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No. I'm not looking for a sugar daddy/mummy. I'm not interested in viewing dick pics. I'm not interested in watching cam girls. I'm not looking for a relationship. So please leave me the fuck alone.

Those who want a friend, who's absolutely willing to talk and listen to you, you're free to message me :)

#me #important #no means no #no

the-s-s-anna

I wanna tell you guys a story,

Not too long ago, my friend Bella came out as aromantic to me, and now I’ve got some things to say.

I was the one who told her what aromantic means, because I was explaining different sexual orientations to her. I remember saying, “Asexualiy is when you have romantic attraction, but no sexual attraction.”

Bella immedently, without missing a beat, asked, “Is there an opposite to that?”

I asked what she meant, and she asked if there was a term for sexual attraction but no romantic attraction. I told her about aromantics. She got weirdly quiet, then excused herself.

Not two weeks later I was heading to my boat. I was supposed to meet Bella and another one of our muteral friends there for a day of fishing.

As soon as I was in earshot, I saw Bella storming off the boat, and our other friend standing there like an idiot. Boi had no idea what was happening.

Anyway, Bella isn’t looking where she’s going and walks smack dab into me. That’s when I realized she was crying. Puffy red eyes, wet cheeks, the whole nine yards… And if you know anything about Bells, she does not cry. Ever.

She’s been through some serious crap in her life, and she does not cry. She’s tough as nails. Bella has a steel core. She does not not cry. I’ve seen her fall off a roof and break her arm before, not a single tear. I can’t stress this enough, Bella. Doesn’t. Cry.

So seeing her in tears shook me. I took her by the shoulders and escorted her somewhere more private where we could talk. We ended up in the women’s restroom, which was weird as fuck for me, because haven’t been in a woman’s rest room for years. Luckily it was empty, and I’m realistic, I know I don’t pass so well, so I don’t think anyone would have said anything anyway.

Before I can even ask her what’s wrong she hugs me around my middle and burys her face in my hoodie. Then, in a voice I can only describe as traumatized, she says, “I think I’m broken.”

I’ve never seen her in so much pain, and Bella and I are CLOSE. She’s one of my dearest friends. She’s like my little sister, but if she’s like my sister, our other muteral friend is like her twin. He and Bella have know each other WAY longer, they’re practically inseparable. They come as a pair. They’re a duo. They’re a package deal.

Appearently, said muteral friend asked Bella out and forcefully kissed her. She shoved him off, and told him she’s aromantic, which she only recently figured out. She wasn’t ready to be out, but this muteral friend left her no choice. She tried telling him no, and he didn’t listen. Bella saw no other option.

Quote on quote, this is what he said to Bella. “That’s okay. You just haven’t dated me yet. We’ve been like, unofficially together for years. You’re probably just freaked out that it’s finally going somewhere.”

After that I’m not 100% clear on what happened, but apparently Bella kept saying no Nd trying to explain herself, but he kept insisting he could ‘fix her.’

Eventudally she started crying and stormed away. That’s when I found her.

Keep in mind, this was her first experience coming out, and her best, closest friend insisted he could fix her and forcefully kissed her. I found out later he also implied corrective rape would ‘solve the problem.’

Bella was traumatized. She’s still traumatized. I tried to make her feel better by buying her an aro pride shirt, and taking her go a local LGBTQ+ hang out. I wanted her to be around like minded people, so she could see she wasn’t broken, and her identity deserved to be respected.

Instead of a warm, welcoming environment… The first thing someone said to her was, “This place is for REAL lgbt people. You don’t belong here.” He also implied she wasn’t human.

Just think about that for a minute. Her first experiences with being an out aromantic have been limited to;

A person she trusted more than anyone forcing himself upon her, claiming she was ill, and needed to be fixed. (Raped.)

Sobbing in my arms in the women’s restroom because she thought she was broken and defective.

Being told she wasn’t welcomed in LGBTQ+ spaces and called inhuman.

This isn’t what I want for her. Bella deserves better than this. She needs a support system, not all this crap. I’ve spent the past week trying to undo all the damage exclusionists, arophobes, and people she trusted did.

Aromantics and asexuals belong in the LGBTQ+ community. You literally cannot change my mind.

akamine-chan

Did I already queue this? Dunno. But let me say that I’ve never stood by while gatekeepers try to well, gatekeep.

I didn’t put up with it as a teenager really into sci-fi, I didn’t put up with it from the dude bros in game and comic shops, and I certainly won’t stand for it in my LGBT+ community.

Aces and aros are welcome in my community.

nylaporp

You bet your ass that aces and aros are allowed here. And you can fight me if you don’t agree.

mrdyketator

Reblog if you think aros and aces are inherently queer.

crazyshipper-23

Of course aromantic and asexual people are part of the LGBTQ community. They are valid. Love you all ❤️ Happy Pride Month🏳️‍🌈

blushbi

this woman is single handedly running the gaybait anime industry im her biggest fan

crazyshipper-23

Such a Queen, I swear.

norisquared

crazyshipper-23

Facts tho.

forever-lynx

i love glow ups‼️ don’t you?🤔😁

forever-lynx

@ everyones replies

ashs-fishbone-deactivated202303

@ you

vicisintoomanyfandoms

Ash Lynx became Ashes.

I thought I was the only one who thought of that reference...

ashs-fishbone-deactivated202303

WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU PEOPLE

crazyshipper-23

I feel attacked. That was unnecessary 🙂

jiminrolls

a little reference to the dumpling incident

crazyshipper-23

Why are they so cute 🥺?

alexwritesfiction

in honour of pride month (and generally too) i just want to put it out there:

i’m a safe person to come out to <3

whether you’re on anon or not, whether you’re really coming out or just want reactions from a stranger / mutual’s blog, don’t be afraid.

take your time, drink water, and i promise you’ll be alright 🏳️‍🌈

We all admit, we wish we were that lolipop right?

#bts #bts butter #kim taehyung #ot7 #streamyoucowards #billboard 2021

sophie531896273240810891

let me relax……………will comment later…………………..

crazyshipper-23

Welp. this just made me feel even more lonely lmao

sailorprincessx

Intro Post

So, now that I'm back on tumblr, I decided to make an Intro post. Yay!! Hope you have the patience to read till the end lol. 😊😬

First things first.

I'm Gauri! I'm 16. I live in India. The definition of the word: extrovert. 21st of October is my birthday 🎉

My pronouns are she/her. Straight ally to the LGBTQIA+ community 🏳️‍🌈. Supporter of the Black Lives Matter movement. Advocate of #StopAsianHate. Against Toxic Masculinity.

I love reading. Movies and tv shows are my holy grail. Literally of any language too. Music is one of the things I'm most passionate about.

I'm in a million fandoms. I'm really not gonna waste time listing them all. ( although - ARMY💜💜 )

I am a huge BTS stan. Shoutout to my best friend, Lasya for introducing me to them. Seriously, show any hate to those precious 7 boys, then army's coming for your ass. K-pop is life, you guys!

I'm really into fanfiction, both writing and reading. Make up and shopping are few of my favourite things to do.

I'm super friendly, supportive and very affectionate. I'm the online friend that you're inviting to your wedding, y'all😉. I've always got my friends' back :)

I'm mostly a chill person, but like any human I can be a bit snappy and bitchy at times. Not to mention I freak out at the smallest things. Bit of a control freak too lol😅

Anyone's free to message me. I love making new friends. I'd be more than happy to lend an ear :) I give excellent advice, if I do say so myself.

Remember, everyone deserves love. Please try to be kind. ❤️