Kassidy

𝓕𝓻𝓮𝓪𝓴𝔂

[coolguykass]

You can call me Kassidy

But you can also refer to me as Kass

Late teens

Bigots and creeps DNI

Under 13 on thin ice, sorry guys

If I say something you don’t like then just block and move on, my friend.

Sonic the hedgehog, horror, Nintendo 3DS/Wii, Nissan sports car, and Dr Pepper enthusiast

[coolguykass]

I’m following so many therians and i don’t even like that community of people anymore. I wish Tumblr would give an option to unfollow people that used certain tags

I was in a bad spot in my life until i left the therian community alone, my only way of coping was believing I’m psychologically connected to a dog, lmao. It wasn’t till people started saying “physical therians are real!” And “it’s like being trans!” That made me wake up. This wasn’t spiritual anymore, this was delusion.

I am still a furry, that’s just a hobby and me being a nerd i guess, has nothing to do with believing you’re something else. Therianthropy is harmful and transphobic 90% of the time. Makes the news think trans people and furries also believe they’re cats or whatever.

[coolguykass]

And yes, i do touch grass. One of my favorite things to do is find bugs and reptiles out there

[coolguykass]

I’m following so many therians and i don’t even like that community of people anymore. I wish Tumblr would give an option to unfollow people that used certain tags

I was in a bad spot in my life until i left the therian community alone, my only way of coping was believing I’m psychologically connected to a dog, lmao. It wasn’t till people started saying “physical therians are real!” And “it’s like being trans!” That made me wake up. This wasn’t spiritual anymore, this was delusion.

I am still a furry, that’s just a hobby and me being a nerd i guess, has nothing to do with believing you’re something else. Therianthropy is harmful and transphobic 90% of the time. Makes the news think trans people and furries also believe they’re cats or whatever.

[coolguykass]

“Trans” people that don’t have dysphoria shouldn’t speak over people that do have dysphoria when speaking of issues in the trans community.

Like sure whatever man you can identify as whatever you want, doesn’t make you a part of people who can actually talk about their problems, because you don’t have the same problems as us, you’re almost the same as a crossdresser that’s taking the role too seriously.

[deathtokillian]

How do you know they don’t have dysphoria? Who are you to say they don’t? Not every trans person is the same, we all have our own experiences. My experience will be different than someone else’s, just as yours is different from mine. Dysphoria for one person can also be different or not as intense as someone else’s. You don’t get to say they are not trans and invalidated their experience, just because it’s different from yours.

[coolguykass]

I mean people that actually realize they don’t have dysphoria yet still identify as trans. You know what I meant and were still offended by it because no dysphoria suddenly means a small amount of dysphoria to you people? Weird

[deathtokillian]

People don’t identify as trans unless they experience gender euphoria or dysphoria, even if it’s a small amount. Weird

[coolguykass]

Ok bud, whatever helps you sleep at night lmao

[coolguykass]

“Trans” people that don’t have dysphoria shouldn’t speak over people that do have dysphoria when speaking of issues in the trans community.

Like sure whatever man you can identify as whatever you want, doesn’t make you a part of people who can actually talk about their problems, because you don’t have the same problems as us, you’re almost the same as a crossdresser that’s taking the role too seriously.

[deathtokillian]

How do you know they don’t have dysphoria? Who are you to say they don’t? Not every trans person is the same, we all have our own experiences. My experience will be different than someone else’s, just as yours is different from mine. Dysphoria for one person can also be different or not as intense as someone else’s. You don’t get to say they are not trans and invalidated their experience, just because it’s different from yours.

[coolguykass]

I mean people that actually realize they don’t have dysphoria yet still identify as trans. You know what I meant and were still offended by it because no dysphoria suddenly means a small amount of dysphoria to you people? Weird

[climbingthefloors]

moo deng vs the world

[zooophagous]

You know what. Fuck you.

*unhallows your ween*

[taxidiinae]

[d-parade]

Notice how you immediately thought of sex when talking about polyamory

That’s why

[coolguykass]

“Trans” people that don’t have dysphoria shouldn’t speak over people that do have dysphoria when speaking of issues in the trans community.

Like sure whatever man you can identify as whatever you want, doesn’t make you a part of people who can actually talk about their problems, because you don’t have the same problems as us, you’re almost the same as a crossdresser that’s taking the role too seriously.

[bi-rising]

why gatekeeping the LGBT community is a necessary evil:

say that you decide to start a club it's an art club. you like this club, because it's full of artists just like you, who understand the struggles you go through. they have resources and advice and empathy to share, as do you, because you're all artists. but then one day, your friend who is not an artist, asks if they can join.

and they're your friend!! you want them to have fun too! maybe they have an appreciation of drawing, so you think it’s okay. so even though your friend doesn’t draw, you say sure! and they join the club. and they sit with everyone else and chat and talk, and everything’s good, it’s nice, it’s fun.

but then your other friend hears about your first friend being allowed in. and you already said yes to the first friend—how can you tell this one no? so you let this friend in, too. but then that friend decides that they really like the club, even though they don’t necessarily like drawing, so they invite THEIR friends. and what are you supposed to do? say no? you already have two non-artists in the club. so you grit your teeth and allow those people in, too.

and the cycle repeats. friends invite friends, word spreads around. pretty soon, your art club becomes an art-and-movies-and-book club. and then it’s an art-and-movies-and-book-and-instrument-and-comics-and-gaming-and-knitting club. resources are dwindling and it’s hard for the artists to talk about their needs with everyone else chatting away and detailing the conversation, but you don’t kick anyone out because you don’t want people to feel bad. after all, you made this club so that people could feel supported and understood.

then the worst happens: some people join who don’t like art. sure they say that they support artists, but these are the kinds of people who would stiff an artist their commission price, who would look down their nose and critique, who would say they feel uncomfortable with the fact that maybe some artists prefer digital art over traditional pencil & paper on account of it not being “real art”, and they’re very vocal about it.

soon, those artists that you’ve had from the beginning start to leave. they don’t feel safe and supported anymore. they can’t find the resources and help that they need. they feel unsafe and uncomfortable with such a large group inside what was supposed to be their refuge talking bad about them, sometimes even directly insulting them. you’re helpless to watch them go, because you did this. you let everyone else in. you set the stage for this exact thing to be able to happen.

maybe one or two artists stick around. but now the non-artists have made rules about actively creating art within the club’s time. the club is not a safe place anymore. no more artists join your club.

you are alone again, just like you were before your club, because you wouldn’t tell people no.

sound familiar? this is literally what is happening with LGBT centers right now, in the real world. there are LGBT centers where displays of affection are prohibited, where there are people who actively use slurs and insults against LGBT members, but are still welcomed in because of the “+”. this is real, and it’s happening all over.

gatekeeping isn’t fun. gatekeeping sucks. it feels bad. but it is necessary. we have to gatekeep in order to keep our LGBT family safe. we have to gatekeep to allow our LGBT family to have a refuge from the world, where they can be who they are without fear.

the acronym is LGBT. no Q. no plus. LGBT, and that’s it. we deserve to have a place to be who we are, and not have it turned into a microcosm of the outside world just because a few people couldn’t say no.

inclusivity is harmful. inclusivity will lead to the destruction of LGBT safe spaces and resources. inclusivity does infinitely more harm than it does good. please stop being complicit in the hatred & discrimination the community faces from people who are supposed to be “on our side”.

we are hurting, and inclusivity needs to end.

[drowsyjude]

trans community got convinced you dont have to have dysphoria to be trans and you can actually have gender euphoria instead.

hey actually they just have a fetish and thats why they feel euphoria?? they (usually males btw) aren’t trans. they are a fetishist and need to get help!!

stop bastardizing the trans community.

[callum-corner]

i’m a trans guy that loves women. but i don’t love women in the way men do. i love women the way lesbians love women. but i’m not a lesbian. and calling myself a lesbian makes me feel very uncomfortable. but i still feel like straight isn’t correct either. because straight attraction is different from queer attraction in a very noticeable way. but if i call myself gay, that would imply that i’m into men, which i’m not. i just don’t know what to call myself now.

[d-parade]

Why the need to clarify that you don’t love women the “straight” way? If you’re a man who loves a woman that’s, by definition, being heterosexual.

I think it’s harmful to believe heterosexual attraction is just “this rigid (toxic) thing” when it’s actually a vast array of experiences all under the definition of being attracted to the opposite gender.

No one loves the exact same way.

[roboartnik]

based on a true story that just happened

[carsthatnevermadeitetc]

Nissan 300 ZX, 1983. The Z31 series 300 ZX was the basis of the Spartan II. The arrival of the Z31 series also coincided with the retirement of the Datsun marque (for the first time).

[supd00dle]

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[d-parade]

gender is not self expression

gender is not an aesthetic

i’m not a man because it’s my “self expression”. i’m a man because i feel a disconnect from my sex that isn’t rooted in low self esteem.

edit: many misunderstand. the above statement is an innate disconnect, not a societal disconnect. note the difference.

bigender? you feel like a man and a woman? maybe that’s just attachment to attributes you connect to being a man/ woman in today’s society.

agender? maybe that’s because you’re unsatisfied with the societal attributes attached to being a man/woman.

genderfluid? you have (gasp) fluctuating day to day feelings???????

i’m up for self expression and choosing to be/ look how you want to. but my god that doesn’t make you trans. i mean like 99% of the time it’s literally temporary because your perception, interaction and opinion towards society changes over time.

[friedloverballoon]

Xenogender kids are the gift that keep on giving

Look at this. Anti-trans bills popping up everywhere, plenty of them being passed and written into law. One state (Arkansas) literally cites a cat xenogender as the reason for their anti-trans law.

And you mogai-using narcissists still can't pull the freaking redwood tree out of your eye and you continue to call transmedicalists "bullies".

Look at what the hell you've just done. We have regressed back years and years because of you. We were so close to a widespread acceptance of transgender people in America, non-binary not even that close behind. And now, only six years later…people are grouping transgender people with "transspecies" lunatics.

I know you'll pull the excuse of "but they were transphobic to begin with!!!!!!1!!1!!!!". My dad was accepting of transgender people, genuinely curious about the topic, and then became horrified when his friend's daughter came out as a non-binary void. You can say it all you want, but gender is not a social construct. And this is not going to last forever.

Looking at the bills and how so many adults are starting an uproar against transgender people, I can guarantee that you mogai people are going to face laws in the way of making people accept your insane identities. You should be ashamed of yourselves for speaking over actual, real, dysphoric transgender people. Especially dysphoric teenagers, the ones you claim to be helping.

Of course, the amount of detransitioners and anti-trans bills will be incredibly high, so dysphoric transgender people will, of course, have to work around that and try once again to make themselves seem normal in society.

Xenogender kids. You are making things worse.