outofcontrol

" You smoke for fun. I smoke to die." - Looking for Alaska

[sadgaygermancops]

- love is never a weakness (x)

[sarek]

Why are The Neurotypicals so quick to jump on anyone who doesn’t fit their idea of normal? I just saw a video of an old lady who only likes the colour green. She dresses green, her hair is green, her house is green! It’s amazing. So many of the comments were speculating about her mental state & suggesting that she needs help.

Why though? She’s happy, she is not hurting anyone? So why does she need help? Why does she need to change? Because she’s ‘weird’ & that makes you uncomfortable? Why are perfectly innocent things something to be corrected?

[just-shower-thoughts]

I wonder how many memories I’m in.

[thiscityscreamsyourname]

you are allowed to be both a masterpiece and a work in progress, simultaneously.

Sophia Bush (via howyou-gethegirl)

[refinery29]

The Rock Has An Inspiring Message For People With Depression

Johnson shares how an episode of depression eventually led him to professional wrestling, and what he learned from the experience. 

WATCH THE VIDEO

GIFS VIA.

[lottalace]

He’s truly an angel & we are blessed by his existence

[fonzworthcutlass]

ur fucking boy 💯

[trufflebootybuttercream-deactiv]

we all have that one friend 

[rigaya-deactivated20180901]

This hits

[babydreamgirl-deactivated201902]

This photo is so crazy bc the guy on the left robbed the guy on the right at gunpoint or whatever and in the process realized he was robbing people bc he was repressing his gay feelings and they started dating and now they’re like married or something

[sinbadism]

W H A T ……..

[butchscientist]

[rodbunnyslay-deactivated2017040]

This world is a strange place.

[bajo-el-mar-blog]

Reading about abusive men and the way they think. Very unsettling and an incredible book so far. Here are my very professional notes.

[imnotreallyherecheckagainlater]

what book is this?

[tehbewilderness]

This is from “Why Does He DO That” by Lundy Bancroft.

[chemicalheart-deactivated202009]

I’m so glad I’m seeing more and more Lundy Bancroft quotes on my dash because this book CHANGES THE LIVES OF ABUSE VICTIMS. The programs run for rehabilitating abusive men through the courts? Bancroft DESIGNED THEM. His programs are replicated ALL OVER THE WORLD. He literally wrote THE book on abuser rehabilitation.

[queen-mayhem]

Here’s a link to a pdf copy. If you haven’t read this book yet, read this book.

[appropriately-inappropriate]

Can we talk about how it seems like the entirety of the book is online on PDF, this making it accessible to anyone with an internet connection?

That is how we stop abuse.

We enable everyone to know what it looks like, so that when it happens, they can shut it down.

[bhuttu]

Arm yrself with knowledge!

[birkenth0t]

Changed my life, would reccomend.

[fuckyeahsexpositivity]

Reblogging for the PDF link.

—BB

[egodram]

Always reblogging because this isn’t just a partner abuse thing, this is a common abuse tactic PERIOD: Parents, siblings, bosses, general assholes, etc…

[tinierspacecharm]

http://www.pdf-archive.com/2014/07/20/why-does-he-do-that/why-does-he-do-that.pdf

new link (the old one is broken)

[hansbekhart]

Pretty sure I’ve reblogged this like eight times, don’t care.

[smallrevolutionary]

Forever reblog.

[nhude]

it all starts with not wanting to get out of bed, that’s how you know you’re getting bad again

everything was okay for a while (via perrfectly)

[gothicprep]

[bottles up feelings and lets them age for 10 years like a fine wine]

[abduction]

[disimba]

READ THIS. It was posted on FB today, then someone commented on it and said their 19year old son even got one in the mail TODAY.

If you live in Sacramento read this and protect your selves as well as friends, family, and peers. Huge human trafficking area!!!

[disimba]

Sacramento,CA. Is the #2 hotspot for human trafficking in the United States. BOOST

[siliecrazie]

Oh my god. I got a letter exactly like this in Louisville, KY. The exact same wording and everything. I threw mine out because there was no letterhead or information and I thought it was just a scam but I had no idea that it was this bad. I have no idea how they found me. Please be safe out there.

[sailorjah]

I got this letter too wtf…

[mochimochimeido]

I got that letter too in AZ everyone be super careful.

[capricornluna-deactivated201810]

This is also happening in San Diego!!! I received one in the mail on friday!

[existental-blog]

I live in Kansas and got this letter a few weeks ago too. Be careful everyone.

[actuallycrying-deactivated20190]

Holy shit I live in AZ I’ve got this letter like 5 times that’s scary as hell

[jxnc-deactivated20170922]

I GOT THIS LETTER IN THE MAIL A FEW DAYS AGO IM SHAKING RIGHT NOW

Please be careful oh my God i can’t stress enough don’t fall for fake shit like this they are very apparently suspicious but they target teens who are desperate for a job PLEASE be careful holy shit

[pan-apollo]

Yeah it’s fucked up. I’ve gotten two addressed to me. Everyone please be careful

[broadwaybookss]

I received one of these a few weeks ago here in Tennessee. Everyone please be careful and dispose of these letters immediately.

[grimedog-prime]

I got one of these in norcal(2 hrs north of sacramento), I may be desperate for work, but im not THAT desperate.

[depressedpatata]

I recently got two of these in MN… glad I threw them away.

[body5000-deactivated20180929]

let girls be ugly ,let girls not care about their appearance, let girls be beautiful in ways that aren’t considered beautiful

[chessys]

everyones going through something be gentle

[micdotcom]

Watch: Poet Ashley Lumpkin nails the double standard in how we treat white terrorists versus people of color.

[doctorwhisky]

What really causes other white people to assume the best in white criminal behavior is that the system was built for white people, by white people, to protect white people, and when that system fails to protect a white person, the rest of us have to wonder if it’s going to fail altogether. And to some, that thought is terrifying. So we must find excuses as to why the criminal behavior manifested itself in an innocent white person. How did it get there, which really means, how did it fail to remain hidden? Because we don’t have this thing to catch our own, we have it to keep power flowing in one direction, and the idea that just maybe that dynamic is less than perfect represents a threat to the whole mechanism, and like curtains torn in a temple, a pr campaign a millennia old is failing, and it brings bad portends to those who claim to be the only ones allowed behind the veil.

[casimirfornalski]

[caringcoffeechats]

You’re not fake simply because you act differently depending on the person you’re with. Different personalities bring out different aspects of your personality. You’re complex and multidimensional; it’s beautiful.

[love-personal]