 years now. Now when I have finally enough money to save for ADHD meds to prepare for college programs that I can progress in further I make stupid mistakes that irritated my mother who is my biggest supporter. Career wise and now I am being threatened that if I don't get into advance program, they will marry me off. I am aroace. I don't want to get married and have kids. The idea of marriage and sex replused me so much it make nauseauous. My mom tell me my grandmother has a boy in mind and I want cry. She is very big in tough love but she is right. Either I become financially independent and remain in motion showing I have courage to remain responsible financially in adult life when she is not here or I get married. I am from a patriarchal society. My mom knows this. She always tell me I need to be on my own feet to move through life or no one will come to save me after her. I know this. My god, I hate it to have ADHD who keep blocking my way either not able to accept rejection from job or even able to handle some paperworks. Or even go through advance college programs. She wants to do something about my life to make sure I have necessary skills to be able to earn money. She will be happy to be just a cashier. I can't even get a minimum wage job.

[goth-queen]

[spaceshipsandpurpledrank]

[spaceshipsandpurpledrank]

@jorality

[jorality]

We know who has all the brain cells

[arsnof]

It makes the dream work

[naamahdarling]

Being smart enough to know when to consult and listen to someone more knowledgeable is in fact quite smart! Many humans cannot manage this!

[spinningininfinity]

lets talk about how smart the tabby was to know that the orange wanted to go through the gate.

yes, i'll open the gate.....*sigh*

[circles19]

[hotvampireadjacent]

[glitter-stained]

Might be mean but what I hear when I see people say stuff like "too weird to be platonic" or "too complex to be either romantic or platonic" or "too sinister to be romantic" or, or, or, is that you guys lack creativity. Also you're weirdly obsessed with assigning traits to forms of affection and human bonds that have nothing to do with it. I can imagine a romantic relationship that is deeply sinister and more complicated than whatever bond between two characters you were saying was too profound or whatever bs to fit that dynamic. The issue is that if I write something toxic and complicated that blurs the lines like that, some people will reject the idea of it being exactly what is presented because they have too narrow a definition of love and forms of affection. Same with platonic, with of course the weight of heterenormativity looming over with that "there is no platonic explanation for that" stuff. It sounds like some tumblr specific ship discourse but I really feel like I'm seeing the same mindset that leads to people saying "someone who loves you wouldn't do that" to abuse victims, which is a misstep that never fails to frustrate me. Please don't do that. Please don't ascribe morality and purity to some emotions. I really think we should get more practice at saying "Maybe they love you, but that doesn't justify you getting hurt" and "just because they love you doesn't mean they're the only capable of doing so." Don't get me wrong: in order to work together for a better world, we have to put in the effort and try to love eachother, whatever meaning that may have for us. But love isn't this magical sentiment that absolves us or fault, and it can't be disproven by the existence of violence. It's not salvation and it's not absolution. We're imperfect and so are the ways in which we express our affection towards eachother, but eachother is all we have, so we've better accept it.

[bikuwana-still-on-discord-deact]

girls when the media they're obsessed with is never going to be as good as they wish it could be

[lordofseagulls]

girls when the media they're obsessed with is never going to be as good as they wish it could be

[jester-nonconforming]

btw i love when dubcon is used in fiction as a way to explore characters. i love when characters don’t understand how to “properly” ask for consent because they have never had their consent respected in their lives. i love when traumatized adult characters make potentially unwise choices about what to do with their bodies because they have the autonomy to do so. i love when characters make choices that i personally wouldn’t make, but i can totally understand how they got there. i love when characters have complex, fucked up, unhealthy dynamics, but still care about each other and want to do better. i love when writers trust audience members to read between the lines instead of spoon feeding them moral lessons. i love when characters are allowed to actually fuck up and have mistakes to learn from!

[ostolero]

better call saul has shown me that life doesn't stop at 30 or 40. I got rest of my years to irreparably damage the lives of those around me