#QueerBarista

28, PVD

[bluegrasshole]

some of you have never had a customer service job and it shows

[madamspeaker]

The mood of 2017, a visual representation.

[rockybalboaconstrictor]

[generic-equivalent]

I signed up for this class today !

[crawford-sc]

👏 YOU 👏 ARE 👏 SO 👏 GREAT 👏

[chewables-deactivated20180405]

I wanna be that person who just radiates nice energy like, I wanna be that person who you’ve never spoken to before but you think of me as a friend already. I wanna be that person you feel that you can come to for advice whenever, or someone who makes you feel better by just talking to you. I’m gonna try really hard to be that person.

[learning2swim]

I think relationships in general are over romanticized like at the end of the day I’m pretty sure a good relationship is just two people who know how to hang out and talk to each other not whether or not they can right all your wrongs or paint a picture of a thousand suns with the breath from your lungs or some shit

[generic-equivalent]

#nationalselfieday (at West End, Providence)

[crawford-sc]

My best friend 😍

[infull-livingcolour-deactivated]

I find comfort in knowing that people who I’ve cut out of my life are left with this version of me that simply doesn’t exist anymore. The memory and image of me that they have isnt who I am, and I’m happy that it’s that way. I’ve changed and grown and they wont ever get the chance to know the better version of myself that I’ve become during their absence.

[generic-equivalent]

Chelsea Handler is my new mom.

[ruinedchildhood]

[smilingavocado]

she’s beauty, she’s grace, she’s tired of forced heterosexual relationships in movies

[sapphire-crimson-claw-archive-d]

My most popular tweet right now is about welcoming intersex, nb, and ace/aro people into pride. Let’s get it going on here, too.

REBLOG IF YOU FEEL THAT INTERSEX, NB, AND ACE/ARO PEOPLE SHOULD BE WELCOMED AT PRIDE, BELONG AT PRIDE, ETC

[drunp-archive-deactivated201711]

this is peak Craigslist

[sappling]

I say i’m bi but my burning hatred for men says im gay

[bombshellssonly]

@jennifermcking

[directedbywongkarwai]

@4wallsfrnkremix @medusabraids

[generic-equivalent]

@crawford-sc

[crawford-sc]

😍😍😍

[wetheurban]

HOW TO HELP TORTURED GAY MEN IN CHECHNYA

We can’t allow this to continue. A petition has also been launched by change.org and signed by tens of thousands of people.

It demands a full investigation of all the facts and unlawful repression in Chechnya of the LGBT population and calls for punishment for the ‘guilty parties’ and the end to the practice of extra-judicial violence.

You can sign that here.

Instagram.com/WeTheUrban

[musinvenusian]

Can y'all share this please???

[strangehorse]

my boyfriend and I sometimes struggle to be on the same page when it comes to comforting- often i just want to vent and don’t need advice, whereas validation confuses him and he wants a plan of action

to counter this, we’ve come up with a system where we ask: “do you want advice, empathy, both or neither?” 

if it’s just advice, i know to go straight to action points and not spend time on fluffy words 

if it’s just empathy, he knows i want to be reassured and comforted and that’s all

if it’s both, it’s time for advice that recognises how hard the situation is and is perhaps gentler in nature

if it’s neither, just a hug is really good

i recommend trying to use this in your lives! it makes sure you’re giving and getting what you need, and reduces the risk of resentment or similar