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You do, in fact matter. Quite a lot.

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[ousia-poetica]

It is important in life to learn to accept the things you cannot change…

[misinterpretedmythology]

There is a reason the Avengers have their groceries delivered each week. Tony made the mistake of taking them shopping only once and that was enough for him.

Tony: I already explained this to you, Cap--

Steve: Then explain to me again why milk is 4 dollars a gallon!

Peter, an arm full of instant ramen: Mr. Stark, they have a new shrimp flavor!

Tony: Kid, that had no nutrition at--

Natasha: Who wants bacon!

Clint: I'M A SLUT FOR BACON!

Tony: What the fu-

Bruce, trying to decide on which tea to get: I mean they're all good, but this brand is cheaper.

Tony: Billionaire, Bruce, just--

Thor: Friend, Tony! We shall feast tonight on the Pop of Tarts!

Tony: Why do you have 2 carts of popt--!?

Steve, still distressed over the milk: How do you get milk from an almond!?

Peter, distracted: Can we get cheese sticks too?

Natasha: What about pudding?

Clint: Fuck your pudding!

Peter, excited: Mr. Stark cheetos are on sale!

Bruce, still deciding on a tea: Can we afford tea cookies too? I'm sure we have a coupon somewhere.

Steve, frantic: How do you milk an almond, Tony!?

Tony:

[onelittlekingdom]

BDSM 101: When A submissive Holds All The Power

Any wannabe Dominant, who enters your blogspace, barks orders at you, and thinks you are obligated to perform their demands because they know you are a submissive, either does not understand the power dynamics within BDSM, or hopes that YOU do not have a good understanding of them. 

As a submissive, your submission is something that must be given to someone before they obtain any control over you. Until the time you submit to a Dominant of your choosing, nobody should expect that you have any obligation to fulfill their demands, and if they do, you should tell them that they lack understanding of how D/s dynamics work. 

Before submission is offered, all the power in a D/s dynamic belongs to the submissive. It is the Dominant’s task to do what is necessary to earn a submissive’s affection and trust to a degree necessary for the submissive to offer their submission to the Dominant, at which time all the power in the relationship shifts from the submissive, to the Dominant.  After submission has been earned by the Dominant, they may now make whatever demands on their submissive that they wish, and expect them to be performed. (excepting hard limits or instances where the submissive uses their safe word) 

While holding the power is not intrinsically attractive to a submissive personality within the D/s dynamics, it is nevertheless important for them to wield this power with consistency before they find a Dominant worth submitting to. Standing up to those who don’t respect your submission will help to divide the wheat from the chaff among D types, and help you to attain a Dominant that is more knowledgeable about how BDSM works, and therefore, more likely to give you a fulfilling relationship, whether it is within a single scene, or a lifelong relationship.

JD🌹

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These side-by-side images show the striking similarities between Martin Luther King Jr.’s historic 1963 March on Washington and the 2020 March on Washington led by his son and Rev. Al Sharpton on Friday.

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[adeles]

It’s that time of the year again!

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Continue✨ Keep going✨

[sandersstudies]

This is like a very gentle and supportive version of Shia Lebouf’s “just do it”

[adhdmorelikeyaydhd]

💕✨ And you are wonderfully made ✨💕

[onelittlekingdom]

Not A Dom.

If you only pay attention to your sub when it is convenient for you, you are not a Dom.

If you tire of a submissive, and ghost her, rather than having an honest conversation with her, you are not a Dom.

If you view boundaries, limits, and the word “no” as impediments to your will to push past and degrade, you are not a Dom.

If you make a sub doubt and question themselves to produce an outcome that’s favorable for you, you are not a Dom.

If you think Dominance is all about having a relationship that revolves around you and serving your needs, you are not a Dom.

If you refer to subs as “broken”, or view them as a hassle because they have mental, physical, or emotional challenges, you are not a Dom. 

If you think that your way of being a Dom is the only right way to be a Dom, you are not a Dom. 

If you are having multiple relationships with submissive girls without them all knowing about each other, you are not a Dom. 

If you degrade your partner’s relationships to isolate them so that they don’t get opinions other than yours, you are not a Dom.

If you play or prey on girls who are under the age of 18, you are not a Dom.

JD

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HAPPY HALLOWEEN!!

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This is an important message.

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I will never NOT reblog this.

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THIS!!!!

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[naughtynurse1964]

Yes

[coolcowboyfreakexpert]

Littles and others, please be gentle to your daddy/ mommy/ other. We're not made of steel and can be sensitive. Just remind your daddy/ mommy/other that you love them and that they deserve all the affection you can give to them. It can be hard being a daddy/ mommy/ other sometimes because of having all of life's stresses so please be kind and remind them that they are special and important and the bestestest in the whole wide world!!!!

Just remember, the love you get should be the love you give and vise versa. Also this is off topic but I hope every one of you had a good day and if today was rough I know and hope that tomorrow will be better💜🦄

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#me 

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#me every day

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[coolcowboyfreakexpert]

Hey guys, it's been a long time since I posted but I figured I should. I made it through the day, it was really hard and I almost didn't but I scratched by. I'm not trying to be a pity case and I'm not looking for a shout out. I just wanted to say that I made it through the day and I don't know if I'll make it through tomorrow but I'll try