computerbooper @computerbooper - Tumblr Blog

hiii i'm emi, time for the funny intro post :3

i looove talking but hate posting, pleasee dm me!! if i messaged you, it's because i want more friends :)

i'm 21, transfem, sapphic, european (CEST), ended up on tumblr as a 196 refugee

current main interests:

anything related to coding (mostly game development)

gaming (i love so so many different genres)

music (basically anything, feel free to ask for recommendations :3)

f1 (weeyums fangirl)

if i like your vent post it means i love you and i'm giving you a virtual hug <3

laterkiss

everytime i want something i should be shot in the head

hotgirlcastiel

jupitersdaughterr

all these pretty girls and you expect me to be straight?

podcastwizard

hey sorry it's just that i don't think i'm very good at being a person. thanks for letting me try with you, anyway.

stuckinapril

I promise you things will get so much better when you start processing people’s behavior as information rather than a verdict on your self-worth. If someone doesn’t text back, suddenly pulls away, whatever it may be, the solution isn’t to put on a tap dance for them and try to regain their approval. It’s not to crash out on them and try to force them to react a certain way. It’s just to take a step back, take a deep breath, and assess what this tells you. What’s this saying about them? What’s this saying about you??

stuckinapril

Like people’s actions are data points rather than death sentences. It could even be a data point about you. It could be that you’re not being a great friend, it could be that there’s something you guys miscommunication. Or it could be that they themselves don’t have the means to be consistent, aren’t in the headspace to meet you where you are, whatever. But this is always data rather than a judgment. Even if you’re the problem, behavior can change. Also, in the context of someone pulling back without explaining away, and assuming they didn’t give you a reasonable explanation in the first place, it’s also a data point that they’d react that way rather than communicate. Situations are always very context dependent, but they’re also always data.

shegayonmygirl

the princess demands a kissie. AND ALSO. a hug. AND. 5 hours of cuddling !

shegayonmygirl

the princess demands a kissie. AND ALSO. a hug. AND. 5 hours of cuddling !

threedollarsdotcom

the CIA and the LGBT and the FBI are wanted to hear me

vampire-loving-vampire

voice of a girl who has never had its needs met:

wow ur so nice to me omg , noones ever talked to me in a soft voice before that's , so nice of u . but it's okay if u wanna yell at me tho I totally understand .!!! is it okay if I call u my friend ? no pressure haha just let me know if u hate me . btw can I have a hug ur allowed to say no btw .

vampire-loving-vampire

voice of a girl who has never had its needs met:

wow ur so nice to me omg , noones ever talked to me in a soft voice before that's , so nice of u . but it's okay if u wanna yell at me tho I totally understand .!!! is it okay if I call u my friend ? no pressure haha just let me know if u hate me . btw can I have a hug ur allowed to say no btw .

vampire-loving-vampire

voice of a girl who has never had its needs met:

wow ur so nice to me omg , noones ever talked to me in a soft voice before that's , so nice of u . but it's okay if u wanna yell at me tho I totally understand .!!! is it okay if I call u my friend ? no pressure haha just let me know if u hate me . btw can I have a hug ur allowed to say no btw .