Constellations

Hello !! :D

[constellations-notsoshenanigans]

Hello, hello to those who are reading this!!

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(we finally got around to redoing this, phew, it was Soooo out of date)

So without further ado, our introduction!!

Our Intro!

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You can refer to us as Constellations/Stellar/Astra. As for pronouns, any are fine.

we don't interact from this blog, it's a sideblog :] any interactions will be from our main blog! we also have a blog for our templates; @star-templates-for-pk :3

We are bodily an adult.

I have Dissociative Identity disorder.

I switch between me/i and we/us pretty interchangeably.

We don't always sign off on our posts.

We are ANTI endo.

also! this blog used to be called cases-shenanigans, before we renamed it to constellations-notsoshenanigans :D

Our stances/beliefs:

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we are anti endo and anti harrassment.

we won't harass (pro)endo's, but we ask that (pro)endos don't interact with our posts. if you are (pro)endo/have some other difference in stances than us, and we like one of your posts, it's either because we misclicked or because we weren't aware you were (pro)endo.

we support neopronouns and use them ourselves.

we believe that ramcoa exists

we are anti fake-claiming

we are against pro-contact harmful paraphiles

we are pro self-diagnosis/self-suspecting (w/ research)

we are anti 'narc abuse' / 'disordered-abuse'

We have other stances and opinions, but they likely won't be a topic of focus in this blog.

A quick note.

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we reblog a lot of stuff:

sometimes that stuff can be positive, sometimes it can be negative and sometimes it can just be neutral (aka a template for something).

the 'negative' stuff we reblog is mainly centered on disabilities. aka, the real lives of ppl with disabilites, how theyre discriminated against, the 'uncomfortable' sides of disability.

as much as there is room for more positive blogs, where theyre safe spaces away from the negativity of the real world (and they're lovely), we are v much not a purely happy blog.

some things we reblog, such as userboxes, we might not relate to, but we reblog them because they're cool and we want to share them with our followers. you'll never know which we relate to mwahahah (evil villain laugh).

[the-critter-collective]

The axe forgets but the tree remembers. Unless you have did. Then the tree remembers but only in the form of blurry snapshots of the axe and a distant trauma holder who won't explain why they fucking hate the axe.

[the-complicity-system]

Why is some system shit like

Please understand what I mean

I'm like 🧍‍♂️while my body and mind proceed to not know what or who the fuck I am

[fragmentedfae-userboxes]

[disabled-primadonna]

'Disabled' is not a bad word. 'Disability' is not a bad word.

Unless someone has specifically said they do not like being called disabled, please, just call us disabled.

It's not an insult. It's not a bad thing to be disabled. The only reason people think it is, is because of ableism.

If you think calling someone disabled is insulting, you have to unlearn some serious ableism.

[acertory]

I just hate when people say "you're not disabled you're just differently abled" no idiot I am disabled. Getting out of bed is awkward, my spine looks like a snake and my hip is M.I.A. Also I have physical pain when I get up to stand.

I am disabled I am not able hence the dis. This is literally one of my biggest issues with disability in this country. Fuck you, random point scoring idiot

[goatnurse]

i keep accidentally liking endo posts fucckkkkk anti endos interact plz

[heartpeacenquiet]

It's okay if it takes a little longer than you thought.

[littlest-bugz]

When you’re mid sentence and suddenly forget literally everything you were talking about

[innerworldnetwork]

There's a house within the meadows that even the woods consider home

Though cloudy it may never rain

You are free from the suns harmful rays

The wind is calm, and it's vaguely humid

But you are comfortable nonetheless

These flowers bloom simply because they are able and rely on nothing more than your admiration

They may hold what is yet to come or what may never surface again

The sound of nature is quiet, yet free

[permanenteclipse]

Btw I drew it to immortalize it because it's something I keep thinking about every other month

[hairscare]

the way fandoms are desperate to make all aroace characters romance and sex favorable but then dont do anything remotely similar to any other identity is astounding. hmm i wonder why

PLEASE dont derail this about shipping characters of other identities please let this one post be about an aroace struggle

[describe-things]

[ID: A simple, six panel digital comic, showing very simple placeholder characters. Panel 1 Shows a figure labeled canon saying, "This is bingle, he's aroace", gesturing toward a skinny figure with a tall oval for a head. Panel 2 shows bingle with another figure, whose head is a wide oval, with bingle saying, "Hi my platonic friend boobum!" Then yelling into the distance at a character with a V shaped head, "I don't like you murgle." Panel 3 shows the artist saying, "Oh, I hear bingle from dorpus is aroace, awesome." Panel 4 shows the artist's horrified shock to see the fandom screaming in argument, "Bingle has hot, loud, amorous sex with boobum!" "No he's made for Murgle!" "Reminder to everyone, aroace people can still date and fuck! They're normal people!" "There's always exceptions, labels mean nothing!" One of the figure holds up a scribbled drawing of murgle bent over in front of bingle, clearly having sex. Panel 5 shows canon saying, "Also here's tumpy, hes gay, and here his close friend titi, who's a she/they." Tumpy has a square head, titi has a downward pointing triangle with a bow. Panel 6 The artist looks quietly furious as the same fandom from before agrees, "Oh well, he's gay, you can't ship him with a girl." "That'd be completely disrespectful!" "If he says he's gay, that means 100% men, no wiggle room, okay?" "Fuck that girl!" End ID.]

[eldritchbauble]

We don't mind, and in fact enjoy, answering questions about DID because when it comes from someone we know personally, it's a love language to want to understand us and our experiences, when it comes from others, we're happy to see people being more accepting rather than stigmatizing it, and for our own sake in both cases, it helps us reflect on and think through how it affects us and our life.

Win/win/win.

[systemboxesforparts]

[This system has no clue why they introjected this guy]

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Reblogs over likes

[urfavoritesecretadmirer]

You are allowed to love being a system, after all, it is what saved your life

[sysboxes]

[Text: This user’s mood depends on their FP.]

like/reblog if you save or use

[traumasurvivors]

This is for my fellow survivors who feel their heart break a little every time they see a parent treating their child with love, or having fun with them whether this is in real life or even from a movie/show.

It’s okay to be sad about it. It’s okay to even feel jealous. It doesn’t make you a bad person. You should have been treated with the same compassion and love. And you deserved so much more and so much better.

[traumasurvivors]

My heart aches every time I watch a happy family film. When I see the children treated with compassion. Or when they make mistakes and are met with love. Or how hard some parents seem to try to offer comfort and validation and support.

Sometimes these happy films leave me feeling a little sad. And it’s taken me a long time to accept that that’s okay.

[mawofthemagnetar]

What do you mean “chat” is now referring to ChatGPT and not twitch chat? What? What? What the fuck? No?

When I address chat I am speaking to a presumed Greek chorus of real human people shitposting on their lunch break, not a machine that devours lakes to covert electricity into slop.