welcome to our blog, we're concerto (it/he/clef), a plural collective. you can refer to us as headmates, do not call us alters. do not ask which one of us is the "original" headmate. we're bodily a minor, keep that in mind.
we have c-ptsd, autism, depression, and a specific phobia (we will not disclose what it is). we choose to share what mental disorders we have so others with these disorders feel less alone :)
people of all syscourse stances can interact as long as you're respectful. our only dni is conspiracy blogs and nsfw blogs. respectfully, leave.
our stances: pro endo, proship, pro para, pro youthlib, anti harassment, anti contact/abuse
mutuals can ask for headmate sideblogs :D
headmate intros and userboxes below cut!
kay (she/her): i'm a persecutor i guess? iwc. i only hurt my headmates not ppl outside the collective, intentionally at least. i have trouble with controlling my impulses and empathy so make your boundaries clear with me please.
eleven/astro (it/ask): hi!!! i'm an extranthrope. i'm also the host :) i'm genderfluid and i love scenecore!!!
mitya/rowan (he/him): My name is Mitya or Rowan. I'm a factive, but my source is private. That's about all I'll make public here, I'm a private man.
rot/doll (it/she/dead/dove): i don't really have a name it's just for convenience you can really call me whatever. i like fanfiction, hence my pronouns. iwc please
spoke/luci :3 (he/ask): i'm a fun guy i like having fun. i have very low empathy especially for those outside the collective and i find it difficult to pretend to. keep that in mind. also am impulsive asf
Inky (they/them): I'm Inky, I'm a fictive of an OC of ours :D I don't really know what my role is yet, also I'm around 12
lacey (ix/ixs): tv head thingy, staticgender, dissociation holder
vee (it/they/he/sad): depression holder
Auriel (they/hy/hymn): protector, angel
jam (he/bug): i really like bugs and soft music (i don't really know how to describe it, like alex g and radiohead and cavetown and stuff). also i'm probably some kind of protector
dividers by @/huraxydividers and @/strangergraphics
so people just aren't allowed to be dyslexic anymore or have any condition that would affect the way they spell
seriously i dont even get the point
yeah i'm with spoke here.
every other word was spelled correctly if you didn't notice. also this wasn't in the screenshot, but every word in their post was spelled correctly too. thinking "dissociation" and "disassociation" are the same thing demonstrates a lack of education surrounding dissociation, which in my experience is typical of extreme anti endos like that. if the person in question had a CDD themselves or demonstrated some sort of basic knowledge I'd ignore it, however they failed to do so.
these people have absolutely NO IDEA what we struggle with, yet they feel the need to white-knight for us against the 'evil endos.' i guess people with pathological dissociation aren't allowed to be mad about people being uneducated about our struggles...
paramisia is unfortunately super common in society, so lots of people can accidentally hold beliefs that are paramisic without even realisin !! even paraphiles can accidentally be paramisic - let's unlearn paramisia together !!
im tired of persecutor discourse does anyone actually have any resources? to help me? i want help. im so fucking tired of everyone hating me i want to get better. but i scroll the persecutor tumblr tag and it's just like
"persecutors aren't evil 🥺 you should be kind to them" why is the fucking persecutor tag about the others not actual persecutors? what do i do huh?
im posting this here despite the website being extremely white centered, I want people to understand how in this country it's basically ok to murder and victimize black people, especially women and children in the name of "self defense" and white America will reward you for your antiblackness.
since i saw bullshit: osdd DOES NOT mean osdd-1, it means ALL types of OSDD. the 2, 3 and 4 which has no correlation to multiplicity or plurality. so stop saying osdd and start saying osdd-1 or just say CDD
the term plural is inherently pro endo, therefore all plural tags are pro-endo. that is literally exactly what you are doing by posting this in the endo tags
the only argument that I still see anti-endos use that makes more or less sense to me is the use of the term "system" in non-cdd systems. Like, it's one of the only arguments that has validity to them. "If you don't have a CDD you aren't a system", it's one of the only arguments they seem to parrot over and over.
So, why don't to people who are non-cdd systems use another word? what's the reasoning, genuinely? Because I see that's the main problem that CDD/ant endo systems have with the non-traumagenic plurality community as a whole. I know the word "system" is not only for CDDs (it comes from IFS therapy, I think), but it would reduce the conflict from anti-endos, right? /genq (all of this /gen)
edit to add: I was slightly sleep deprived when I wrote this, don't take it too seriously
We do. We're not even non-CDD, we're questioning CDD, but we do anyways because my headmates want to appease anti-endos. (I don't rlly). My reasoning for why everyone should get to call themselves a system is it's a slippery slope. Appeasing anti-endos doesn't work, they'll just take more and more terms and resources. Look at the polymind community for example. They aren't systems and anti-endos still typically hate them for no apparent reason. If we let them have "system," they'll take "plural" next. They already are.
my cat is perfect. yes she's the leading suspect in a string of arsons across the globe but that doesn't mean she DID them. don't be silly. cats can't buy gasolin hey where did my wallet go
