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Don't use your muse(s) to vent your out-of-character frustrations or give yourself an ego boost.
I've seen this happen many times over my 10+ years of role-playing on this site. I've met a lot of muns that tend to use their muses as a means of airing out their grievances, or making themselves feel/seem important.
Example #1: I once met someone who would speak through their muse whenever someone on the dash (a writing partner or just a mutual) angered or frustrated them. They wouldn't directly call the target out, but to those in the know, it was clear who they were talking about.
Example #2: I knew someone that I would plot a thread out in advance with, we both agreed that was how it was going to play out so both of us would be happy, and then when it came down to writing the thread, their muse unexpectedly vilified mine in order to make them seem like they were "special" or "more important" or "the good guy."
This is incredibly frustrating and off-putting. Writing is supposed to be fun for everyone involved. It's not meant to make any one person seem or feel more important than anyone else.
If you're doing either of these things, rest assured that you are the only one having fun.
I've started seeing this a lot in the last month or so. I see a character of mun A make a dash commentary about Mun B's muse and Mun B either makes an OOC post vagueing about how no one understands / respects their muse or they make a dash commentary IC and vague about mun A in the tags.
It's okay for muses not to get along. What's not okay is making the living person behind that character feel terrible for having their muse be anything other than perfectly agreeable.
Yes. A lot of the characters in this fandom are powerful. Yes. A lot of the characters in this fandom are bad people. No, it's not okay to get shitty in your tags with a real life person because you don't like that their character was disrespectful to yours.
I know we all put a little bit of ourselves into these characters. I know we're very fond of these characters, but when the real life writer starts taking it super personally when a character isn't being nice/ respectful to their character, and it's bothering them enough that they feel the need to vaguely call the other writer stupid / a rude person for not understanding... Maybe take a step back?
Don't hurt real life people over characters. Don't treat other human beings like crap over characters. Don't use characters as an excuse to be shitty to other real life human beings.
Don't use your muse(s) to vent your out-of-character frustrations or give yourself an ego boost.
I've seen this happen many times over my 10+ years of role-playing on this site. I've met a lot of muns that tend to use their muses as a means of airing out their grievances, or making themselves feel/seem important.
Example #1: I once met someone who would speak through their muse whenever someone on the dash (a writing partner or just a mutual) angered or frustrated them. They wouldn't directly call the target out, but to those in the know, it was clear who they were talking about.
Example #2: I knew someone that I would plot a thread out in advance with, we both agreed that was how it was going to play out so both of us would be happy, and then when it came down to writing the thread, their muse unexpectedly vilified mine in order to make them seem like they were "special" or "more important" or "the good guy."
This is incredibly frustrating and off-putting. Writing is supposed to be fun for everyone involved. It's not meant to make any one person seem or feel more important than anyone else.
If you're doing either of these things, rest assured that you are the only one having fun.
Seeing how it's become a problem again for no good reason.
Insults =/= Constructive Criticism
Insults =/= Encouragement
Heck, generally speaking: Being an ass helps nobody! Not even yourself! So don't be one!
Send me 🍷 to buy my muse a drink.
Go into my inbox and tell me a situation you’d love to see my Muse go through.
Curious how my muse would handle heartbreak? Want an open where my Muse is irrationally upset or in danger? Toss all the ideas at me! I might get inspired!
Anon is optional.
Send me a scenario to my inbox that you'd like to roleplay with my muse.
Remember to specify muse for multi-muse blogs!
My muse is pushing themselves too hard, and is at risk of collapsing. How does your muse get them to relax?
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Go on Anon and ask my muse your burning questions!
About them, about their world, about their friends- Anything!
Send me a 💬 if you want to add me on Discord.
I’ve seen a bunch of Skype ask memes, but I haven’t seen a single one for Discord, so I decided to create one myself.
Send 🎵 for my muse to sing to your muse! My muse will sing a song that reminds them of your muse!
fall / autumn / halloween themed prompts
( because it’s that time of year )
☃ — [sender] offers [receiver] a cup of hot cocoa/apple cider ❄ — [sender] and [receiver] take a hayride together ☁ — [sender] and [receiver] roast marshmallows over an open fire ☂ — [sender] offers to share their umbrella with [receiver] ☆ — [sender] snuggles [receiver] under a blanket for warmth ◐ — [sender] and [receiver] take a hike through the woods ☽ — [sender] and [receiver] stroll through a farmer’s market ♢ — [sender] convinces [receiver] to enter a three-legged race with them — [sender] and [receiver] go apple picking ✔ — [sender] and [receiver] get lost in a corn maze ☀ — [sender] and [receiver] visit a pumpkin patch ✿ — [sender] and [receiver] carve a pumpkin together ☹ — [sender] jumps in the pile of leaves [receiver] just raked ☏ — [sender] and [receiver] tailgate at a sports game ♡ — [sender] and [receiver] try to bake an apple/pumpkin pie ⇧ — [sender] convinces [receiver] to climb a tree ✖ — [sender] invites [receiver] to watch a spooky/scary movie ♪ — [sender] and [receiver] listen to spooky music while they decorate ☺ — [sender] arrives at [receiver’s] home with freshly baked bread ☞ — [sender] drags [receiver] to a haunted house ✦ — [sender] and [receiver] search for ghosts ● — [sender] grabs [receiver’s] arm because they are scared ☮ — [receiver] does not recognize [sender] in their halloween costume ♛ — [sender] knocks on [receiver’s] door asking for some candy
+ since these were so popular last year … part II !
❖ — [sender] and [receiver] browse a thrift/vintage store together ❤ — [sender] brings [receiver] a sweater to try on ✉ — [receiver] receives a card in the mail from [sender] ✂ — [sender] and [receiver] attempt making fall/halloween crafts 𓇬 — [sender] and [receiver] build a pillow/blanket fort together ϟ — [sender] and [receiver] are stuck indoors on a rainy/stormy day ❂ — [sender] and [receiver] are stranded when the power goes out ♨ — [receiver] tastes soup that [sender] has made ✈ — [sender] and [receiver] share a picnic in a park ♞ — [sender] and [receiver] volunteer at a local farm 𝄞 — [sender] and [receiver] try to make homemade candy apples ♀ — [receiver] watches [sender] as they try to bob for apples 𓋼 — [sender] and [receiver] get lost in the woods during a scavenger hunt ⋙ — [sender] and [receiver] go kayaking on a river ⚘ — [sender] and [receiver] try to pitch a tent ⍋ — [sender] and [receiver] gather wood for a bonfire ‼ — [sender] wakes [receiver] up after hearing a noise in the middle of the night while camping ➶ — [receiver] watches [sender] as they try to climb a tree ♣ — [sender] and [receiver] drive/bike through backroads/hills/mountains to look at colorful leaves ☠ — [sender] offers to tell [receiver] a ghost/scary story ☑ — [sender] convinces [receiver] to book a room at a haunted hotel ✪ — [sender] and [receiver] drink at a winery or brewery ❏ — [sender] and [receiver] find their turkey/ham smoking in the oven
SEND ME A SYMBOL(S) FOR WHAT YOU’RE INTERESTED IN people struggle with plotting so i figured making it into an askbox thing could help!
DYNAMICS: ✭ friends to lovers ★ rivals to lovers ✦ enemies to lovers ♡ found family ♣ rivals ❦ reluctant allies ❖ platonic ☢ slowburn ➤ love at first sight π partners in crime SITUATIONS ☁ one muse saves the other’s life ☼ one muse (or both) is a single parent ❆ our muses get shut in due to a storm ☤ one muse having to patch the other up ❦ put together through a common goal ⎔ one muse asking the other to stay the night ϟ our muses work together ♁ our muses are neighbors ➽ one muse doesn’t have anyone else to turn to SETTINGS ✚ crossover between our fandoms ☽ sender’s verse in receivers fandom ☾ receivers verse in sender’s fandom ☯ alternate universe / separate fandom than both muses are in
ODDLY SPECIFIC ⌲ one muse is supposed to kill/hurt the other but falls for them instead ✖ our muses work together and there’s a lot of tension and maybe we do the only one bed plot idk + reporter/vigilante dynamic ∇ nurse/vigilante dynamic ✿ innocent muse/morally grey dangerous muse ❥ asshole/the one person they’re nice to ♛ bodyguard/person they’re protecting ◐ arranged marriage/match ◎ fake dating ¶ roommate AU ۞ one night stand turns into many and now we’re just kinda not sure what we are ❁ friends with benefits maybe some pining © unrequited love except it isn’t unrequited ✡ unrequited love and it’s actually unrequited ♖ i dated you to get back at someone in my life but i’m developing real feelings oh no ♮one night stand only to later learn we’re gonna be in some sort of setting together (professor/student, co-workers, etc) ✏ we used to date and something didn’t work out but now you’re here and i’m still in love
Send me 🚢 if you would be interested in shipping our muses.
🔥 choose violence ask game 🔥
the character everyone gets wrong
a compelling argument for why your fave would never top or bottom
screenshot or description of the worst take you've seen on tumblr
what was the last straw that made you finally block that annoying person?
worst discord server and why
which ship fans are the most annoying?
what character did you begin to hate not because of canon but because how how the fandom acts about them?
common fandom opinion that everyone is wrong about
worst part of canon
worst part of fanon
number of fandom-related words you've filtered
the unpopular character that you actually like and why more people should like them
worst blorboficiation
that one thing you see in fics all the time
that one thing you see in fanart all the time
you can't understand why so many people like this thing (characterization, trope, headcanon, etc)
there should be more of this type of fic/art
it's absolutely criminal that the fandom has been sleeping on...
you're mad/ashamed/horrified you actually kind of like...
part of canon you found tedious or boring
part of canon you think is overhyped
your favorite part of canon that everyone else ignores
ship you've unwillingly come around to
topic that brings up the most rancid discourse
common fandom complaint that you're sick of hearing
MATCHMAKER! Go on anon and tell my muse who you ship them with!
If it’s not someone from their fandom or circle, describe the ship-mate to them.
You can SPECIFY what kind of ship! It doesn’t have to be rom/sexual, even though we all look for those ;) But if you ship someone with them as enemies, family, bff’s, mentor…etc, add that!
Send "Trick or Treat!" and my muse will give yours something for Halloween!
This can be anything -- candy, silly spooky plastic toys, glow necklaces/bracelets, "food" erasers, bendy pencils...whatever you can think of! Go nuts and have fun!