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Marriage and the Quran Part 3
The Qur’an often discusses marriage and concubinage together. In many translations, the word nisa is wrongly translated as wives when, in fact, it just means women. There are also places where the Qur’an does use the word that could be translated as wives (azwaj) when exclusively referring to wives and not concubines. However, when the Qur’an refers to women in the context of sexual relations and…
Marriage and the Quran Part 2
A Cultural Shift We’ve noted that, practically, the loudest people on the block live in a cultural paradigm that bears little resemblance to much of our recent past. The technological era has created abundance for those few people who form the majority of popular discourse, and for whom there exist real existential problems. To begin with, the traditional values based on over twenty thousand…
Marriage and the Quran
Introduction There are hundreds, if not thousands, of books written on the subject of marriage. Most of these books are prescriptive books that tell men and women how to go about getting married and how to behave appropriately within marriage. These books are typically also romantic and far from the actual experiences people have in real life. Most of them also address marriage in purely…
The Female Breadwinner
If a woman wants a man who is the breadwinner, she should marry a man who can afford that. She should also not work, but instead stay at home because that entitles her to have a breadwinner. However, that too doesn’t mean that she doesn’t earn her keep. She absolutely earns her keep as she works very hard to maintain a home and to look after the children. She IS doing a job, and earning her keep.…
Marriage Is A Serious Affair
Marriage is a serious affair. Pun intended. You can’t just marry a woman because you feel you need a wife. You need to vet her fully and properly, both for her sake and your sake, so that hopefully your marriage doesn’t end in divorce. I’ve had women ask me to marry them, and I turned them down. Friends would say, “But she’s beautiful.” I would say, “Ok, you marry her, then.” I’ve seen enough men…
Hypergamy is Real
When men complain about lack of support it’s because men don’t support each other. A lot of men are constantly talking to women and helping women. When it comes to supporting other men, they’re not willing to do so. Women, on average, won’t support men either because why should they? He’s a man. Why can’t he manage himself? What happens in the end is that men support women, and women support…
What is a Wife?
From the book, “How to Choose and Keep a Wife: A Marriage Guide” by Coach De Bruyns First off, we won’t know how to choose a wife if we don’t know what a wife is. Many of us in the modern West have lost touch with what it means to have a wife because women in the West are not raised to be wives to begin with, except for a few. A wife is like a doctor. A doctor looks after patients, a wife…
About Islam Part 1: The God Concept
Originally presented in video format – now adapted as a written blog post for deeper reflection.In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.All praise belongs to Allah, Lord of the Worlds. It is He who created us in truth, so that we might identify the truth through His guidance sent with His Prophets and Messengers, the last of whom was Muhammad, the son of Abdullah (peace and…
Red Pill and the Quran: Is the Quran Closer to Red Pill Reality or Simp Culture?
Originally from the video “Red Pill and the Quran, “Sometimes I catch flak for my content. People say it’s completely outside the context of Islam. As a Muslim, they argue, I should stick strictly to quoting Quranic verses, Hadith, or books of jurisprudence every single time I open my mouth. Let me push back on that right now. Just because I don’t begin every sentence with “Allah says in Surah…
The Myth of the Gender War
Every day, I see posts and comments that portray either men or women in a negative light. The Red Pill movement has a tendency to portray women based on the traits and experiences of the worst kinds of women. “All women are whores!” Similarly, feminists try their best to paint men with the same brush that is used to paint those men who are in prison for murder and rape. “All men are rapists.” Or…
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How to Choose and Keep a Wife https://www.powells.com/book/how-to-choose-and-keep-a-wife-a-marriage-guide-for-men-9798873128297?srsltid=AfmBOopZm5S0v9cktqDO04_wpPhZsFllZXfDoWvEkQVzbt-T5ro2-WJh https://www.bol.com/nl/nl/p/how-to-choose-and-keep-a-wife/9300000172685569 https://www.thriftbooks.com/w/how-to-choose-and-keep-a-wife-a-marriage-guide-for-men_coach-de-bruyns/52198590/#edition=70872913&idiq=63289986 https://www.thriftbooks.com/w/how-to-choose-and-keep-a-wife-a-marriage-guide-for-men_coach-de-bruyns/52198590 https://www.powells.com/book/how-to-choose-and-keep-a-wife-a-marriage-guide-for-men-9798873128297 https://www.bol.com/nl/nl/p/how-to-choose-and-keep-a-wife/9300000172685569 Live Your Life as a Man https://www.foyles.co.uk/book/live-your-life-as-a-man/coach-de-bruyns/9798409340216 https://www.bol.com/be/fr/p/live-your-life-as-a-man/9300000127955795 https://product.kyobobook.co.kr/detail/S000200753535 Polygyny Maybe Not https://bookscape.com/product-details/polygyny-maybe-not-a-guide-to-monogamy-9798215576960 https://www.walmart.com/ip/Polygyny-Maybe-Not-A-Guide-to-Monogamy-Paperback-9798215576960/5245295420 https://www.worten.pt/produtos/livro-polygyny-maybe-not-a-guide-to-monogamy-de-coach-de-bruyns-ingles-mrkean-9798215576960 https://www.takealot.com/polygyny-maybe-not-a-guide-to-monogamy/PLID94070095 Polygyny Maybe www.goodreads.com/book/show/60728220-polygyny-maybe https://www.ebay.com/itm/365923189625 https://www.waterstones.com/book/polygyny-maybe-a-practical-guide-to-polygyny/coach-de-bruyns/9798223148234 https://www.indigo.ca/en-ca/polygyny-maybe-a-practical-guide-to-polygyny/9798223148234.html https://www.worten.pt/produtos/livro-polygyny-maybe-not-a-guide-to-monogamy-de-coach-de-bruyns-ingles-mrkean-9798215576960 The Terrorist Next Door https://books.apple.com/ie/book/the-terrorist-next-door-hate-at-first-sight/id6446440744 https://www.everand.com/book/632135529/The-Terrorist-Next-Door-Hate-at-first-Sight-1-1 https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-terrorist-next-door-coach-de-bruyns/1143230934 https://www.indigo.ca/en-ca/the-terrorist-next-door-hate-at-first-sight-1-1/a1e23943-2d50-3254-8910-49f0aff67726.html https://www.ibs.it/terrorist-next-door-hate-at-ebook-inglese-coach-de-bruyns/e/9798215779422?srsltid=AfmBOoq066eFjLQ2WwkMstUL8E6CnYCKOqUFwbomYuxLZT6JIU85tz4Q https://www.fnac.com/ia10921488/Coach-De-Bruyns https://www.adlibris.com/fi/kirja/terrorist-next-door-hate-at-first-sight-9798215779422 https://www.indigo.ca/fr-ca/the-terrorist-next-door-hate-at-first-sight-1-1/a1e23943-2d50-3254-8910-49f0aff67726.html The Terrorist Next Door- Prison Sentence www.waterstones.com/book/the-terrorist-next-door/coach-de-bruyns/9798215123447 https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-terrorist-next-door-coach-de-bruyns/1144529462 https://www.worten.pt/produtos/livro-the-terrorist-next-door-prison-sentence-de-coach-de-bruyns-ingles-mrkean-9798432061775 https://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/146888864215 https://www.kobo.com/lu/fr/ebook/the-terrorist-next-door-prison-sentence https://business.walmart.com/ip/1-The-Terrorist-Next-Door-Paperback-9798215123447/5328464509 https://www.tw.coupang.com/products/()-The-Terrorist-Next-Door-Prison-Sentence-Paperback--Independently-Published--English-21007807355137 Read the full article
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Hello, I'm Coach De Bruyns, a South African author, blogger, and life coach dedicated to exploring the pillars of masculinity, traditional values, and resilient family dynamics in a rapidly changing world. I have over 14 years of experience in the fields of business and education. As an author, I've penned thought-provoking books like Polygyny Maybe? A Practical Guide to Polygyny, How to Get and Keep a Wife, the Terrorist Next Door series (including Hate at First Sight and Prison Sentence), IT IS WHAT IT IS, and many more. My writing draws from personal experience, offering practical insights on gender roles, societal norms, religion, and Quranic governance to help men build stronger, more purposeful lives. Beyond the page, I'm an avid athlete with a passion for combat sports—training in boxing, Muay Thai, karate, and judo since childhood. Whether through my books, blog, or coaching, my mission is to challenge modern narratives and guide others toward authentic strength and fulfillment. BOOK A FREE 15 MINUTE SESSION On sale products These are all the eBooks for sale written by Coach De Bruyns. For printed copies, click on the links below: GET YOUR COPY TODAY! Welcome to my corner of the web—explore my works, join the conversation, and let's connect on building a legacy that lasts. You can also book a session to have a conversation about what you'd like to achieve! What does Coach De Bruyns offer? WE OFFER: On this website I offer a wealth of information and articles on relationships, religion, business and health. Ironically, all these matters are normally linked together in the life of the average person. Good relationships often require that the people who engage in them are not so broken that they can't fulfill a basic standard of reliabiltiy and trust. In order to have good relationships with others, you must first have a good relationship with yourself. On this website you'll find many free resources and articles towards developing yourself so that you can better your life. After all, our goal is to help everyone become the best version of themselves. It's not about how well you compare to others, it's about how well you compare to who you were yesterday. Join our groups and forum or simply subscribe to our website to get regular updates. - Weight Loss Coaching - Polygyny Coaching - Relationship Coaching - Guidance Coaching In addition to the various free resources, I also offer coaching for those willing to spend money on themselves and their futures. Good advice is worth paying for because it will set you on the right track and save you years of trial and error. Eventually, everyone comes to the truth but for some it happens too late in life. Why waste time when you can rely on the wealth and experience of others who specialize in helping people progress and come into being. To this end I offer coaching in weight loss, in relationships, and even in polygyny. Social Media I am also a polygynist with multiple wives and a proponent of traditional values that places family at the center of society, not the individual. I am ready to help you transform if you are ready to work on yourself. In just a few consultations you could go from having little to no direction to being single minded enough to accomplish your goals. Most peope put off what they want, for what feels good right now. The path to success is paved with sacrifice, loneliness, heartache and tribulations. You cannot move forward if you're not willing to leave things behind. It might be that you will have to leave certain friends, relationships, or even a wife or husband in order to better yourself. It might be that you will have to leave who you thought you were behind so you can become who you want to become. As a Life Coach, I have the experience, and I've done the time so that you don't have to. I not only lived a big life myself, where I engaged in many escapades of various types, but I also shared in the lives of others who taught me valuable life lessons. Experience with people teaches us that while everyone is unique, we all share very similar challenges. Having dealt with such challenges both personally and through the people I've counselled I understand that there is crisis in the world of interpersonal relationships and finding direction in life. We have, in modern times, lost the identity of tribe, extended families and even nuclear families. We struggle to find our meaningful place. We ask questions like, "Do I even matter to anyone?" Why not reach out, and let me help you? Finally, if you are looking for a spouse we recently added a match making service that we are busy growing. This is not a no strings attached hookup service but rather in the interest of pursuing long-term relationships that will actually flourish where people share common interests and life goals. We also include polygynous marriage services and advice for those so inclined. Do enjoy the content and make sure to SUBSCRIBE. https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLJFC1mKVEOBpVJU3Y0AjKM-NbM__Y9YDq Read the full article
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Hello, I'm Coach De Bruyns, a South African author, blogger, and life coach dedicated to exploring the pillars of masculinity, traditional values, and resilient family dynamics in a rapidly changing world. I have over 14 years of experience in the fields of business and education. As an author, I've penned thought-provoking books like Polygyny Maybe? A Practical Guide to Polygyny, How to Get and Keep a Wife, the Terrorist Next Door series (including Hate at First Sight and Prison Sentence), IT IS WHAT IT IS, and many more. My writing draws from personal experience, offering practical insights on gender roles, societal norms, religion, and Quranic governance to help men build stronger, more purposeful lives. Beyond the page, I'm an avid athlete with a passion for combat sports—training in boxing, Muay Thai, karate, and judo since childhood. Whether through my books, blog, or coaching, my mission is to challenge modern narratives and guide others toward authentic strength and fulfillment. BOOK A FREE 15 MINUTE SESSION On sale products These are all the eBooks for sale written by Coach De Bruyns. For printed copies, click on the links below: GET YOUR COPY TODAY! Welcome to my corner of the web—explore my works, join the conversation, and let's connect on building a legacy that lasts. You can also book a session to have a conversation about what you'd like to achieve! What does Coach De Bruyns offer? WE OFFER: On this website I offer a wealth of information and articles on relationships, religion, business and health. Ironically, all these matters are normally linked together in the life of the average person. Good relationships often require that the people who engage in them are not so broken that they can't fulfill a basic standard of reliabiltiy and trust. In order to have good relationships with others, you must first have a good relationship with yourself. On this website you'll find many free resources and articles towards developing yourself so that you can better your life. After all, our goal is to help everyone become the best version of themselves. It's not about how well you compare to others, it's about how well you compare to who you were yesterday. Join our groups and forum or simply subscribe to our website to get regular updates. - Weight Loss Coaching - Polygyny Coaching - Relationship Coaching - Guidance Coaching In addition to the various free resources, I also offer coaching for those willing to spend money on themselves and their futures. Good advice is worth paying for because it will set you on the right track and save you years of trial and error. Eventually, everyone comes to the truth but for some it happens too late in life. Why waste time when you can rely on the wealth and experience of others who specialize in helping people progress and come into being. To this end I offer coaching in weight loss, in relationships, and even in polygyny. Social Media I am also a polygynist with multiple wives and a proponent of traditional values that places family at the center of society, not the individual. I am ready to help you transform if you are ready to work on yourself. In just a few consultations you could go from having little to no direction to being single minded enough to accomplish your goals. Most peope put off what they want, for what feels good right now. The path to success is paved with sacrifice, loneliness, heartache and tribulations. You cannot move forward if you're not willing to leave things behind. It might be that you will have to leave certain friends, relationships, or even a wife or husband in order to better yourself. It might be that you will have to leave who you thought you were behind so you can become who you want to become. As a Life Coach, I have the experience, and I've done the time so that you don't have to. I not only lived a big life myself, where I engaged in many escapades of various types, but I also shared in the lives of others who taught me valuable life lessons. Experience with people teaches us that while everyone is unique, we all share very similar challenges. Having dealt with such challenges both personally and through the people I've counselled I understand that there is crisis in the world of interpersonal relationships and finding direction in life. We have, in modern times, lost the identity of tribe, extended families and even nuclear families. We struggle to find our meaningful place. We ask questions like, "Do I even matter to anyone?" Why not reach out, and let me help you? Finally, if you are looking for a spouse we recently added a match making service that we are busy growing. This is not a no strings attached hookup service but rather in the interest of pursuing long-term relationships that will actually flourish where people share common interests and life goals. We also include polygynous marriage services and advice for those so inclined. Do enjoy the content and make sure to SUBSCRIBE. https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLJFC1mKVEOBpVJU3Y0AjKM-NbM__Y9YDq Read the full article
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