THRIVE, DON'T JUST SURVIVE - Our Guide for Students
So youâre at Uni. Youâre excited? Nervous? Scared? Raring to go? What are the next 3 or 4 years going to be like? What will you have achieved at the end of that time? How will you have changed for the better, or for the worse?
This post is about giving you some tips on not just surviving student life, but thriving, really thriving. We want you to get the most out of University and we hope this all helps.
We reckon this is the biggy. Numero Uno. Top of the pack. We know you know that getting involved with a church is a good idea, perhaps even a great idea. The problem is, ideas donât just become realities automatically. So if you take only one piece of advice from this guide this is it: find a good church and get stuck in. Why? Well, this is what the Bible says about the church:
The church is the bride of Christ;
She expresses the manifold wisdom of God;
She is the fullness of Christ;
And all the âwisdomâ of hell will not hold her back from what Jesus has planned for her.
 A good church is a church that understands what the Bible says about it, and that seeks to do what the church did in the early days: bible-based preaching and discipleship; connecting relationally â not just notionally but deeply, sharing with and caring for one another; Christ-centred worship in all areas of church life; filled with and welcoming the activity of the Holy Spirit; reaching people in the places where God has put us; and seeking to help those in need within and outside of the church.
 We aim to be that type of church, and there are others doing the same in the city. Pick one quickly, get stuck in, get involved in a small/cell group, get serving, get rooted, get support. Thrive.
 (See: Ephesians, Acts 2:23-47)
Leaving home can produce a whole spectrum of emotions: from freedom to fear; or delight to depression. You may get homesick. You may abuse your freedoms. It may not make a massive difference to you. Whatever happens, we would recommend you make a home in Sheffield, by which we mean, find people you can talk to and who can look after you. Not just people the same age, but those who are older and who come with more experience. Youâre not trying to replace your parents, but making sure you are looked after when you are at University. The best way to do this is get involved with a small/cell group (ours are called Core Groups), and you can do this by emailing [email protected]. They meet mid-week every week â itâs where the rubber hits the road and where you can be looked after, and look after others. Itâs where we apply whatâs been preached on Sunday, and where we often break bread and share wine together too.
(See: Acts 2:23-47, John 13:34, Ephesians 5:19-21, Colossians 3:16, Hebrews 10:24-25)
Donât be Funny with Money
From now on in, you are responsible for what you spend your money on â and it can be a challenge to be responsible with it. The Bible says a lot about handling our money, and handling it well. We havenât got space to note it all here but here are some things to think about:
What do you think is appropriate to spend on food, clothes, drink, fun, going out, presents etc? Are you going to stick to that? How?
How will you be able to give (cheerfully and hilariously)?
How will you manage your debt if you get into it?
From time to time, we run courses on Handling Money and budgeting. If you are interested in these email [email protected].
(See: Romans 13:6-8, Psalm 37:21, 2 Corinthians 9, Matthew 25:14-28)
Jesus talked about walking the narrow road. Normal student life is mainly about the wide path â and thatâs the path that leads to destruction. Itâs easy to take the wide path: get drunk, mess around, get in and out of relationships, party life away â itâs easier than you would think. The wide path suggests freedom and satisfaction but itâs an empty promise that eventually squeezes the life out of you.
Following Jesus wholeheartedly down the narrow path is real life and the Bible says everything else compared to Him is absolute rubbish. So which path is it going to be?
(See: Matthew 7, Philippians 3)
Within the coming days and weeks itâs very likely that you will have picked friends for life. The people you choose to spend your time with now may well be the people you are still friends with when you are retiring. So choose wisely. Donât surround yourself with friends who love the wide path. And donât just surround yourself with Christians. Get a healthy mix â and make sure you are most closely connected to those who can help you most effectively live for God. Get stuck into church!
And just to say: all around you, people will be picking that special someone â for life, for a few years, or in some cases a few days. Uni culture pushes people towards romantic relationships. Even Christian Uni culture can head that way sometimes. Feel free to relieve yourself of this pressure. Feel free to enjoy the joys of singleness â and when itâs time, feel free to enjoy the one person that God has got for you for life.
(See: Proverbs 12:26, 13:20, Matthew 28: 16-20, Acts 2:47, Song of Songs 8:4, 1 Corinthians 7: 32-35)
Prioritise Your Priorities
Are you a planner? Do you just take life one step at a time? Either way, at times, life as a student can get pretty hectic and itâs at those times you need to know what your priorities are. So what are they? Who are they? Whatâs God called you to do? Thereâs not really a right or wrong answer with this and itâs different for every person. We would recommend working that out with advice from wise friends. Right at the top of the list though, is getting time with God. We have the privilege of spending time with the Almighty One because Jesus died on the cross for us. Get Him in your life, get involved in a church, get on top of your studies (that is why you are here of course!), get involved in societies (including the CU), get having some fun!
(See: Mark 1:35, Matthew 6:33, Luke 10:38-42, 1 Corinthians 15:10, 2 Corinthians 4:16-18)
Thereâs only so much you can write on blog post before peeps get bored but we hope this has been useful in perhaps suggesting what might help you thrive at Uni. Our prayer is you do and that you get stuck in with us.Â