onlinecounsellingcollege’s Myths about Soul Mates: Olitz Edition
NB: Taken from this post by @onlinecounsellingcollege, but re-formatted and Olitz-ified :o):
MYTH 1: “The relationship should be natural, easy and uncomplicated"
WELL ACTUALLY… “The truth is that all relationships take time, effort, commitment and energy. You need to make time for each other, to do fun things together, to work on communication, and to learn to negotiate and compromise.“
MYTH 2: “The relationship should be conflict free”
WELL ACTUALLY…”Because we are each individual and unique we all disagree with others at times, so conflict is natural, and not to be feared. In fact, conflict can force us to confront our differences, and to grow as individuals, and as couples too.”
MYTH 3: “Soul mates are romantic.”
WELL ACTUALLY: “Real life is not the movies, and love can be expressed in countless different ways, and still be genuine. Look out for all the signs that show your partner cares, and don’t be disappointed if they’re not ‘the stereotype’. Don’t force them to be something that is maybe not their style.”
MYTH 4: “You should always see things the same way and have the same opinions, outlooks and beliefs.”
WELL ACTUALLY… “You both have different backgrounds and have individual brains so you’re going to sometimes differ in the way you look at life. That needn’t be a problem – you don’t want to be clones.”
MYTH 5: “My soul mate will always like and love me.”
WELL ACTUALLY… “Consideration, respect and a concern for your partner are symptoms of a loving relationship. But being rude and disrespectful or irresponsible are not endearing qualities that build relationships. Instead, we need to give to get – as it’s not ‘all about me’”.
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