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@craftgender
Iâm so sick of yâallâs shit stopïżŒ
not 2 be controversial on main but i think itâs pretty sad the first major generation to grow up online is projecting their adolescent self-hatred onto the âcringeâ generation of tiktokkers
did zillennials seriously spend their youth making OC fanart on devart and livejournal and being told âoh look, they finally emergeâ by their parents whenever they risked leaving their room only to turn around 10 years later and say âewwwh you spent hours cosplaying an OC & learning a viral dance in your bedroom? fuckin cringeâ
likeâŠ.. did we truly lose sight so quickly of how it was to feel young and disconnected and desperate for someone, anyone, to really listen to you? to feel close to you? how quickly have we become jaded to the joys of carefully, earnestly crafting something alone in a dark bedroom and sharing it with the world, hoping for just one other person to say âthatâs how i feel, tooâ? how much must we hate our younger selves in order to blame the teenagers of the world for creating costumes and dances and dreams for themselves???
Tumblr in a nutshell
a thread about a thing that keeps happening for some reason that I am still wildly unqualified for
I posted this less than two weeks ago and it is already relevant again âïž
not that itâs an excuse, but people are lonely and lack role models they can trust. I can see why a queer teen might be asking online strangers if itâs safe to come out to their parents if thereâs no trustworthy adults in their life
oh for sure dude, the why was never in question here and I can absolutely understand the reasons that people do this, especially young folks! But as you said, itâs no excuse for putting that kind of unwarranted pressure onto a total stranger. They donât know anything about the factors in the askerâs life which could be affected by any response they might give, and the asker doesnât know what mental weight the person might be carrying in their own life already that their question may only end up adding to.
Whatâs important here is making the where clear. (or at least, the where else) - If people need advice then there are plenty of places online that are actually dedicated to giving it that are going to have way better & more genuinely helpful answers than the inboxes of random people will be able to provide; and itâs vital for said random people to stress that fact rather than be expected or feel obliged to give advice they are not qualified to give.
people make a lot of touch-starved gay jokes about Lush but the truth is itâs not a gay experience, itâs a human experience. no one is safe, no one is immune.
you walk in there for the first time thinkinâ Iâm gonna buy some hand soap today and then some dude who smells like something impossible, like heâs being described by a YA author, he smells like lavender, leather, and the steam coming from hot pavement after a short summer rain,
That guy. He comes up to you and he asks if he can help you sample something. He leads you to a small, metal basin of water. Itâs so pastoral, itâs so quaint. You can imagine it sitting beside your bed with a porcelain pitcher in your farm cottage for you to use to wash your face in the morning.
He rolls up your sleeve a bit, and you awkwardly apologize for not doing it yourself, and he says itâs fine.
Sir LeatherRain gently rinses your hand in the warm water, and then he dries it off attentively. Then he massages some of the product into your palm. Itâs the cinnamon bean massage bar. He says âdonât you love how it feels warm as you rub it in?â
Heâs making more direct eye contact with you than youâve ever made in your entire life.
As he finishes, a woman who smells like coffee beans and pink-skied winter sunrises approaches and says âoh I LOVE that product.â
You know itâs about the sell. Itâs transactional, but youâre in love. You canât help it.
Youâre also More uncomfortable than youâve ever been in your entire life.
As you walk away to the register, you clench your hand and unclench it like Mr. Darcy when he touches Elizabeth Bennetâs hand to help her out of a coach.
As someone whoâs worked at Lush I assure you itâs just as weirdly intimate to be the one rubbing lotions into other peopleâs skin
oh thank god
Where's the way to your heart?
Mrs (mistress) - feminine / female
Mr (master/mister) - masculine / male
Ms (mss/miss) - feminine / neutral
Mx (mix) - neutral / otherly
Me (mistree) - neutral
Mn (misen/missen/mixen) - neoneutralÂ
Ml (misla) - neutral / otherlyÂ
Mb (misby/misbie) - neutral / enbinine
De/Dá” (done) - neutral / otherly
Mt (mixt/mistix) - demineutral / young mix
Mrx (mirx) - neutral / xenine / otherly
Mz/mzz (miz/mizz) - unknown / undefined
Mt from srt. (señorito/senhorito (young sir), srte. for señorite/senhorite (young mix), hence señorita/senhorita means single/young lady/mistress or specifically mademoiselle/madam). Senhoria is often translated as feud / manor / lordship / seigniory / madamhood / ladyship / landlady, not as in property or ownership, but as in mistery / mystery, âyou all/mysteriesâ (vossas senhorias / vuestra merced) / mastery/masteries / folkness / personhood / peoplekind. -E suffix of done/dá” (neutral of donship) can be replaced with Y (dony/dÊž), I (doni/dâ±) and X (donx/dËŁ).
i think some people connect pronoun non conformity with feminine men and masculine women but thatâs not always the case. she/her men can be feminine sure, but they can also be masc, neutral, androgynous, or something else. he/him women can be masculine, but they can also be feminine, neutral, androgynous, or something else.
same shit, different fandom
What happened?
what do you think happened.
people got pissy over someone not being mentally ill in the âright wayâ and having interests outside of what is deemed âacceptableâ
This deserves an Oscar
Is this the sibling dance person?
Why is it okay when other people have weird hyperinterests but when we have a hyperinterest in gore and death and car crashes and shit like that, weâre awful people who deserve death threats and harassment
Ever wonder if youre the reason a homophobe exists? Im pretty sure ive made like at least 5 people homophobic
Like yall ever think a straight person interacted with u and went
Like as soon as u left
How do those boots taste?
@vinegaregrette
You know what a nonbinary person is, right? That's a person who is neither a man nor a woman. Because most people are handed one of those genders when they are born, and nonbinary people don't identify with that gender given to them, nonbinary people are transgender.
"Enbyphobia" is one of a few terms that refers to bigotry against nonbinary people on the basis of their nonbinary identity. It's transphobia specific to nonbinary people. Alternative terms include "nonbinaryphobia," "exorsexism," and "ceterophobia".
Unfortunately, there are binary trans people (that is, trans men and women) who are enbyphobic. Famous alt-right trans woman Blaire White is my favorite example of this. She staunchly believes, in spite of every field of science, that there are only two genders and has referred to nonbinary people as "trans-r_tarded" cis invaders of the trans community.
The meme is saying that enbyphobic rhetoric (such as claims that there are only two genders or that nonbinary people aren't "trans enough") is oppressive against nonbinary people even when fellow trans people exert it.
The opinion offends some binary trans people because they believe they, as a trans person, cannot be transphobic in any way. This is false.
In the case of enbyphobic trans women, who are known to be more oppressed in society than TME people (people who don't experience transmisogyny), this oppression is considered to be lateral oppression-- trans women are nowhere near the main cause of the problem, but ones who spout enbyphobia contribute to the main problem, which is enbyphobia from cis (not trans) people.
I hope this helps!
In order to stop the culture of faking orgasms, we need to stop the culture of shaming others for their sexual experiences.
Canât get your partner off on the first try? Cool. You can still be thoughtful and make them feel good.
Can get your partner off within 30 seconds? Awesome, good for you both, donât let it get to your head.
Can make someone cum in less than 5, but for others, itâs a process that takes an hour? Thatâs alright, everyoneâs different.Â
Does it take you 30 minutes to cum? Thatâs okay, youâre not broken, youâre not a failure.
Does it take you 10 seconds to cum? Thatâs great, youâre not a slut, youâre not overly sensitive or dirty.Â
Canât cum without toys/vibrators? Thatâs awesome, thatâs a valid part of sexual play!
Can only cum with loving, vanilla sex? Thatâs perfectly normal, and you will find lots of great partners to experience that with!
Canât orgasm at all? THATâS ALSO COOL. Itâs not a bad thing, you can still enjoy sex TONNES just like others.
Orgasms are NOT the defining characteristic of your sexual prowess. They are great, theyâre lovely when they happen, but for the love of science, stop bringing them up higher than they need to be.Â
This oneâs a pretty big deal.  âDid you come?â Â
No, but it still felt great
Yes, and it felt really great
Yes, but coming isnât that big a deal for me
No, can you keep going?
Yes, can you keep going?
No, do you want to watch me get myself off?
Yes, but donât get a big head about it â I come so easily it doesnât matter what you do.
No, but I bet I can get you up again
Yes, but Iâd rather keep edging because I always get a huge drop after coming and it really puts me off sex for a while
No, thank you, orgasm denial leaves me deliciously horny for days
No, and Iâm really frustrated, letâs brainstorm how to change that
All of these are fucking awesome answers. Including the last one. Theyâre also 100% legitimate answers. Including the last one.
Only the last one is even a little bit ânegative,â and, really, how bad, arrogant, or egocentric a lover do you have to be that youâd rather not know when your partner says âhere are some great ways to help me come next time, lover?â
If on the other hand youâre going to panic or be unhappy about that last answer then youâre not a bad lover (no shame either way) but your sex life will be less workable. With the result that youâll continue having, well, the same result.
To be honest, whether you or your partner comes isnât the most important thing about sex. Itâs whether youâre both satisfied afterwards. The only trick being thatÂ
You get to decide what âsatisfiedâ means for you
You donât get to decide what âsatisfiedâ means for your partner(s.) Â
Asking âdid you comeâ isnât really the right question.  âDoes this work for youâ is way healthier. Thatâs the culture we want to look for and encourage.
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P.S. Your partner isnât a video game. His or her orgasms arenât a boss fight. The question you want to ask isnât âdid I beat the previous high scoreâ but âwould you like to play again.â
Love this!!!
Heck yes!
also âcoming togetherâ is something that rarely happens⊠most ppl cant cum at the same time as the other person, itâs almost impossible
People who use it/its pronouns are braver than any cop will ever be