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there's probably a better way of wording the last part but like come on it doesn't matter if we're all the same to fascists

ariesrin

I love characters who would die for each other but will not, under any circumstances, communicate a single honest feeling.

90s-kid-sad-adult

lie to me

#btvs #:((((

ominous-signs

Sign I saw near a beach in California a few years ago.

dogpuppy

squirrelly-13

they got married btw

visit-me-here-in-wonderland

oh you’re not kidding

#aww

sforzzz

it's totally ok to dislike things. right?

sforzzz

i have to go delete some posts

spaceshipsandpurpledrank

thatlowvice

He's right

#video #videos

andreablog2-deactivated20220425

I come from a mental illness dynasty

dykeleftinhotcar

it's kind of like we live in medieval times cause everything is mid and evil

wizardarchetypes

i think avoidance is such a little-recognized ocd compulsion. all the time i talk to people with ocd who are like "i was always having intrusive thoughts about using kitchen knives and harming myself or others but i'm okay now because i just stopped using knives ever 👍 so i'm good now"

and i'm like unfortunately i have bad news.

wizardarchetypes

if you don't know why this doesn't work, the issue is that ocd never stops when you implement a compulsion. it evolves. today you've "solved" it by never using a knife again (and losing access to an important cooking tool, thus limiting an aspect of your life) but in a few months or a year it'll be that forks are dangerous too. and hey, isn't it risky to use the stove? avoidance will even begin to manifest in places you might not recognize.

the point is that OCD compulsions are never solutions, they're actually the problems. the intrusive thoughts SEEM like the problem and the compulsions FEEL like the solution. and that's how it getsya.

wizardarchetypes

i once saw a serial killer on the news wearing green and became fixated on the obsession that if i wore green it would like. hypnotize me into serial killing in my sleep (???) so i didn't wear the color green for an entire year. and of course being OCD i knew how "stupid" that was and that i wouldn't actually be effected by green clothes. i didn't actually believe that! but the fear didn't need to be real; the distress was real.

looking back it's so funny. like. dude my eyes are green. i was never safe hahahaaaa

BUFFY THE VAMPIRE SLAYER 3.02 | 6.04

Giles moves to get the sugar - stops when he hears BUFFY'S LAUGHTER ring above the other voices. Hidden from the others by a cabinet, they do not see Giles' mask fall for a moment. He fights tears, his relief is palpable. — "Dead Man's Party" script, written by Marti Noxon

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