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[ Cryl / Artie ✧ It / He ✧ 21 ]

Used to be @crylbun ! Kept up the previous blog for archival reasons.

[ Bluesky / 18+ Bluesky / Strawpage / Toyhouse / @artcrylll <- art blog ]

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leowantsfood

Contemplating self-awareness

caspercryptid

I would actually go as far as to say that MOST abuse is unintentional. I think most people will go through their lives without ever experiencing intentional abuse. People are abusive because they're selfish, because they're stressed, because they care more about what society thinks they should do than the impacts of their actions on their children and partners, because they think what they're doing is correct, because they've made it make sense in their own heads, because they think they can fix their victims, they think they can fix their relationships, they think they can stop you from leaving, they think they can make you a better partner to them, they think that means you need to do what they want. We've sort of constructed mental illness in a way that doing this shit to other people counts as a form of mental illness because it is anti social behavior in the literal sense— it is behavior that causes social harm.

I don't say any of this to excuse it. I think everyone needs to be more aware of this because if you think abuse has to be intentional you will never realize you are capable of abusive behavior. You will never realize you are being shitty to the people you love, because YOU know what you mean, YOU know you don't mean any harm. But you're doing harm. You need to pay attention to the impact you have on other people, and you need to do it all the time, Especially when you feel least capable of doing so. Sorry! You live in a society. Get your head out of your ass.

wolfsteax

I humbly offer this contribution.

buckwheat-pillow

let my thirty-sixth post be of IM NOT DEAD YET

emp-roar

Gravitas Humanitas.

birth of humanity and dignity.

bradenbaul

The doorman at work

itheginger

i love the linguistic trend of expressing something difficult to describe by just not including an adjective where there usually would be one. “i had a day today,” or “he’s definitely one of the characters of all time.”

it’s like i can’t describe this so i just won’t. you get it tho.