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I’m literally the happiest girl when I’m in my own little world doing my own cute little things

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… And learn to have the awareness to not take out those “moods” on others

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Choose a partner with these core qualities-

loving, humble, self controlled, grateful, loyal, peaceful, and spiritually anchored- this creates a psychologically safe and emotionally regulated relationship. These traits foster trust, stability & mutual respect, which are important for secure attachment & long term emotional well being. They reduce chaos, increase emotional intelligence & help maintain open communication, which allows both people to grow together rather than against each other. A partner with this character profile isn’t just good on paper. They help co regulate your nervous system, provide inner peace & build a relationship grounded in safety, purpose & emotional maturity

More qualities:

Loving

Humble

Self controlled

Generous

Respectful

Grateful

Loyal

Kind

Peaceful

Emotionally grounded/mature

Spiritually anchored

Teachable

Trustworthy

Disciplined

Authentic

Not impulsive or reckless

Loving good rather than pleasure

Accountable

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‘Love is an organic thing. It rots and softens.’

Words by Clementine Von Radics

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The best way to treat yourself is to treat yourself in your love language. So for example, If your love language is acts of service, try doing small, intentional things that make your life easier because you deserve to feel supported by you. This is one of the ways you will feel most fulfilled. Also remember that we teach people how to treat us, by how we treat ourselves

Acts of service: Cleaning your space, prepping your meals, planning your week, booking needed appointments, taking your vitamins, setting reminders, doing what you said you would do

Quality time: Take walks, sit in silence, read a book you love, journal, turning off your phone, making time just for you

Receiving gifts: Buy yourself flowers, order your favorite food, invest in things that are meaningful to you, wear something special just because, gift yourself something thoughtful

Words of affirmation: Write yourself a love note, say nice things in the mirror, make a gratitude list, read affirmations daily, celebrate yourself

Physical touch: Apply body oil, yoga or stretching, warm baths, gua sha or face roller, hug yourself, get a massage

love yourself, you deserve it 🤍