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@creativesugarldn
Don’t speak about doing, do. Spend less time planning and more time executing. Don’t overcomplicate mastery. You already know the formula, but you are fearful and lazy and meek. Stop. Don’t waste your potential. Don’t give the slightest edge to your weakness. Smile and work and suffer and win your success.
https://www.instagram.com/p/CA_FlKlnopa/
Essential Steps followed by the most successful courtesans:
She drastically improves her appearance.
She upgrades her knowledge of etiquette and manners and improves her social skills.
She changes her environment in order to increase the chances of meeting men with money.
She makes a conscious decision to stop associating herself with men of lesser means and inferior position.
She continues climbing no matter what, because settling is never an option.
From ‘How to Date Like a Courtesan’ by Celeste Mgboli
In his scheme of things, it was fine if a woman wanted money and gifts as well; he could understand that desire, and he was a generous man. But he also felt that this was a desire a woman should disguise - she should create the impression that what she was after was pleasure. The person who is obviously angling for money or other material reward can only repel. If that is your intention, if you are looking for something other than pleasure - for money, for power - never show it. The suspicion of an ulterior motive is anti-seductive.
Never let anything break the illusion.
- about Casanova and his encounter with a Countess. From Robert Greene’s The Art of Seduction
I know it’s not the best to project into the future, however I always become subtlety giddy when I think about the woman I will be, the woman I’m becoming. I think of all the literature I want to consume and greedily digest. I think of all the words to cultivate and expand my vocabulary and speech. I think of all the languages I plan to be fluent in. The art I want to create, the images and feelings I want to convey through writing. I think of how I will be stylish, the poise I will obtain; the grace I will carry on my shoulders and the humbleness I will drape over my arm. I think of my intellectual and spiritual growth and healing, and how it will emanate outward and manifest into abundance.
And not all days are good, but they are never completely bad, and the divine timing between and the taming of my restlessness moves me forward. I’m always reminded that things are falling into place and that there is reward in the progress before the final outcome. It gives me a happiness that is comforting.
Working towards the woman I wish to become, cultivating myself and expanding my horizons to the best of my abilities always puts that knowing smile on my face. I know I’m becoming what I want to be and more. And the time in-between is such a beautiful time that we often try to rush through
The thing is:
Online... men understand they are the prize. Multiple aspiring SBs and hoes used every tactic on them already so they know they have something women want. You’re not special online. There’s no need to entice or spend on you because he knows he can swipe right on easier targets, or naive women who don’t know their worth.
Meeting in person... men understand women are the prize. In person, a woman will rarely chase a man; rarely do we compliment them, charm them, approach them etc, so when we do, that’s when we capitalize. He can’t swipe right on a hottie in real life, but he can and will impress, spend, and swipe his card for one that he wants.
It’s a slower game, but when have instant results ever rewarded anyone.
It only takes one, or two, or three or four good ones. Stay on your game. Hustle strong. One very rich man who happens to really like you can change your life… don’t worry about the people you don’t click with and don’t let rejection get you down. If he won’t give you the world, you haven’t met him yet.
Tip:
I’m the type of girl that’s mostly only interested in attractive or semi attractive clients/sugar daddies (stupid, I know) Every time younger, attractive POT’s on SA reach out to me I assume that they think they’re superior (this usually isn’t a problem on tinder, mostly SA.) To let them know that they aren’t shit, I message them something along the lines of “Sorry, an arrangement with us wouldn’t work. Only older men are capable of turning me on in bed. Best of luck to you xx” Watch how competitive they become. This has worked for me almost every time, not only do they give me more money than they would’ve given me if I hadn’t mentioned that (I’m assuming) but it let’s them know that THEY have to be good in bed as well, and I’ve noticed the men that I use that line on become a lotttt more invested in me than my regular older clients/SD’s which is hilarious.
when marilyn monroe said “i’ve never fooled anyone. i’ve let people fool themselves. they didn’t bother to find out who and what i was. instead they would invent a character for me. i wouldn’t argue with them. they were obviously loving somebody i wasn’t.”
The 48 Laws of Power
Never outshine the master.
Never put too much trust in friends.
Conceal your intentions.
Always say less than necessary.
So much depends on reputation; guard it with your life.
Court attention at all costs.
Get other to do the work for you, but always take the credit.
Make other people come to you; use bait if necessary.
Win through your actions, never through argument.
Infection: avoid the unhappy and unlucky.
Learn to keep people dependent on you.
Use selective honesty & generosity to disarm your victim.
Pose as a friend, work as a spy.
Crush your enemy totally.
When asking for help, appeal to people’s self-interests, never to their mercy or gratitude.
Use absence to increase respect and honor.
Keep others in suspended terror: cultivate an air of unpredictability.
Do not build fortresses to protect yourself. Isolation is dangerous.
Know who you’re dealing with; do not offend the wrong person.
Do not commit to anyone.
Play a sucker to catch a sucker; play dumber than your mark.
Use the surrender tactic: transform weakness into power.
Concentrate your forces.
Play the perfect courtier.
Re-create yourself.
Keep your hands clean.
Play on people’s need to believe to create a cult like following.
Enter action with boldness.
Plan all the way to the end.
Make your accomplishments seem effortless.
Control the options: get others to play with the cards you deal.
Play to people’s fantasies.
Discover each man’s thumbscrew.
Be royal in your fashion: act like a king to be treated like one.
Master the art of timing.
Disdain things you cannot have: Ignoring them is the best revenge.
Create compelling spectacles.
Think as you like but behave like others.
Stir up waters to catch fish.
Despise the free lunch.
Never appear perfect.
Avoid stepping into a great man’s shoes.
Strike the shepherd and the sheep will scatter.
Work on the hearts and minds of others.
Disarm and infuriate with the mirror effect.
Preach the need for change, but never reform too much at once.
Do not go past the mark you aimed for; in victory, learn when to stop.
Assume formlessness.
Some things are not meant for me.. Poverty is one of them.
I second this! Just a thought for my fellow black women: Femininity & Opulence > Poverty & Caping