let me help ♥

This is an IC blog where Choromatsu Matsuno is here to give advice & comfort you for any of your worries ! Asks: OPEN Note : This is a sideblog !

[comfortingchoro]

sorry for the absence, life has been a bit crazy but i think i am getting in a better mental mindset to contribute to this blog, so if there’s anything you need to talk about my asks are open !

[princvsx]

Just a reminder in case your mind is playing tricks on you today: You matter. You’re important. You’re loved & your presence on this earth makes a difference whether you see it or not

[une-trajeudi]

putting yourself first is NOT selfish

[anokun-deactivated20150920]

[comfortingchoro]

this blog is a blessing thank you for existing smol and cute boi

Aha ! You’re very kind Anon— but the blessings here are my followers & those who feel comfortable enough to ask for my help.

All I want to do is to help people be happy, if opening up a blog like this helps at all— well, that’s all the thanks I need !! Your kind words are very much appreciated. ♥

[fithealthfood]

[comfortingchoro]

Good morning everyone !!

I hope that everyone had sweet dreams. This is your reminder that if you have anything at all that you need to get off your chest--- this is the place to do it !!

But if you don’t feel comfortable sending anything yet this is your daily reminder that you are a wonderful person who is strong & able to get through anything ! Even if you are crying & feel like a mess, you are so strong to express your emotions & I am so proud of you !!!

♥

[comfortingchoro]

(1/2) i have this small group of friends, and we're SO close that we vent to each other about our daily struggles, no matter how small or "petty" it is. i thought everything was going well, until i noticed that they were starting to replace me with someone else who's better than me in.. everything. i don't know why but i decided to slowly distance myself from them. and now, one of them is angry at me because they think i'm "bullshitting" her, when i'm just trying to stop myself from getting hurt

(2/2) honestly, i’m not mad at them. i don’t blame them for choosing someone who’s actually good at everything instead of a talentless piece of crap like me. but one of them accusing me of being a bitch because i won’t hang out with her anymore?? it doesn’t really make me mad, but i do get mad at myself for being a bad friend. seeing her indirectly call me out makes me feel like the most horrible person alive. sorry if this is too long or if i couldn’t explain it well ;w; thank you in advance !!

Friend groups can be difficult at times. I’ve had unfortunate luck too in the past with people I was friends with outside my brothers. So I can understand this feeling quite a bit.

From the sounds of things you are putting yourself so much below everyone else--- which isn’t a good thing Anon. You are a wonderful person unlike anyone else in the world ! You’re unique and have your own set of skills different from everyone else. So I first want you to reflect on yourself and write down your virtues and focus on those to help raise you up to show that you are on the same level as everyone else in the world.

People are all unique & have the weaknesses & strengths all their own ! Keep that in mind to try and stop yourself from comparing yourself to others. Trust me--- I know how hard that can be....try being around five other people who share your face ! Ahaha !!

When it comes to relationships, platonic & romantic. Honesty & communication is the key factor. You need to express to your friends how you feel by not insinuating that they are replacing you ( no one ever likes to be put on the spot being blamed for something they may not be doing intentionally ) but focus on your own feelings and how things are affecting you !

Ask to be included in things, and accept the invitation because your friends may be truly trying to make you feel included if they are picking up on your feelings. I know you are just trying to make sure you don’t get hurt....but sometimes risks need to be made for talking to those that you care about.

It’s okay to get mad and upset. But you need to communicate the reasons why instead of isolating yourself. People can only pick up on so much & I know in the past I’ve had issues when I assumed people would understand me without telling them....and it just didn’t go so well.

Everything will be fine so long as you put forth effort & they do the same in return !!

I hope everything goes well !! ♥

[pinkcafe]

dont worry if you’re not making progress, you’re still a little bud waiting to grow

[comfortingjyushi]

Hello Fandom! This is an IC Comfort blog for Jyushimatsu, and I am eager to get working and to get to know you all! 

{ Tagging @comfortingchoro and @comfortingoso bc those blogs inspired me }

[comfortingchoro]

Good morning everyone !!

I’m going to be here all day so feel free to message me if you need anything !!

♥

[lovelysuggestions]

You are not losing. You are not a failure. As long as you keep trying you will get through this.

[comfortingchoro]

Would you be against people wanting to make comfort blog as other Matsus?

Not at all! I embrace seeing my brothers put themselves out there to help others. In fact my brother Oso already has here @comfortingoso ! :^>

[comfortingoso-deactivated201708]

New Comfort & Advice Blog

        Yo waddup! It’s ya boi oso and welcome to jackass!

lol jk, just trying to get all of you to smile! is it working?

ANYWAYS, along with comfortingchoro ( who you all should follow too! she’s a good person! ) I too am a comfort character blog! I’m Osomatsu Matsuno and this is a blog I created just to help out anyone with their troubles! even if it’s small, I don’t mind helping!

Triggers and such will be tagged appropriately, Be sure to have a blacklist  around when you need it! cause I want people to be safe here! This is also an imagine blog too if you want a short drabble about comforting or anything!

asks and anons are always open to anyone!

it’ll be nice of you if this could be spreaded around!

[comfortingchoro]

New Comfort & Advice Blog

Uhm !! Hello everyone, I’m Choromatsu Matsuno & this is a blog that I opened to help anyone who needs it !! Whether you need advice or help finding a way to cope with something, or just need a shoulder to cry on, I’m here for you !

Triggers & Content will be tagged so make sure you have your blacklist active if anything really isn’t something you can handle.

This can also act as a more serious sort of imagine blog I guess, if you wanted a small drabble about Myself comforting you because of something !!

Asks are always open & Anon is on !!

Feel free to reblog this to spread the word !

[caringcoffeechats]

You’re not fake simply because you act differently depending on the person you’re with. Different personalities bring out different aspects of your personality. You’re complex and multidimensional; it’s beautiful.

[kiradotexe-deactivated20260313]

in anthropology this is called “code switching” and it is a completely natural thing that pretty much everyone does.

[defydamage]

Aka. This is called being an adult and learning how to interact with different groups of people.

[comfortingchoro]

Uh hey, so I'm starting college really soon and I'm both excited yet nervous. I love to meet new people, but I also get so anxious about making friends in general and since I'll be living in a dorm, I'm just really scared about my roommates like what if we end up not tolerating each other and I don't want that to happen

Congratulations for starting college anon!

This is a wonderful & exciting time for you but I understand completely when it comes to anxiety related to meeting new people & being within close proximity to those you don’t know.

No matter what college you go to, there’s going to be hundred of new people with their own lives, goals, determinations & personalities. It’s good to keep in mind there are many many people who are having the same worries as you too!

When it comes to roommates it’s honestly bit of a mixed bag. So long as you all decide on general rules of tidiness, curfew & all that, things should run smoothly. Ask about their major, where they came from--- this is a time not only to educate yourself with school, but also your sociability too!

People are going to be nervous, and definitely during the beginning, a lot of them are going to be stressed out just like you about everything. But if all goes well with pleasant conversation, maybe a few interests in common--- you could meet your new best friend!

Of course even if your roommate & you do not click that strongly, so long as you both respect each other, there’s SOOOO many people around you to discover anyways! 

From what I understand, most students don’t stay in their dorms unless for sleep. Even on campuses there’s so many other places to study that could lead to more productive work such as a computer lab or library.

Anyways before I ramble too much--- just take a deep breath & put on your best smile---- then everything will be okay!

Just enter your dorm with respect & tolerance for whoever is waiting for you, and let things go from there. 

Of course I’ll always be here too if anything happens! I just want the best for you! ♥